posted April 22, 2022 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
My dad has Aries sun, Pisces moon and Pisces mars and he was NOT a good father. Too unpredictable and violent.

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posted April 22, 2022 03:49 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
That could be his Aries sun especially considering the fact that the sun is the strongest in the Aries sign so their masculinity might be too raw like being too violent and all 🥺

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posted April 22, 2022 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
I also know a lot of Aries suns like this

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posted April 22, 2022 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
That could be his Aries sun especially considering the fact that the sun is the strongest in the Aries sign so their masculinity might be too raw like being too violent and all 🥺

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I don't think so.

posted April 22, 2022 05:52 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
[b] That could be his Aries sun especially considering the fact that the sun is the strongest in the Aries sign so their masculinity might be too raw like being too violent and all 🥺

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One thing I know about Aries suns is that they’re great protectors for sure but their violence and hotheadedness is something I can’t deal with considering the fact that I have an Aries stellium

posted April 22, 2022 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
Yeah, me, too. Especially the men. The women seem to be a bit more mellow.
Speaking of our sun sign Pisces again: My aunt (not blood related) is a Pisces sun and Pisces moon and she was a **** mother to her children as well.
No warmth at all.

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posted April 22, 2022 05:56 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I don't think so.

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posted April 22, 2022 06:03 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
Cancer moon can be quite a suffocating or overprotective placement especially if your a free wheeling air sign or an adventurous fire sign , you might feel caged by a cancer or Virgo moon mom , as a libra yourself, you might find Gemini moons less possessive cos it’s also of air element like your sun sign

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I don't understand. Don't most people not want to be suffocated? I never understood this lol
My grandma (she's basically my mom lol) is a Taurus moon, and one issue I have is the fact that Im a 25 year old woman and she still doesn't want me to go to the coffee shop when it gets dark! Like Im a homebody as it is, but enjoy going out to like coffee shops, bookstores, actually chill calm places but still gets overprotective. It's not like Im going to night clubs or wandering the streets.
As a child it's okay but when youre an adult who really wants to be held back from pursing your dreams or happiness. I mean is it really just an air sign thing? Or do the other signs like being held back from doing things?

posted April 22, 2022 06:14 PM            

I can actually imagine myself adopting a less fortune child and taking care of them. I actually imagined that growing up more than having one of my own. I imagined adopting a bunch of children less fortunate all over the world and taking care of them lol and maybe a child of my own as well. But I always thought that would be nice.

posted April 22, 2022 06:37 PM            

On one hand of the equation I think there great at raising children from the moment there born until they become a teen.

But once the child becomes a teen or even adult they're unable to let there kids be independent...

They assume there doing there kids a favour by sheltering them..but then they actually do the opposite and stop them from doing anything they want to do.

I've said this to my mom, I could get approval from all levels of government to build a rocket ship in the backyard..but it whould be you that whould say no and stop me from doing it.

I remember when I was younger every weekend she whould clean the house...when I was gone she should clean my room and look under my bed, closest and etc for clues of what i'm up to.

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posted April 23, 2022 06:49 AM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
Aries women are mellow until you set them off lol , us Pisces honestly we tend to be free spirits , our mutable energy can make us scatterbrained and unpredictable which can affect the people in our lives even family

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posted April 23, 2022 07:36 AM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
I don't understand. Don't most people not want to be suffocated? I never understood this lol
My grandma (she's basically my mom lol) is a Taurus moon, and one issue I have is the fact that Im a 25 year old woman and she still doesn't want me to go to the coffee shop when it gets dark! Like Im a homebody as it is, but enjoy going out to like coffee shops, bookstores, actually chill calm places but still gets overprotective. It's not like Im going to night clubs or wandering the streets.
As a child it's okay but when youre an adult who really wants to be held back from pursing your dreams or happiness. I mean is it really just an air sign thing? Or do the other signs like being held back from doing things?

Other than the fact she is overly paranoid about everything she was a good mom to me and I was appreciative of everything she did. But not that Im older I find it hard for her to under stand my feelings and dreams. She doesn't take the time to understand me and is very stubborn in her ways. Like I can't get her to understand my feelings, and when I express them she somehow makes me feel guilty because she gets offended. Idk it's a tricky situation. She also a Gemini and I just feel like she has two different sides to her and it confuses me.
Often times I wonder if she doesn't want me to go after my dreams because she just doesn't want me to leave her, rather than her just worrying about my wellbeing.

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posted April 23, 2022 07:39 AM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
It's funny cause growing up I didn't think much about being a mom. Like I often wondered what kind of mother I'd be. A part of me wants to be a mother but Im afraid.

I can actually imagine myself adopting a less fortune child and taking care of them. I actually imagined that growing up more than having one of my own. I imagined adopting a bunch of children less fortunate all over the world and taking care of them lol and maybe a child of my own as well. But I always thought that would be nice.

But Im probably too emotionally and mentally unstable to make a good mom to be honest.

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I think most women were afraid of becoming mothers and wanting to adopt , you’re not alone , I myself I’m equally afraid lol , cos I suffer so much anxiety and always fear that the worst might happen, especially when your kids are still tender and vulnerable which is the toughest stage of motherhood, but when your kids are grown and become more independent, you worry less

posted April 23, 2022 07:42 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
I have a mixed opinion of Cancer moms...
having experienced being raised by a cancer mom and dad.

On one hand of the equation I think there great at raising children from the moment there born until they become a teen.

But once the child becomes a teen or even adult they're unable to let there kids be independent...

They assume there doing there kids a favour by sheltering them..but then they actually do the opposite and stop them from doing anything they want to do.

I've said this to my mom, I could get approval from all levels of government to build a rocket ship in the backyard..but it whould be you that whould say no and stop me from doing it.

I remember when I was younger every weekend she whould clean the house...when I was gone she should clean my room and look under my bed, closest and etc for clues of what i'm up to.

My Planets
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☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ˇ÷ ♉, ˇö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑

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posted April 23, 2022 07:46 AM            

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Originally posted by kani:
This is what so many people don't get about Pisces. We need A LOT of space to able to spend time in "our realms" but also to decompress from all those annoying and demanding people around us. All Pisces (especially the women) love spending long periods of time on their own. And yeah it can interfere with their kids' needs sometimes.

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posted April 23, 2022 03:58 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
Yes we love to stay on our own so we can dream , and I also noticed a Pisces side of me detests clinginess , most Pisces women I know love being in a relationship and dating but hates being married , eryka badu for example.... I’m like this too , I love dating but once marriage commitment is involved, I’ll start to have a second thought

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posted April 23, 2022 04:15 PM            

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Me, too! I cannot stand clinginess and I'm not a big fan of commitment. Don't get me wrong, I don't sleep around, but marriage does feel like something a bit too much.
I am in a relationship and we are long distance (we do spend a lot of time travelling together or at each others places). It suits me well because it keeps the connection fresh. I don't even want to move in with my partner. Let alone marry and have kids. I value my own space too much.

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posted April 23, 2022 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:

This is me exactly, my boyfriend is a doctor and he’s very very stoic and distant due to his work and he’s a Capricorn sun with a Sagittarius stellium, I actually love our love , it’s refreshing and not boring cos non of us are clingy , look my case is so bad that I fear being engaged cos I know for the most part that I might not marry that person, marriage to me is you and your husband living in separate houses even if you two will have kids , I don’t think I’ll be able to live under same roof with my husband for decades damn!!!!!!

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I completely get this. Whoopi Goldberg said something along the lines of "I just want nobody in my space" and that's exactly my sentiment. I just don't.

posted April 23, 2022 07:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
I have Cancer moon mother. I wouldn’t give her mother of the year award.

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The moon is changeable, Cancer is moody. I can see a person with this placement as difficult to be around.

posted April 24, 2022 06:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Amoranthaniela:
Prince Harry and William both boast about how Diana was a wonderful, loving, nurturing mom who prepared them well for life.

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posted April 24, 2022 12:21 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
I completely get this. Whoopi Goldberg said something along the lines of "I just want nobody in my space" and that's exactly my sentiment. I just don't.

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Exactly, I love my time alone

posted April 25, 2022 04:10 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
It honestly depends, but like Kani said , the women of that sign are mellow but not until you step on their toes

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Oh, that can be true, but I'm not out here punching people.