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Topic: Is your 12th house sign always your "hidden enemy"?
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Amoranthaniela Knowflake Posts: 115 From: europe Registered: Dec 2020
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posted June 20, 2021 10:51 AM
My 12th house sign, hmm, well, I don't always get along with them too well.My aunt has many people around her who have the sign of her 12th house of enemies. She thinks they're all fine and good but they lie to her behind her back and lie about her. She has no idea sadly and doesn't believe it if you tell her. So what about you, is your 12th house sign usually an enemy for you? Or not sure? IP: Logged |
Pale Blue Eyes Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Whatever Forever Registered: Oct 2020
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posted June 20, 2021 11:23 AM
My 12th House is in Gemini and, in fact, I don't get along Gemini Sun people. I've always had problems with them.IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 565 From: us Registered: Sep 2018
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posted June 20, 2021 01:58 PM
Yes, someone has their moon there and invade my life cant stand them.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 74103 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 20, 2021 03:23 PM
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MoonMystic Knowflake Posts: 5153 From: Registered: Nov 2016
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posted June 20, 2021 04:12 PM
I agree with Ami Anne. It isn't that clear cut. The subconscious is largely what is involved with the 12th. In truth these secrets and or enemies, we may hide from ourselves. Intuition can go ignored or self medicating can deaden it. - we may doubt own intuition. Sometimes we are our own worse enemies as well. The ruler of your twelfth may indicate how you might be the target of an enemy. *If you are. This isn't always going to be a concern for everyone. In many cases in transits, the degrees of that house sometines have been involved. Find the ruling planet and examine all parts of your wheel. Transits might be the areas to keep in mind. What energy is in your 12th? If you have cause for concern, they may say something. I forgot, mine is Scorpio, I adore them. Never had one give me trouble. - in the sense I would feel they were an enemy or out to get me. *A last thought* Scorpio rules sex, sexual organs etc. I wouldn't say I had a secret enemy of Scorpios but sexual predators, yes. That might be a Plutonian energy - which is the planet that rules my 12th.
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GemJams Knowflake Posts: 35 From: USA Registered: May 2021
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posted June 20, 2021 05:55 PM
My 12th is Pisces and I don’t have any problems with them. I’ve read that about rising signs also.It’s not true either,I get along with Aries suns.IP: Logged |
ESSSSSC Knowflake Posts: 39 From: Registered: Aug 2020
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posted June 21, 2021 07:42 AM
I think the issue is 12h people have the -power- to ruin us - because we either tell them stuff we don't tell others or they see us transparently somehow, but we don't 'see' them (see OP's example of never believing so-and-so is a bad actor) so we aren't aware of just how much firepower they have.Fortunately, being in someones 12th makes you extremely sympathetic. You remember the honeymoon phase of them what felt like baring their soul to you, then the bad stuff of you feeling not seen, heard, etc as a person is 'forgiven because you're like "**** , they've been through so much, they deal with -a lot- - they're just doing their best trying to survive life". Of course, this does not prevent a hard ******* from being vengeful - but my point is 12h itself does not confer animosity. IP: Logged |
Amoranthaniela Knowflake Posts: 115 From: europe Registered: Dec 2020
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posted June 21, 2021 08:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by MoonMystic: [b] I forgot, mine is Scorpio, I adore them. Never had one give me trouble. [/B]
Hmm, interesting! Do you think it could have anything to do with what ESSSC said, about them perhaps not being seen in their full intentions? Not that they're bad to you but could it also be a blind spot for some?
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GemJams Knowflake Posts: 35 From: USA Registered: May 2021
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posted June 21, 2021 08:32 AM
@ESSSSSCI think it can go the other way around too.Especially if you have placements there and have an understanding of the sign.My chart ruler Mars and my NN are Pisces. My anger towards them is temporary because I always see their more vulnerable side.I can’t stay mad at them for long and I can’t bring myself to see them as bad people who are out to get me. IP: Logged |
plutonianmenace Knowflake Posts: 135 From: Iowa Registered: Feb 2021
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posted June 21, 2021 09:42 AM
I think the 12th house sign makes someone your hidden and low-key enemy almost like Cassius to Caesar. Makes sense since the 12th house sign is the sign before your ascendant and each sign builds off of the previous one. As a result, your enemy may be jealous of you having things they wish they had.IP: Logged |
GemJams Knowflake Posts: 35 From: USA Registered: May 2021
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posted June 21, 2021 10:15 AM
What sign is your 12th plutonian?IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 565 From: us Registered: Sep 2018
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posted June 21, 2021 02:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by plutonianmenace: I think the 12th house sign makes someone your hidden and low-key enemy almost like Cassius to Caesar. Makes sense since the 12th house sign is the sign before your ascendant and each sign builds off of the previous one. As a result, your enemy may be jealous of you having things they wish they had.
That's true. Someone has their mars in my 12th and try to steal my health from my aura because they are jealous. IP: Logged |
DecimaLife Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted June 21, 2021 07:30 PM
Taurus 12th house. Venus in 9th conjuct neptune. I hide my beliefs from people (9th house?) I am very materialistic and frugal, can't spend any money for myself but can act generous toward the loved ones. I have fear of being broke and my biggest dream is to be rich (12th house dreams? taurus?) When I act greedy and materialistic I always lose something (time, health, opportunity, relationships etc). So you can say that my greed and hunger for more money is my worst enemy. I have taurus sun friends and I don't think they are my secret enemy. Maybe they (Taurus Sun and Mars friends) make me a little stubborn and stuck but still they are close friends.
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GirlMelanie Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Brooklyn Registered: Mar 2021
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posted June 22, 2021 01:48 AM
I know someone who's moon and mars is in my 12th and my sun, mars and Uranus is in their 12th. It was very spiritual. We hide how we feel about each other though & we're unsure about the other. IP: Logged |
Karma30 Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Registered: Mar 2021
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posted June 22, 2021 03:01 AM
Well, I get in! I don't know if it's strange or not (based on some of your answers maybe it isn't) but i have a Gemini 12th house cusp and actually had some troubles with geminis. When I was younger most of my childhood friends were geminis or had gemini rising and i totally loved them (I'm a libra sun), but as I grew up I started to realize that lot of them gossiped behind my back, and I didn't like it at all. My ex bf was also a gemini and it took time for me to realize his behaviors were hurting me and keeping me from growing up. I now realize that i have NO troubles with people with gemini venus in my 12th house, gemini sun there is MEH, but what i actually can't stand is MARS there. It's a no go, which is also strange since i have a leo mars in my 2nd house. Also,my ex's mars was in cancer (still in my 12th) and i really HATED that our discussions were just endless misunderstandings. Btw, as I said i have no trouble in forming friendships with people with their moon or venus in my 12th and actually love them a lot ❤️ Also, I seem to attract a lot of people with their chiron near my ascendant, still in my 12th and I love them! Is there some explanation about it? I thought chiron conj ascendant was... Bad? IP: Logged |
oceansofstars Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Jun 2021
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posted June 26, 2021 12:32 AM
I feel like it's definitely possible but not necessarily probable. Take for example extreme cases...someone who lives as a hermit or a shut-in or like, a do-gooder who doesn't really have any enemies, or even someone insanely lucky to the point that people's bad intentions just seem to gloss off of them. Long explanation but I don't think it's unrealistic to say some people just don't have enemies or literally don't care and that lack of regard makes them 'immune.' So, taking that into account, I feel like this is the house where we tend to attract people who have the qualities of the sign on the cusp and/or the planets within or a blend of the two because we don't fully understand and embrace that energy within. And sometimes, that can be unpleasant and awkward or even traumatic, so we think 'This person is my enemy' without realizing that they're reflecting our own self-undoing behaviors. It's very karmic. Just my opinion. IP: Logged |
Ayelet Moderator Posts: 3605 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 26, 2021 07:02 PM
Oceansofstars  I have mostly good connections with my 12th house's sun buddies, except for one person I had to sue in court, and who consequently does not like me very much. Edit: coming to think of it, the sags I know have yet their suns in my 11th house and not in the 12th... and I also have my part of fortune in the 11th house in sag. IP: Logged |
oceansofstars Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Jun 2021
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posted June 27, 2021 11:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ayelet: Oceansofstars  I have mostly good connections with my 12th house's sun buddies, except for one person I had to sue in court, and who consequently does not like me very much. Edit: coming to think of it, the sags I know have yet their suns in my 11th house and not in the 12th... and I also have my part of fortune in the 11th house in sag.
Wow, that's interesting and unfortunate so I'm sorry to hear that took place. Super curious about what else was going on in synastry and/or composite between you and this former friend. IP: Logged |
Ayelet Moderator Posts: 3605 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 27, 2021 01:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by oceansofstars: Wow, that's interesting and unfortunate so I'm sorry to hear that took place. Super curious about what else was going on in synastry and/or composite between you and this former friend.
I looked up and saw he has a Mars-Uranus opposition that squares my sun. So that could be something, right? I was not the only one to sue him, though. And one more thing: I may have had a professional contact through some former work with someone with the exact same birthday, and that relationship was actually very smooth and constructive. I don't know the meaning of that, perhaps it being a different kind of relationship. But also the other person was different. IP: Logged |
oceansofstars Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Jun 2021
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posted June 27, 2021 02:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ayelet: I looked up and saw he has a Mars-Uranus opposition that squares my sun. So that could be something, right? I was not the only one to sue him, though. And one more thing: I may have had a professional contact through some former work with someone with the exact same birthday, and that relationship was actually very smooth and constructive. I don't know the meaning of that, perhaps it being a different kind of relationship. But also the other person was different.
I think that's definitely something. I was seriously thinking Sun-Mars so that makes a ton of sense. I can also see how the Uranus aspect thrown in would add to the sudden + shocking nature of this challenge. It's probable that you also had something specific going on with this former friend that involved maybe some aspects between your 7H/12H planets and/or their rulers (enemies/battles). IP: Logged |
Ayelet Moderator Posts: 3605 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 27, 2021 07:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by oceansofstars: I think that's definitely something. I was seriously thinking Sun-Mars so that makes a ton of sense. I can also see how the Uranus aspect thrown in would add to the sudden + shocking nature of this challenge. It's probable that you also had something specific going on with this former friend that involved maybe some aspects between your 7H/12H planets and/or their rulers (enemies/battles).
I don't know his exact time of birth, so I can't tell that about his chart. The other man born in the same date, with which I had a beneficial relationship, has had probably a different moon sign, the moon changing signs on that day and the two men having been different. But the Mars-Uranus opposition is still there. Perhaps, having a different ascendant, the opposition takes place in different houses in the second man's chart, and I don't know, maybe it also makes a difference in our synastry, the opposition might be more internal and shake things less between us. Or this being a different kind of relationship, and so goverened by a different house and other aspects. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3923 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted June 28, 2021 03:30 PM
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Taurus 12th house. Venus in 9th conjuct neptune. I hide my beliefs from people (9th house?) I am very materialistic and frugal, can't spend any money for myself but can act generous toward the loved ones. I have fear of being broke and my biggest dream is to be rich (12th house dreams? taurus?) When I act greedy and materialistic I always lose something (time, health, opportunity, relationships etc). So you can say that my greed and hunger for more money is my worst enemy. I have taurus sun friends and I don't think they are my secret enemy. Maybe they (Taurus Sun and Mars friends) make me a little stubborn and stuck but still they are close friends.
I have Gemini Sun and find Taurus people sneaky and deceptive. This is something you won't sense like with a Pisces or Libra, but eventually you come to learn about this about their personality. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 975 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted June 28, 2021 04:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: I have Gemini Sun and find Taurus people sneaky and deceptive. This is something you won't sense like with a Pisces or Libra, but eventually you come to learn about this about their personality.
I find that true with taurus males, not so much the case with taurus females thought. I find the females are easier to read. It could be because my taurus venus almost always forms a venus conjunct sun with taurus females. My 12th house is scorpio, I don't find scorpios that bad to be honest.
They've been generous to me or maybe because when I sense I might be in trouble with one i've already fled to Mexico before they get a chance to do anything (Gemini Male trait). My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 18852 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2021 04:19 PM
This hasn’t been true for me. That I’m aware of. Mine is Libra. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3923 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted July 01, 2021 10:34 PM
quote: I find that true with taurus males, not so much the case with taurus females thought. I find the females are easier to read.
Yes. quote: It could be because my taurus venus almost always forms a venus conjunct sun with taurus females.
I also have both Venus & Mars in Taurus, yet can't sustain a connection with either. I either irritate them or they me.
quote: My 12th house is scorpio, I don't find scorpios that bad to be honest.[quote]I haven't figured it out yet, but I believe there is a connection between Scorpio and Gemini. I swear, where ever you find one you find the other. Much the same like Leo & Aquarius. [quote]They've been generous to me or maybe because when I sense I might be in trouble with one i've already fled to Mexico before they get a chance to do anything (Gemini Male trait).
Scorpio energy is too intense for me, so I avoid them. However, I suspect they might be soulmates or something. IP: Logged |