posted July 28, 2021 12:01 PM            

That's really good to hear about your balancing out in that area. I think we had talked some about that awhile back, but that maybe was in the very earlier stages of all that.

Re: guys T levels. For self, I noticed a change when I started to gain weight easier/faster i.e. my metabolism started slowing down, and both apathy and lack of energy increased. I've worked and sometimes still work long and hard manual labor jobs, but outside of these, I can be a little lazy. (There is some depression involved as well though, so it might not be all about T levels). And I actually haven't had my levels tested, but more speaking about reading about common experiences, effects, research, etc.

I used to have a faster metabolism, and spent most of my 20's and very early 30's, not having a problem with gaining weight.

posted July 28, 2021 01:44 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Sure. Take your time.

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Hello LovelyAries86 ~

Feel free to explain the Sagittarian thought process in regards to dealing with others.
 Does it feel super difficult to be someone we can rely on and expect loyalty from? Do you view that expectation as an infringement on your freedom?

Wow, I'm  in  a hot seat. lol
I was given a quadruple woosey at birth. A triple Aqua  (this may be difficult to differentiate) and my Asc is Sag, these energies all come across as detatched often.
Being a younger person this was much stronger an issue.
Sagitarian nature is to have itchy feet, always wanting to chase down a new experience.  Find new groups, places, hobbies. Just not slowing down. Yet once in a 1:1 it feels suffocating in many cases - maybe all fire gets that. The spark dulls. Friends were never difficult to be there for (Aqua helped that) relationships could create a need to go be alone, as I think you're asking about? (Freedom) As the 9th house is often about "going within, being alone". To an outsider it may be a Jekyll and Hyde energy. .one minute a party, fun lover type - the next absent. I don't think a Sagittarius realises this of themselves usually.  They may just behave in this on/off matter and think the other person understands this. Infact Until the Sagittarius  is "self actualized" they might not think outside self - self to an outside person to them. I do think sharing of themselves is exhausting to them. Like a spark can be left here, there ... anywhere but they protect their flame. Their essence of fire is guarded.

 My mother and best friend (teens/twenties) Sag Suns.
Wasn't easy being a daughter of a Sagittarius mom and I carry Sagittarius energy!

Going for long periods shut in differnt rooms or simply unavailable is common with them. My former bf too. Loyalty was/is strong usually but when they chase something dazzling they vanish. Itchy feet.

*A last thought added.
Sagittarius nature is to guard that fire, as it is the older, wiser of the fire signs. It feels the fire can easily be extinguished. House 1 and 5 have younger more youthful fires. They don't worry of the threat. Imagine a house of cards. Each card makes the whole foundation strong yet frail. One burst if air and *poof* it's gone. Leo will be next to learn this - established fire is precarious. *vulnerable*

Leo could in some instances be a competitive nature to Sagittarius. "see my fire's new, has promise". Sagittarius might feel threatened by the up and coming Leo. This is NOT in every case. I stand my opinion that we all can operate in "god like complexes". That is true as human always try to imulate the creator.
Creators of products always see other's come in and try to take away the position of the original creator.

I think the Luminaries /Planets Sagittarius ppl are more this way. Idk maybe Hypatia could chime in? She's a rising too.

I hope this was helpful. If not maybe rephrase your inquiry?

posted August 02, 2021 04:38 AM            

Anyone in my life who looks at giving of themselves or their time to me as exhausting is a major Turn Off. If I'm being honest.

As an Aries, I'm not a clingy person. I'm an adventurous soul who has her own life & passions. But I strongly dislike feeling neglected! And I must know that I'm #1 in my partner's life. Leo & Aries definitely share that sentiment - as we don't play that shyt LOL

posted August 03, 2021 01:04 AM            

Maybe pick up a new hobby, crocheting is very relaxing.