posted May 04, 2022 01:17 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
She’s resentful towards feminine women and hate when masculinity is brought up anywhere cos that’s what her sun sign Aries is about , but then no matter how she or any other person tears me apart for making this thread lol it doesn’t change the fact , she’s just taking out her anger on me 😂, I don’t know her and she doesn’t know me so whatever she writes is meaningless and she’s a reflection of whatever the **** she’s saying to others lol , when I talked about them being bullies I knew they’re surely gonna match the traits I associated them with so yup 👍 keep talking Aries ladies!!!!

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posted May 04, 2022 01:18 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
You quoted the wrong person , still didn’t notice your long ass essay Incase you’re trying to make me go back and read it cos I won’t

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posted May 04, 2022 01:27 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
THE MORE YOU QUOTE ME THE LONGER MY THREAD GETS 😜😜so bring the insults , it is senseless cos we’re all strangers here , I make threads according to the majority and my personal observations.....it’s not my fault some of you felt attacked and decided to be impulsive and combative just like your sign is supposed to be, I don’t have a problem with Aries women tho , y’all are just toddlers

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i don't feel attacked by you though, nothing you say is personal as you don't know me

however everything i've said about you has been an observation based on behavior you've displayed in your thread

posted May 04, 2022 01:40 PM            

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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
The "manipulative tactics" are more bark than bite if anything

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posted May 04, 2022 09:30 PM            

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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
LMAO stop. Aries women are lovely but all the same. They have that cute initial confrontational side to them but as soon as we get in the sheets, they tap out fast. I love to kiss them all over their face and yeah, I do lay on them. Usually a few kisses and lots of compliments softens them up. They turn feminine so fast. Once again though, you are way better than Sag women. Sag women do not know how to even operate and resort to insults as a way of showing affection.

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LOL

posted May 04, 2022 09:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i told people i became close to prior to coming here the truth due to the desire to have authentic connections because it holds you back from simple things to not be upfront

went very well, so i did the same here when the time felt right

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Good for you. 👍🏾👍🏾

posted May 04, 2022 10:50 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Good for you. 👍🏾👍🏾

Being authentic is the best way to go.

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it is for closer connections, but in certain places it's really not for the best

i spend a fair amount of time and used to even moreso talking in spaces where being obviously female or being open about that comes with a lot of issues that overshadow anything you say or do

it can be much easier to not have to deal with that ****

i'm actually very happy about my more masculine personality traits because of many of my interests and the places i generally gravitate towards it's been a net positive

also i tend to get along best with men and have more close male friends, which is why it's sort of funny to be accused of being offended by something i'm very comfortable with lol

looking the way i do while being able to relate well to men has been a net positive for me and is literally part of my appeal to men, so i'm good with that side of myself in a big way

it's beneficial if anything,and it's made it so i get treated with a level of respect i know i wouldn't otherwise even post being honest about that

femininity as far as physical appearances go is one thing, but when it comes to personality traits it's not always for the best

though that being said i think gender of elements/signs doesn't dictate these things

capricorn may be a feminine sign for example, but many of the traits associated with it are more masculine and i wouldn't say that a capricorn man was lacking in masculine traits as a result

the stoicism and the sternness etc of capricorn is very suited to male behaviors

just like libra placements can be more feminine or neutral in ways in spite of it being a "masculine" sign

the indecisiveness, the focus outward towards others and balance etc these things can soften a person and give them that sort of vibe where it gels very well towards feminine qualities

posted May 05, 2022 04:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
what did i say to you exactly?

i'm not insulting her, i'm pointing out a pattern of behavior i'm seeing that's indicative of a personality disorder or other issue

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What you just said you’re doing is what I did when I made this thread , stop with the hypocrisy, the world doesn’t revolve around anyone

posted May 05, 2022 04:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i don't feel attacked by you though, nothing you say is personal as you don't know me

however everything i've said about you has been an observation based on behavior you've displayed in your thread

why would i care if you have a thread that spans several pages? is there a prize for that or something?

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You don’t care but you keep quoting me 😂, tell a better lie

posted May 05, 2022 04:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
it is for closer connections, but in certain places it's really not for the best

i spend a fair amount of time and used to even moreso talking in spaces where being obviously female or being open about that comes with a lot of issues that overshadow anything you say or do

it can be much easier to not have to deal with that ****

i'm actually very happy about my more masculine personality traits because of many of my interests and the places i generally gravitate towards it's been a net positive

also i tend to get along best with men and have more close male friends, which is why it's sort of funny to be accused of being offended by something i'm very comfortable with lol

looking the way i do while being able to relate well to men has been a net positive for me and is literally part of my appeal to men, so i'm good with that side of myself in a big way

it's beneficial if anything,and it's made it so i get treated with a level of respect i know i wouldn't otherwise even post being honest about that

femininity as far as physical appearances go is one thing, but when it comes to personality traits it's not always for the best

though that being said i think gender of elements/signs doesn't dictate these things

capricorn may be a feminine sign for example, but many of the traits associated with it are more masculine and i wouldn't say that a capricorn man was lacking in masculine traits as a result

the stoicism and the sternness etc of capricorn is very suited to male behaviors

just like libra placements can be more feminine or neutral in ways in spite of it being a "masculine" sign

the indecisiveness, the focus outward towards others and balance etc these things can soften a person and give them that sort of vibe where it gels very well towards feminine qualities

i think those are the two strongest examples of masculine/feminine signs being sort of "opposite" gendered in some of their expressions

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Honey you’re not happy about it one bit if not you wouldn’t be here writing an encyclopedia explaining over and over again out of spite , and like I always say “acceptance is the quickest way to recovery “ a person who is happy with what they have is usually non chalant but only the guilty explains a lot, I REST MY CASE

posted May 05, 2022 05:51 AM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
What you just said you’re doing is what I did when I made this thread , stop with the hypocrisy, the world doesn’t revolve around anyone

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that wasn't a response to you, so i'm not sure why you're responding to it

no hypocrisy from me, pointing out word twisting and other manipulative behaviors you're displaying isn't intended to insult

posted May 05, 2022 05:52 AM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
You don’t care but you keep quoting me 😂, tell a better lie

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posted May 05, 2022 05:59 AM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
Honey you’re not happy about it one bit if not you wouldn’t be here writing an encyclopedia explaining over and over again out of spite , and like I always say “acceptance is the quickest way to recovery “ a person who is happy with what they have is usually non chalant but only the guilty explains a lot, I REST MY CASE

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that's a lot of projection and lies

i can be talkative, and anyone who has interacted with me over the course of time is well aware that i'll say a lot about anything and everything

it's not a matter of deep feeling, and you're responding to my conversations with other people

why would i be bothered by having masculine personality traits? i have people in my life who love me and care about me for who i am and as far as femininity goes i have a very feminine body and face and i'm just under 5' tall so no one's looking at me and going "damn she's manly"

i spent a couple years on this forum as a "guy" and that's part of what i was referring to in my response to lovelyaries

you'll believe your own narrative over anyone else though, people who display the sort of cluster b traits you're showing often do

this is more gaslighting on your part though, so really you're only further proving my point that there seems to be some personality disorder at play here

posted May 05, 2022 07:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
that wasn't a response to you, so i'm not sure why you're responding to it

no hypocrisy from me, pointing out word twisting and other manipulative behaviors you're displaying isn't intended to insult

it's very matter of fact

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Exactly my thread is also a huge viral matter of fact , don’t know why most of you are snappy

posted May 05, 2022 07:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
that's a lot of projection and lies

i can be talkative, and anyone who has interacted with me over the course of time is well aware that i'll say a lot about anything and everything

it's not a matter of deep feeling, and you're responding to my conversations with other people

why would i be bothered by having masculine personality traits? i have people in my life who love me and care about me for who i am and as far as femininity goes i have a very feminine body and face and i'm just under 5' tall so no one's looking at me and going "damn she's manly"

i spent a couple years on this forum as a "guy" and that's part of what i was referring to in my response to lovelyaries

you'll believe your own narrative over anyone else though, people who display the sort of cluster b traits you're showing often do

this is more gaslighting on your part though, so really you're only further proving my point that there seems to be some personality disorder at play here

"you said more than me you must feel this way" that's not really how things work

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Another long ass explanation 😂, I’m always right at the end of the day

posted May 05, 2022 07:50 AM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
Exactly my thread is also a huge viral matter of fact , don’t know why most of you are snappy

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posted May 05, 2022 07:52 AM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
Another long ass explanation 😂, I’m always right at the end of the day

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yes i tend to overexplain due to abuse and gaslighting i experienced as a child and in an abusive relationship

it's why i recognize cluster b traits very well too

>i'm always right at the end of the day
i'm sure that's true in your head because you tell yourself it is, outside of that not so much

posted May 05, 2022 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i wouldn't say viral it's 3 pages, but so? there's plenty of threads that hit several pages here i'm not sure why that's a thing that matters

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posted May 05, 2022 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
yes i tend to overexplain due to abuse and gaslighting i experienced as a child and in an abusive relationship

it's why i recognize cluster b traits very well too

>i'm always right at the end of the day
i'm sure that's true in your head because you tell yourself it is, outside of that not so much

if i believe lies i tell myself i'd always be right too, that goes for everyone

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Oh sorry about the experience you had as a child

posted May 05, 2022 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
Well thanks cos your rants increased it to 3 pages

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posted May 05, 2022 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
Oh sorry about the experience you had as a child

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it's alright, but that's what's behind overexplaining

i do it with everything, only recently found out it's a pretty normal trauma response

posted May 05, 2022 03:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
I don’t mean to hurt anyone’s feelings but I just noticed that even Pisces & Taurus women that have masculine energy is because of their Aries placements, Aries women are always very troublesome and love to bully people, they also suffer from pathological jealousy, Please why are they like this ?

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I will avoid threads like this in the future. They are a total waste of time. Even the question at the beginning is suggestive, very biased and contains generalizations. What do you actually want from us ElfinPices? Triggering a reaction? There you got your reaction. Can we now move on and discuss signs seriously. Thanks.

posted May 06, 2022 05:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:

also i tend to get along best with men and have more close male friends, which is why it's sort of funny to be accused of being offended by something i'm very comfortable with lol

femininity as far as physical appearances go is one thing, but when it comes to personality traits it's not always for the best

capricorn may be a feminine sign for example, but many of the traits associated with it are more masculine and i wouldn't say that a capricorn man was lacking in masculine traits as a result

the stoicism and the sternness etc of capricorn is very suited to male behaviors

just like libra placements can be more feminine or neutral in ways in spite of it being a "masculine" sign

the indecisiveness, the focus outward towards others and balance etc these things can soften a person and give them that sort of vibe where it gels very well towards feminine qualities

i think those are the two strongest examples of masculine/feminine signs being sort of "opposite" gendered in some of their expressions

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I appreciate your thoughtful reply. 👍🏾

I get along with men very well, as you do. The difference is that I don't usually feel I have to exhibit large doses of masculinity in order to do so. Maybe it does depend on the spaces we frequent? 🤷🏾‍♀️ I'm not sure. I do tend to be a very honest, direct communicator and men tend to appreciate that about me. Women on the other hand, often get triggered by that same honesty and want me to coddle them. And I refuse to baby a grown woman. Lol.

As an Aries, I feel fully comfortable taking action when I need to. I'm unafraid of speaking up for myself. Even still - Feminine Energy is my default. 💕 It comes naturally to me as a woman. I'm highly receptive, intuitive, adaptable & sensual. NONE of that is a weakness. Balance is key!!

posted May 06, 2022 05:17 AM            

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Originally posted by rockwell:
Can we now move on and discuss signs seriously. Thanks.

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posted May 06, 2022 08:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
it's alright, but that's what's behind overexplaining

i do it with everything, only recently found out it's a pretty normal trauma response

i suspected it was caused by that but i didn't know it was so standard

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Well it’s not bad , it’s just astrology, everyone is supposed to agree and disagree but at the end of the day it all depends on how you present yourself and how your loved ones see you , I only write based on my observations which others do too , most times I just use astrology for laugh gags, yes it affects our personalities but that’s why we’re human to control whatever is thrown at us , whatever argument I have with anyone about astrology is just for fun lol