posted January 17, 2023 09:32 AM            

My Answer: BOTH of us feel that ish!! 💯 We're just playing Different Roles within our overwhelmingly intoxicating dynamic.

The Exception: When one or both of you isn't PHYSICALLY attracted to the other whatsoever. Then, it's a wrap. Otherwise, it's GAME ON.

I'm ONLY referencing the following:

~MOON 8H
~VENUS 8H
~MARS 8H
~PLUTO 8H
~SUN 8H

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Being a natal 8H Venus w/ 1H Pluto - I'm very acquainted with this energy. I *must* have some form of Plutonian contact in my Romantic Relationships. 🔥 Period. My personal favorite from the synastry placements above? MOON in the 8th!

I've primarily been the MOON PERSON in my connections. 🌕 I can think of at least (3) scenarios. All of these gentlemen initiated deeper contact with me. Insane sexual tension was present right OUT OF THE GATE. 💯 They were patient and each one "studied" me and built a real foundation with me. Eventually, they started sharing deep secrets with me & I with them. We often "counseled" one another on a wide range of things. Even started dreaming about each other!

Then... their possessive streak & sexual desire began emanating from their pores. 🔥 And I could *feel* them wanting to envelop my entire freaking soul (just like Hades for Persephone) with primal abandon. 

And you know what?? I wanted that sh-t! 😂 To be transformed & ravished... Mind, Body & Soul. ❤ They were the powerful YANG to my sensuous YIN. My (Moon) presence was healing & rather comforting for them. While they made me feel very protected in turn.

However, we did deeply trigger each other at certain times as well. Manipulation & mind games can ensue if insecurity starts to rear its head. 💯 The HOUSE Person can potentially start to HATE how vulnerable or "out of control" they feel while in the presence of the Moon Person. Not everyone is used to being *consumed* with desire! The MOON Person is equally invested and isn't as afraid - but may or may not start mirroring their partner's torn behavior. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Maturity is surely a MUST with this energy.

~The House Person = The DOM or The ARTIST. 😎 You are on THEIR territory. They set the rules & the pace of your connection. You have trust, respect & deep admiration for them - they are your Rock! 💪 You lust for them.

~The Moon Person = The BRATTY SUB or The MUSE. ⚘ You choose *when* you will surrender and *what* your boundaries are. You are the House Person's greatest inspiration! They are in AWE of you. They aren't happy unless YOU are happy - you are their Sunshine w/ a sip of Moonshine. ☀️

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^^This has been my experience! I'll share more later. 👍🏾 The other 8H planets feel VERY similar to this, just to a somewhat lesser degree. I do feel that Moon Synastry is the most potent & profound overall.

So how have 8th House connections played out for you?! 🔥 And which Role were you in?

**THIS scene below from "Bridgerton" is a perfect example of this (MOON 8H) all-consuming energy between two people earlier in a connection. 🌙
http://youtu.be/XGCj2XlHVGI

VENUS IN THE 8TH 💋 - Poison Ivy 2
"Maybe I can help you face your fears."
http://youtu.be/AklLbjmXiGg

posted January 17, 2023 02:50 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
^^He had you losing your mind @Sleepy?! Ruh oh lol

I wonder if he had 8H placements in his own chart. ALL of the Water overlays in synastry are intense. Which planets were hitting your 4th & 12th Houses?

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I said almost losing it haha. No he didn’t but he was a Plutonian with a Scorpio stellium on top of that. We had Moon conjunct Moon in my 12th house and his Scorpio stellium was in my 4th house with his Sun, Venus and Mercury there. We also had an exact conjunction of his Venus and my Pluto in my 4th house so the whole thing was pretty intense. I was consumed and so obsessed with him also we were both too immature for these house overlays so it was pretty nuts too.

posted January 17, 2023 03:16 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
I said almost losing it haha. No he didn’t but he was a Plutonian with a Scorpio stellium on top of that. We had Moon conjunct Moon in my 12th house and his Scorpio stellium was in my 4th house with his Sun, Venus and Mercury there. We also had an exact conjunction of his Venus and my Pluto in my 4th house so the whole thing was pretty intense. I was consumed and so obsessed with him also we were both too immature for these house overlays so it was pretty nuts too.

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Whew sweet baby Jesus!! 😮 That's a lottt - maturity is KEY. I *knew* he had to have some Plutonian energy in his possession.

Y'all were acting like the hysterical chick in this video over each other. 😂😂😂 HILARIOUS.

posted January 19, 2023 09:12 AM            

And he had so many blocks that the sexual situation did not play out. Instead it was a ton of power struggles and emotional pain.

posted January 19, 2023 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
My ex-husbands moon was in my 8th. It was interesting bcs I wasn't generally physically attracted to him, but I was insistent on being with him. This was true our whole 15 years together.

And he had so many blocks that the sexual situation did not play out. Instead it was a ton of power struggles and emotional pain.

I have someone now who has my Moon in their 8th, but it's not romantic so I won't get to experience that on. Sad about it too! hahahahaha!

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Aww damn. We gotta fix this. THIRD time's a charm!! ❤ You deserve to experience the *healthy* side of this synastry. Maturity is definitely essential.

posted January 19, 2023 01:53 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Whew sweet baby Jesus!! 😮 That's a lottt - maturity is KEY. I *knew* he had to have some Plutonian energy in his possession.

Y'all were acting like the hysterical chick in this video over each other. 😂😂😂 HILARIOUS.

http://youtu.be/-cgdZVLfi_Y

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posted January 19, 2023 09:26 PM            

I have a couple more awesome movie clips for you visual learners out there. I'll likely also add them to my OP above for future reference. 🙂

~VENUS IN THE 8TH 💋 - Poison Ivy 2
"Maybe I can help you face your fears." http://youtu.be/AklLbjmXiGg

posted January 19, 2023 09:45 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Haha yeah it was pretty nuts 😜 You made me curious now what happens when someone have some Plutonian influence ?

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It's basically DOUBLE TROUBLE. 😎

When a person has strong Plutonian influence in their own chart... then they start hitting YOUR 8th House (or you hit theirs) on top of that?? It's like "how dare you f--k my ENTIRE SOUL like this, sir." 😂

@MonteCristo - I actually need to look into Composites more overall. But here's a great link for you that I feel will be helpful. 🙂

posted January 20, 2023 02:36 AM            

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Originally posted by MonteCristo:
And how would these aspects and placements play out in a composite? We have sun and mars in 8th, in leo

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posted January 20, 2023 03:06 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
It's basically DOUBLE TROUBLE. 😎

When a person has strong Plutonian influence in their own chart... then they start hitting YOUR 8th House (or you hit theirs) on top of that?? It's like "how dare you f--k my ENTIRE SOUL like this, sir." 😂
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posted January 21, 2023 06:11 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Haha okey i see. That is very accurate i even think this happens with the other Water houses too mixed in with some Pluto aspects in Synastry plus also having some Plutonian influence in the natal chart too. It’s pretty nuts

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posted January 21, 2023 06:32 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
OOOH!!

I have a couple more awesome movie clips for you visual learners out there. I'll likely also add them to my OP above for future reference. 🙂

VENUS IN THE 8TH ⚘⚘ - Poison Ivy 2
"Maybe I can help you face your fears." http://youtu.be/AklLbjmXiGg

MARS IN THE 8TH 🔥🔥 - Rambling Rose
"Please kiss me! Will you kiss me?!" http://youtu.be/rZsLiY_Yyhk

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*Adding onto the goodies*

~PLUTO IN THE 8TH 😮 - Indecent Proposal

The sudden Birth, Death & Rebirth of an intense, unexplainable connection. 🔥 Bold AF. Other's "resources" involved.

"John places a bet." http://youtu.be/gQubL9r0qAQ

posted January 23, 2023 01:59 AM            

This synastry makes me think of Gomez & Morticia Addams! 💯 The scene below really sums it all up. Like the Sun - they were at the CENTER of each other's lives. They *burned* for each other & were filled to the brim with dark passion.

http://youtu.be/zIC2aMlqEZk

I had this synastry and Moon-Pluto with a (Leo Sun, Scorpio Moon) man that I met while on a birthday trip to Jamaica. 🔥🔥 INSTANT loads of passion between us. You'd have thought we'd known each other for years!! Things flowed naturally.

posted August 24, 2024 09:06 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
~SUN IN THE 8TH ☀️

This synastry makes me think of Gomez & Morticia Addams! 💯 The scene below really sums it all up. Like the Sun - they were at the CENTER of each other's lives. They *burned* for each other & were filled to the brim with dark passion.

http://youtu.be/zIC2aMlqEZk

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I currently have this synastry with a Leo colleague - always attracting these damn Leos, I tell ya! 🤣 And his Pluto is directly on my ASC. He likes to be in my space.

In addition to that, a bisexual female friend of mine is *still* expressing attraction to me, after confessing last Summer that I was her physical type and a bunch of other unexpected sh*t. Lol. She knows I'm Straight. My Sun falls into her 8H! Her Pluto is in my 1H as well.

posted August 25, 2024 07:17 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I currently have this synastry with a Leo colleague - always attracting these damn Leos, I tell ya! 🤣 And his Pluto is directly on my ASC. He likes to be in my space.

In addition to that, a bisexual female friend of mine is *still* expressing attraction to me, after confessing last Summer that I was her physical type and a bunch of other unexpected sh*t. Lol. She knows I'm Straight. My Sun falls into her 8H! Her Pluto is in my 1H as well.

They are both Virgo Risings. And not virginal at all. 🔥

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posted August 25, 2024 01:42 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Be careful now Lovely you don`t want them to lose their minds, lol. But seriously you might bring out an obsessive behavior in others because of your own 8th house placement and 1st house Pluto and you are also hitting their 8th and Pluto too so it might intensify things a lot more. I hope those you are dealing with are somewhat mature so it might not get out of hand. Good luck with this insane house 😜 and i hope you are doing well.

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Hey Chica. 🙂

Thankfully, the woman is mature for the most part from what I can see. Lord knows I can't stand unnecessary drama! If I were into women, she would get her world ROCKED. 🔥🔥 Lol. As she does have high intelligence and sex appeal, which I respect.

The attraction between me & my Leo colleague is mutual. ☀️ Thankfully, he's a dude. Lol. Our connection is rather new, so I'm still getting a feel for him and how he operates. His 8H Aries Moon is conjunct my Sun. 🌙 Sleepy what are your thoughts on 8H Mooners?

I think you make a solid point about my own Plutonian Energy being at play here. The natal chart of each individual should be analyzed in unison with the synastry to understand how each person will truly be impacted. 💯 I was discussing this recently with a good friend, actually. When a person is fearful or immature - I *DO NOT* enjoy having 8H synastry with them. As this sh*t is not for the faint of heart!

I'll be back to elaborate further in a bit. 👍 Hope you're enjoying your day.

posted August 25, 2024 04:19 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:

The attraction between me & my Leo colleague is mutual. ☀️ Thankfully, he's a dude. Lol. Our connection is rather new, so I'm still getting a feel for him and how he operates. His 8H Aries Moon is conjunct my Sun. 🌙 Sleepy what are your thoughts on 8H Mooners?

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posted August 27, 2024 10:19 PM            

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You must be really his "type" i think with his Moon in Aries in the 8th house and you being an Aries with Pluto in the 1st and Venus in the 8th you probably embody some qualities he is drawn to in women. I knew someone with an 8th house Aries Moon and what i can say is they are very much still like an Aries but the emotions are more intense so whatever Aries is he will be more intense about it.

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What's interesting is that he seems to try to mask his intensity by smiling like a Cheshire Cat 24/7. 🤣 Granted, some people are indeed very cheerful! But it doesn't seem completely natural with him. I'll uncover his real essence as time goes on, though.

posted August 31, 2024 05:21 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
What's interesting is that he seems to try to mask his intensity by smiling like a Cheshire Cat 24/7. 🤣 Granted, some people are indeed very cheerful! But it doesn't seem completely natural with him. I'll uncover his real essence as time goes on, though.

I feel the same way with my Scorpio Sun friends. Like girl... you know damn well that you are Hekate personified. 🔮 Not some cheesing Cheerleader with sunshine beaming from her nipples! LMAO

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posted September 04, 2024 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:

LOL this is so spot on they tend to do this a lot haha. Just let them have that they need to feel like they are somewhat in control.

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You notice it, too?! Lol.

Scorpios definitely want to be in control (of others AND themselves) as much as possible. 💯 Whereas, with me - I just care about having autonomy over MYSELF like most Arians do. That's precisely why I prefer working Independently, rather than Managing a team. STFU and let me do my job! 🙂 And you go do yours. Many Scorpions that I know, are often in Managerial positions. So, it's interesting to see how we express our Mars Energy differently.

*Side Note: Most of my Authority Figures have had Sag placements. 🐎 My Saturn is in Sag!

posted September 05, 2024 05:56 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
You notice it, too?! Lol.

Scorpios definitely want to be in control (of others AND themselves) as much as possible. 💯 Whereas, with me - I just care about having autonomy over MYSELF like most Arians do. That's precisely why I prefer working Independently, rather than Managing a team. STFU and let me do my job! 🙂 And you go do yours. Many Scorpions that I know, are often in Managerial positions. So, it's interesting to see how we express our Mars Energy differently.

*Side Note: Most of my Authority Figures have had Sag placements. 🐎 My Saturn is in Sag!

Do you still interact with that one guy you had 8H Moon synastry with Sleepy? You had shared the chart with Galactic.

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