posted July 31, 2021 07:46 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
New relationship sound maybe more like Uranus and Saturn is end of one?

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posted July 31, 2021 07:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Ganeshastro14:
I read on few websites that if you start a new relationship during saturn hard transits it won't be fulfilling.
I know it's weird, but I'm studying a friend's relationship (synastry, composite) and I watched her transits at the begining of the relationship and she had transit saturn square sun, venus and mercury at that time. Now pluto squares sun, venus and mercury and the composite chart is very plutonian. She got married few months ago but I feel like it won't last. Her husband will have saturn hard transits next year on his sun, moon and venus, and she'll still have her pluto transits...

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a couple years ago i had saturn, jupiter, and pluto squaring my venus, ascendant/descendant, nodes, and moon conjunct my ic and mars and oppose my midheaven

i have libra venus conjunct ascendant and south node, aries moon conjunct descendant and cap mars loosely conjunct my cap ic (they're all aspected in other ways as well but these were relevant to the transit)

as far as my love life being affected went an almost 15 year relationship (it wasn't a good one, but was also a 20 year friendship, i'm 34 now about to be 35 so this was a good chunk of my life) ended and the date i went on after was a horrible experience to say the least and didn't work out

posted August 01, 2021 01:15 AM            

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...cause I'm Pisces Venus and he's Virgo Venus) [/B]

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Dang Stawr, I'm seeing on this thread that you have Pisces Venus, and on other threads I've seen that you have Aries Sun, Gemini Rising, Scorpio Moon, and Aquarius Mars.

Lol, while you seem like a cool person, I don't think we should ever come into proximity of each other.

Cap Sun, Leo Rising, Libra Moon, Aqua Venus, and Virgo Mars. All those back and forth oppositions, 8th House connections, and a certain conjunction! We'd either kill each other, or be highly tempted to subjecting each other to the little death.

(I hope that you got that is was meant in a light hearted, humorous, and synastry joking vein and not serious).

posted August 01, 2021 03:16 AM            

I met my guy when transit Saturn Rx trine my Sun and square my DSC ruler Jupiter, forming a grand cross with my natal Jupiter-Saturn-Pluto t-square. Saturn rules my 8H. Tr Saturn was also trine his DSC ruler, opposite his 5th & ASC rulers.

It was a difficult and unstable start.

Several months later tr Saturn opposed our composite Sun/Mercury/Venus so again difficult times.

posted August 01, 2021 11:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Ganeshastro14:
I read on few websites that if you start a new relationship during saturn hard transits it won't be fulfilling.
I know it's weird, but I'm studying a friend's relationship (synastry, composite) and I watched her transits at the begining of the relationship and she had transit saturn square sun, venus and mercury at that time. Now pluto squares sun, venus and mercury and the composite chart is very plutonian. She got married few months ago but I feel like it won't last. Her husband will have saturn hard transits next year on his sun, moon and venus, and she'll still have her pluto transits...

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Saturn transits were there when I started a new friendship with someone I am STILL friends with today.

I tend to trust Saturn when it comes to serious relationships. There is a certain reliability we look for when Saturn transits Ven/Moon/5th/7th or 8th. We are not up to playing games.

One thing that can occur however is that the pool selection may be small. Because we give off "closed off" vibes, people are more weary of us. And perhaps think that we should "lighten up" & are "too serious" etc.

The other thing is that it could be a time when we feel most self conscious of our looks. And so may go into a depressive spell if someone rejects us(attrubuting it to looks). So our social life may die down as we may not feel confident enough in exploring. A very "risk averse" time.

Relationships began during this time(if genuine) tend to last. There is authentic support. And the potential for marriage because of shared "down to earth" values and sober perspectives, is great.

Sex drive may be low. You may not feel "love dovey" with each other. But as the relationship evolves, you will ONLY have eyes for each other. Seeing each other's presence in each other's lives as "the real thing".

posted August 01, 2021 12:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Saturn transits were there when I started a new friendship with someone I am STILL friends with today.

I tend to trust Saturn when it comes to serious relationships. There is a certain reliability we look for when Saturn transits Ven/Moon/5th/7th or 8th. We are not up to playing games.

One thing that can occur however is that the pool selection may be small. Because we give off "closed off" vibes, people are more weary of us. And perhaps think that we should "lighten up" & are "too serious" etc.

The other thing is that it could be a time when we feel most self conscious of our looks. And so may go into a depressive spell if someone rejects us(attrubuting it to looks). So our social life may die down as we may not feel confident enough in exploring. A very "risk averse" time.

Relationships began during this time(if genuine) tend to last. There is authentic support. And the potential for marriage because of shared "down to earth" values and sober perspectives, is great.

Sex drive may be low. You may not feel "love dovey" with each other. But as the relationship evolves, you will ONLY have eyes for each other. Seeing each other's presence in each other's lives as "the real thing".

But you both have to be genuine and patient with each other. It's not the most exciting lovelife period in life when Sat transits the "love" planets or affiliated houses. But out of that period can come relationships that LAST and LAST and LAST.👌🏿

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Thanks ! I'm posting synastry, composite, wedding chart and transits in "Interpersonal Astrology" in order to understand the relationship better.