posted March 04, 2021 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
And the placements of selfish stingy tight a s s men too would be good to know. My money is my money and your money is your money type..

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I'd say avoid men with Capircorn placements they tend to be stingy......while enriching themselves and leting there partner rot.

I think Leo and Libra men will flaunt the image of being a good provider even if they don't have any liquidity.

Upbringing has something to do with it too..

Sounds like your looking for a sugardady?
There was a girl I sorta talk to thats escorting..I don't judge her for it. She has other personal problems she's trying to overcome.

She's had much better luck with much, much older men..the only risk is they might have a heart attack right in the middle of everything, lol.

Target and aim for guys in there 60s!!!

posted March 04, 2021 08:40 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
I'd say avoid men with Capircorn placements they tend to be stingy......while enriching themselves and leting there partner rot.

I think Leo and Libra men will flaunt the image of being a good provider even if they don't have any liquidity.

Upbringing has something to do with it too..

Sounds like your looking for a sugardady?
There was a girl I sorta talk to thats escorting..I don't judge her for it. She has other personal problems she's trying to overcome.

She's had much better luck with much, much older men..the only risk is they might have a heart attack right in the middle of everything, lol.

Target and aim for guys in there 60s!!!

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posted March 04, 2021 09:21 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Men, who like to be the provider in a relationship. What aspects or placements indicate this in a man's chart?

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Scorpio and Capricorn like to be on top of things financially. Most earth signs in general.

posted March 04, 2021 01:02 PM            

It’s driven from being protective and territorial to some degree.

I’m more than just a provider in terms of of tangible things like money.

My family are my responsibility; as such, I make sure they have everything they need.

posted March 04, 2021 02:35 PM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
And the placements of selfish stingy tight a s s men too would be good to know.

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posted March 05, 2021 03:44 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
I'd say avoid men with Capircorn placements they tend to be stingy......while enriching themselves and leting there partner rot.

I think Leo and Libra men will flaunt the image of being a good provider even if they don't have any liquidity.

Upbringing has something to do with it too..

Sounds like your looking for a sugardady?
There was a girl I sorta talk to thats escorting..I don't judge her for it. She has other personal problems she's trying to overcome.

She's had much better luck with much, much older men..the only risk is they might have a heart attack right in the middle of everything, lol.

Target and aim for guys in there 60s!!!

My Planets
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☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑

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Do you think South Node in Cap in 2nd house screams tight a s s?

I dated a extremely wealthy Libra. Many placements in Libra, he was the biggest tight wad ever!! Drove an expensive car, wore designer clothes, travelled first class, lived in a penthouse apartment and spoke about himself in the 3rd person. Wouldn't help out anyone but himself.

Fu ck no to a sugar daddy! I did date a man who flew his helicopter to work as traffic is a nightmare. He was 20 years older. I felt sick when he stuck his tongue in my mouth after the date. 60s was just waaaaaay too old!

I'd rather be alone than with a man with money. Especially at this stage in my life.

posted March 05, 2021 08:12 AM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Do you think South Node in Cap in 2nd house screams tight a s s?

I dated a extremely wealthy Libra. Many placements in Libra, he was the biggest tight wad ever!! Drove an expensive car, wore designer clothes, travelled first class, lived in a penthouse apartment and spoke about himself in the 3rd person. Wouldn't help out anyone but himself.

Fu ck no to a sugar daddy! I did date a man who flew his helicopter to work as traffic is a nightmare. He was 20 years older. I felt sick when he stuck his tongue in my mouth after the date. 60s was just waaaaaay too old!

I'd rather be alone than with a man with money. Especially at this stage in my life.

I do wonder though, if I turn off men by wanting to be independent. As I know some men absolutely need to provide as they feel emasculated if they don't.

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posted March 05, 2021 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
....I'd rather be alone than with a man with money. Especially at this stage in my life.

I do wonder though, if I turn off men by wanting to be independent. As I know some men absolutely need to provide as they feel emasculated if they don't.

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We all give off diffrent vibes that tells us about ourselves, even our basic mannerisms say alot.

You probably mean well. I think you might have the same problem as
My best aquarious female friend.. I became freinds with her because she appeared right when I needed her help and I'm there when she needs something..

She's been burned by so many bad relationships she gives off a diffrent impression if you don't know her.

I remember her divorce she went throught with her Capircorn ex husband he kept a low key profile trying to appear as a nice guy image.

While she was worked up and angry about everything and at first glance one whould assume she was the monster.

It all turned arround after her Cap hubby got arrogant after winning the first rounds and people saw how manipulative he really was.

She does get worked up about things from time to time thought since the scars of her ex-husband still remerge from time to time.

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
There is nothing wrong with a woman being independent. And I don't know why a man would have an issue with this.

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There's a diffrence between a strong independent women and I have to be carefull in saying this the ones that give a feisty or unapproachable image.

My Leo next door neighbour is the strong independent female type she lives in the next unit beside me and can carry on without a male.

I whould have never been able afford the million dollar condo if it wasn't for my cancer parents investing in that property buying at the right time and passing it down to me....not sure if its a good idea since i'm falling under there control again.

Anyway I know she earned everything were she is today.

Whenever I get the mail, she always mantains a firm greating and profesonal aproachable interaction..thats a strong independent woman.

Then there are other females that scream ..just don't even make an interaction there's going to be more trouble then its acutally worth.

posted March 05, 2021 01:39 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
There's a diffrence between a strong independent women and I have to be carefull in saying this the ones that give a feisty or unapproachable image.

My Leo next door neighbour is the strong independent female type she lives in the next unit beside me and can carry on without a male.

I whould have never been able afford the million dollar condo if it wasn't for my cancer parents investing in that property buying at the right time and passing it down to me....not sure if its a good idea since i'm falling under there control again.

Anyway I know she earned everything were she is today.

Whenever I get the mail, she always mantains a firm greating and profesonal aproachable interaction..thats a strong independent woman.

Then there are other females that scream ..just don't even make an interaction there's going to be more trouble then its acutally worth.

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posted March 05, 2021 01:52 PM            

He helps his mother anytime its needed. He gives her all his food vouchers from work since his salary is big enough anyway.

She helped my mother and dad numerous times also, with many things and greatly enjoyed it.

Same with me but since I got my first job now I established boundaries. He still enjoys gifting me or providing me with anything if super needed, its his nature really

His placements:

posted March 05, 2021 03:44 PM            

Also strongly saturnian men also like to provide because they have strong sense of responsability and duty.

posted March 05, 2021 07:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I would say men with good aspects to their moon or their Venus. That mean they have warm feelings toward women and are more likely to want to provide.

Also strongly saturnian men also like to provide because they have strong sense of responsability and duty.

However, men with Satury conjunct, square or opposite moon or Venus were not very happy to provide. They might do it, but they will resent it.

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This!!!!

i would also add its important to find a man that makes some nice aspects to your chart, and that it would help him feel more generous towards you. for example his jupiter making a nice trine or a conjunction to your sun/venus would expand you and i see generosity there.
but obviously it would help if he is a giving person to begin with.
i would stay away from strong but afflicted Saturn aspects towards his sun/venus/moon..those men are never generous..quite the opposite!

posted March 05, 2021 08:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Sandra018:
This!!!!

i would also add its important to find a man that makes some nice aspects to your chart, and that it would help him feel more generous towards you. for example his jupiter making a nice trine or a conjunction to your sun/venus would expand you and i see generosity there.
but obviously it would help if he is a giving person to begin with.
i would stay away from strong but afflicted Saturn aspects towards his sun/venus/moon..those men are never generous..quite the opposite!

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Totally agree. Right synastry is key.

And I am going to add if the woman's Saturn makes a powerful angle to the man's sun or moon or Venus, like trine or sextile, sometimes conjunction (it depends), her Saturn can make the man feel responsible toward her and more inclined to provide for her.

posted March 06, 2021 04:46 AM            

An individual may have aspects natally that if activated make them generous toward someone, but maybe not everyone. Jupiter contacts in synastry would indicate generosity too.

posted March 07, 2021 10:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Sandra018:
This!!!!

i would also add its important to find a man that makes some nice aspects to your chart, and that it would help him feel more generous towards you. for example his jupiter making a nice trine or a conjunction to your sun/venus would expand you and i see generosity there.
but obviously, it would help if he is a giving person to begin with.
i would stay away from strong but afflicted Saturn aspects towards his sun/venus/moon..those men are never generous..quite the opposite!

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This is our synastry his Jupiter is in my first house.

This is his natal chart he does have some nice Saturn aspects to his personal planets. And that Virgo Venus makes him want to serve others. But he also has Sun square Saturn