posted April 20, 2020 07:55 AM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Me: gem sun (8th house), scorpio rising, Virgo moon
Hubby: lib sun, cancer rising, Scorpio moon

Attraction is off the scale but can swing both ways. Definitely teaching each other a LOT and requires LOTS of patience.

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Hi EmGem,

Sorry for the super late response for the email, been rocky with the relationship and I took some times to really gather myself again that I didn't open my email for weeks and I missed yours.

Looking at your reply here that your hubby is a Libra sun/Scorpio moon, it's my Gemini's husband' long time ex placement, Libra/Scorpio mix. My husband is a Gemini sun/Capricorn moon.

Strangely that I think he is better with her than with me (although at the end he chooses me and only give me the answer that I am totally different than her). I can't stand with the love/hate consistent dynamic that driving me crazy where I feel like it's an emotional torture but then good times taste manipulation (where did he learn that?). And I have found both Gemini and Scorpio love that kind of consistent mood swings graphic in a relationship, although a lil bit different how they love and how they hate. For me, I just love stable home/relationship energy, I don't like constant bickering, nagging, or arguing. It drags me down to negativity. If I love you, I love you, I let you be you but just be responsible. If I hate you, why would I stay and hurt you in the process? It's just too toxic for me, that kind of uncertain emotions.

I think my husband has a hard time to move on from his past relationship because it affected him so much, bad and good. I even encourage him to go back to his past but he refuses. He is so confusing and I think he used to confused a lot in the past.