posted December 04, 2020 05:57 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
They like to please in bed but are secretly jealous and are capable of cruel things like murder.

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posted December 05, 2020 02:25 AM            

This is a true story: I once dated a man with a Gem Sun/Scorpio Moon. He had a kind heart and he was well liked. Funny! Always had a minute to spare for everyone.
He drank a lot of alcohol!!!
I left my ex for him that also had a Scorpio Moon (Pisces Sun).

Once during a more private moment he bit me REALLY hard on my thigh. It scared me and I recall telling a friend of mine that had known him since earlier. This friend also told me that the Scorpio moon had previously been with a woman that, when he was drunk, he had tied up in bed, during a house party, and then he opened the bedroom door and told everyone to go and look at her.

The have high sex drive and like to please.

Actually, now that I think about it, the only Scorpio moon that I’ve been with that wasn’t messed up, was the Pisces Sun!

They all seem to have a helpful streak where they either want to help people or animals but deep down, there’s almost always something brewing..

posted December 05, 2020 02:41 AM            

Scorpio moon men can be extraordinarily cruel if they are not the evolved type. These are the ones that you want to avoid. A general rule of thumb: avoid the ones who are younger than 25. There are exceptions, obviously, but most scorpio moons are quite immature (i.e. walking red flags) until they are about 25. When they are immature, their jealousy can spiral out of control, which causes them to engage in less than desirable behavior (i.e. stalking, throwing temper tantrums, getting revenge over silly things, etc).

However, once they are able to learn to control their emotions and acquire some maturity, they are absolutely wonderful to be around! Scorpio moon men are by far the sweetest men you'll ever meet in my experience once they are evolved. They are loyal, compassionate and very considerate of others. You won't find a better friend or significant other.

If you are unlucky enough to fall for a scorpio moon man who has not evolved, then you need to run away as quickly as possible. These types are among the most dangerous in the zodiac.

When dealing with a scorpio moon man, please be honest. You should be honest in any relationship, of course, but scorpio moon men take dishonesty a lot harder than other moon signs. They may forgive, but they never forget. They will not see you in the same way if you show a lack of integrity. If you are flat out unsure of your feelings, just tell them you are unsure and need to think about it. Never tell them something just to appease them just because you think that's what they want to hear. If they are asking you a question, it's because they want to know what YOU think/feel.

One of the frustrating things that many people complain about with scorpio moon men is that they are very slow to open up and reveal their feelings to you. They expect you to spill you guts, but they keep their emotions and thoughts to themselves. This simply means they are still sizing you up to determine just how much they should reveal to you (if anything at all). This is why I suggest being honest from the start: say what you mean and mean what you say. If you establish through your behavior that you are honest, then they will open up very quickly.

posted December 05, 2020 03:36 AM            

Our falling out came to a head during a well planned hike in the White Mountains. He had apparently prepared better than I had come to find out as he started running a couple months or so before (and I hadn't, because I usually had a lot more stamina/endurance and speed than him on previous hikes). Anyways, he took off 5 days from work, which was a big deal for him as he had a young kid and a spouse.

Anyways, a few days in and the Whites were kicking my arse, and he was doing relatively ok. It got bad enough that I started to worry about having a severe accident/fall, and against what I wanted, I decided that I had to call the trip early. He was understandably majorly bummed and kind of upset. I understood that, and I felt really bad about it. I didn't make the decision lightly. Besides the fatigue etc, I also had a nasty skin infection that was causing me pain.

The ride back to his place was mostly quiet but sullen, and he occasionally make some remarks about how he wished we finished it. I just kind of ignored it but was starting to get upset. When we got back to his place, both of us tired, emotional, stressed, he started making more comments along similar lines.

I must have given him a look that was more Plutonic/Scorpionic than Scorpio and said in a quiet, but intense voice filled with real anger and menace, "You say another godam thing about us leaving early, and I will punch you in the face." VERY unlike me. Shadows of my earlier childhood rage, which I had mostly transmuted by that point.

We got into an arguement, and in tears, I said, "You never truly loved and accepted me" , stormed out, and we never talked since. I reached out to him a few years after trying to bury the hatchet, but he didn't respond.

We had had issues in our connection from the get go. I would occasionally bring up things like spirituality, astrology, metaphysics, some of my nonphysical experiences, and every single time he would get visibly or quietly upset. For some reason, all that stuff made him uncomfortable. He didn't want to believe in any of it for some reason. I tried to not talk about it around him, but these things were not only important to me, but the most important thing to me. I never truly felt accepted by him because of this difference between us. Yet, I very much loved him and accepted all his weird idiosyncrasies and issues--and was always there for him.

Like the time he sort of accidently cheated on his future spouse/then girlfriend. He was Mollied and LSD'd out of his mind (his girlfriend wasn't there), and a very wounded Lass who apparently really liked him, took advantage of his less than coherent state of mind during this camping trip, and while he was trying to sleep, she snuck in, got on top of him, and started riding him. I think his body went along with it and temporarily overwrote his deeper emotions/Soul level.

Anyways, he felt horrible and super shameful and guilty about it. Didn't know what to do. I counseled him and told him that he should be honest with his partner, that their love was strong, she would learn to forgive him (she's a Scorpio Sun/Moon and Leo Rising), and then I personally talked to her after he did, and told her that he was really out of his mind and had things been different, he wouldn't have gone along with it.

Anyways, so much for friends with Scorpio Moon eh.

My full brother has Scorpio Moon. He is an older Soul type. I don't really see too much of the classic negative traits of Scorpio Moon in him. He can be a little over controlled emotionally, but that's about it. He once told me that he just doesn't ever cry. I said, that's not necessarily a good thing. I think things may have changed since his daughters were born. We also have a somewhat intense and slightly stressful connection, but do get along pretty well for the most part, respect each other, and can vibe on some deep levels. I have Scorpio IC and the modern ruler of my DESC and Venus Signs--Uranus, is in Scorpio in the 4th. And the ruler of my Libra Moon, Venus, is trine Libra Pluto very closely.

Anyways, I both vibe with on some deeper levels with those with strong Scorpio, but at the same time, especially with men, there is some friction. With women that friction can be there, but it sometimes translates more to sexual tension/attraction.

I will say I have noticed that people with strong Scorpio, if we are closer, can bring out my shadow side more than most. Twin Soul 2 (female) has Scorpio Moon conjunct Pluto conjunct IC. She REALLY had a knack for stirring up my shadow side--probably more than anyone I have ever met. I seemed to have a similar effect on her as well.

Anyways, point is, Scorpio Moons can vary widely in behavior, expression, attunement, etc depending on the rest of the chart and how they use their freewill. As mentioned, my brother is a rather old Soul type. He has a lifetime that was one of the disciples of Yeshua. That lifetime is a part that went in to make up his current Soul. I often see that expression/energy within him. He is a true, positive type of leader.

Interestingly, with both my former best friend and my brother, I had these weird "love triangle connections/competitions" with. This post is already too long and rambling, so am not going to go into that.

posted December 05, 2020 03:55 AM            

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Like the time he sort of accidently cheated on his future spouse/then girlfriend. He was Mollied and LSD'd out of his mind (his girlfriend wasn't there), and a very wounded Lass who apparently really liked him, took advantage of his less than coherent state of mind during this camping trip, and while he was trying to sleep, she snuck in, got on top of him, and started riding him. I think his body went along with it and temporarily overwrote his deeper emotions/Soul level.

Anyways, he felt horrible and super shameful and guilty about it. Didn't know what to do.

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posted December 05, 2020 04:24 AM            

I mentioned it partly because this thread is about men with Moon in Scorpio.

Moon=women in general, mother figure, the kind of females a straight/bi man is attracted to or attracts, and Scorpio represents power struggles, very difficult experiences, sexual themes, obsession, sexual magnetism, deep but often polarized emotions, manipulation in both positive and negative ways, etc.

Could connect symbolically to the experience.

posted December 05, 2020 10:55 AM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Where I come from, this is called rape. It also completely reads like a rape story and would definitely be considered rape if it was the other way around. A person cannot consent when they are high. He guilt and shame come from being raped. What a **** story.

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posted December 05, 2020 02:40 PM            

I think the combo of that past/woundedness, along with being very attracted to/obsessed with my ex friend (and probably on some substances herself at the time), led to a very messed up, selfish, and hurtful decision. I don't excuse it, but chucking people in jail/prison is not always the best answer either.

Maybe a combination of counseling/therapy, and then after, having to listen to the personal accounts of a number of men that have been raped by women or other men, and hearing how this impacted them negatively, might be more fruitful in the long run than prison. It's not uncommon for people to get worse after being sent to prison. If she has a shred of felt empathy and conscience, that would be pretty tough to go through as well.

Ideally, only sociopathic and psychopathic people would be sent to prison, as these are extremely hard to reach and rehabilitate. Because there is such a lack of felt empathy and conscience and such superiority feelings about self, they often don't see anything wrong with themselves or their behavior and if anything view it as the better, more superior way.