posted February 02, 2024 08:03 PM            

It could be public displays of the reputation of a relationship!

posted February 25, 2024 04:22 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I've been on a few dates with a guy who says he thinks I'm everything he's been looking for. I still don't feel like being in a relationship though.

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Keep us updated please

I am trying to catch up with threads after a few months of travel, work, moving...

I finally went on couple of dates in December and January. Had a little bit of fun around holidays, but that's it - nothing serious. I still have a very serious attitude towards dating in general, not very hopeful, and there's nobody around that I like. But I had a wonderful brief experience with someone who liked me very much - just a healthy encounter, respectful, healing. Unfortunately, I don't find it's common to have short meaningful, warm and respectful emotional encounters with people - things usually just get messy. So I am grateful for this experience because it felt nice and elevated compared to others.

posted February 26, 2024 09:36 AM            

The Sag guy turned out to be a liar. I knew something was off about him when he kept touching himself in public.

posted March 04, 2024 08:22 PM            

I am sorry to hear about your friend and that guy (yikes!). It must be for the best that they are not in your life anymore - that should clear up the space for better relationships!

I can relate to Saturn / Mars too! Though I had a conjunction recently that didn't last long. But regardless, yeah, no sex.

I am also quite unhappy with my social life - except when I travel, which I try to do a lot. I am not having issues with my friends, but I don't feel like spending time with most of them. One in particular is making me feel depressed even though she is very nice. I guess I've outgrown some relationships and really just feel I need something new and fresh both in friendships and relationships!! Plus all my friends are either married or in long term relationships so I feel alone.

posted March 06, 2024 07:54 AM            

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Originally posted by frida:
I want to say I'll be so glad too, but Saturn transit through 8th house is next, and that's one of the most difficult Saturn transits

I am sorry to hear about your friend and that guy (yikes!). It must be for the best that they are not in your life anymore - that should clear up the space for better relationships!

I can relate to Saturn / Mars too! Though I had a conjunction recently that didn't last long. But regardless, yeah, no sex.

I am also quite unhappy with my social life - except when I travel, which I try to do a lot. I am not having issues with my friends, but I don't feel like spending time with most of them. One in particular is making me feel depressed even though she is very nice. I guess I've outgrown some relationships and really just feel I need something new and fresh both in friendships and relationships!! Plus all my friends are either married or in long term relationships so I feel alone.

I also really want a child... Saturn or not, I don't know, but he's not helping.

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Why is Saturn transiting the 8th house one of the most difficult transits? I do have placements in my 8th house. Venus, North Node, Mercury, and Jupiter.

Pluto is currently transiting my 6th house. And all I do is work and go to the gym that's it. And it's depressing I'm glad I have a job that I can do from home though. It's something that I'm doing until I can pass my state exam for Massage Therapy.

I have no social life at all and yes no sex (this bothers me for some reason when it didn't usually). But transit Saturn will start separating from my Mars later this month. And next month it'll be at 4 degrees separating thank goodness.

Pluto in my 6th house has made me more health cousious and I also feel like I have had to change my daily routine.

posted March 07, 2024 01:12 AM            

Through 8th house, Saturn makes us face our dark fears and mortality. It should affect the sex life and intimacy too because that's what 8th house is about. Inheritance, shared finances etc... I don't know really how difficult it will be. I am a little worried because my mom's health is declining, we shall see.

I was curious so I checked when Saturn was transiting my 8th last time - I was a teenager. Totally different than being an adult. But I had my first boyfriend exactly when Saturn entered the 8th house (well it was just that time in life). And then coincidently I had sex for the first time when tr. Saturn in 8th was opposing my Saturn+Jupiter in 2nd (also tr. Jupiter on my Venus and a bunch of luminaries transiting 8th). I can't relate anything else that was happening with Saturn in 8th. Just hormonal teenage years with lots of partying and boys. I was all punk/goth, wearing black, occasionally quite unhappy, so I guess I was facing my darkness haha. I didn't experience things related to death, finances etc, but I was learning about sex for the first time.

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
@frida once transit saturn starts to separate from my Mars will I have a better chance at getting laid? Or does it have to be completely unaspected?

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Heh, I really hope so! I did notice some restrictions with Saturn transits to Mars and also in synastries when someone's Saturn squares my Mars. But a lot of times Saturn transits to Mars (at least in my chart) have to do with other things - work, responsibilities, discipline. That's where my energy goes and I can accomplish a lot. That should especially be true for you because your Mars is in 10th house. And that's exactly what you are describing - you are working and exercising really hard and it will pay off!

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
You should look at what's transiting your 5th in regards to children.

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posted May 22, 2024 04:55 PM            

I've been going out on dates with men who I've matched with on dating apps. I went out with this one guy earlier this month. He was nice but I didn't like him it was the Pisces guy. We have Sun/Moon conjunct in our synastry.

Then recently I went out with another guy (we've already been on two dates this week and we matched last week). I do like him and he says he likes being with me. But I don't know what to expect honestly. We have Venus square Uranus in our Composite Chart. (this can make things happen fast and then end quickly) And a lot of oppositions to our Mars. So I'm assuming that nothing long-term would come of it? I do really enjoy his company though. We seem to hit it off we have the same Mercury signs. He does seem a little shy probably due to him having a natal retrograde Venus but it's ok. He's also six years younger than me too.

We even have the same birthday

It seems too good to be true and I'm trying not to be delusional as I currently have Neptune transiting my natal Venus.

posted June 06, 2024 12:46 AM            

Saturn just entered my 8th house. It will go back to the 7th house in a month and a half or so, and then leave the 7th for good next February.

posted June 17, 2024 07:30 AM            

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Originally posted by frida:
How are things going @ChildofVenus?

Saturn just entered my 8th house. It will go back to the 7th house in a month and a half or so, and then leave the 7th for good next February.

As it got close to the 8th house, I deleted all my online dating accounts because I got fed up and tired. I am happier enjoying other things in life and maybe I'll meet someone who is good for me organically. Unrelated to all this, I started hanging out more with my ex, as friends (kind of?).

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I was about to call it quits on dating. After the last date I had in April. At the end of May I met a guy online and we’ve been on five dates already. We enjoy each other’s company I like him. I feel like we communicate well and it’s just nice being together. We even have the same birthday just six years apart. I think we have decent synastry. His Saturn conjuncts my DSC.

posted June 21, 2024 01:43 AM            

I am completely focused on my work now... but otherwise spend "too much" time with my ex all of the sudden. Our synastry is too hard to beat. Composite not that great. I've been strict about keeping it platonic because I either want full commitment (marriage and kids) or nothing (or in this case just enjoying the attention

posted August 05, 2024 08:57 PM            

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Originally posted by frida:
It sounds promising - I am happy for you and fingers crossed that something beautiful develops. How interesting that happened as Saturn approached the 8th house cusp.

I am completely focused on my work now... but otherwise spend "too much" time with my ex all of the sudden. Our synastry is too hard to beat. Composite not that great. I've been strict about keeping it platonic because I either want full commitment (marriage and kids) or nothing (or in this case just enjoying the attention

Update: Ugh, transit Mars squared my Moon (Leo) and Venus (Aquarius) and his Mars (his Mars on my Moon), and it stopped being platonic. Darn it.

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How are things going with you? Are you still talking to your ex?

I think things are getting easier now. I like the guy that I’m currently dating. He’s nice to me and seems to actually care about me. I’ve never experienced this before. I hope things last for us because so far I’m content.

posted August 09, 2024 04:33 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
How are things going with you? Are you still talking to your ex?

I think things are getting easier now. I like the guy that I’m currently dating. He’s nice to me and seems to actually care about me. I’ve never experienced this before. I hope things last for us because so far I’m content.

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I am so glad to hear that things are going well for you! Enjoy the journey ❤️ So in the end, Saturn transit through your 7th house really did bring you something solid.

All I can say that I feel the heaviness around dating and relationships lightening up. Nothing concrete though. With Uranus, Jupiter and now Mars transiting my 10th house (and yours, I wonder how that's working out for you?), I am preoccupied with my career and a few other areas in life. Focusing on myself.

Yes, I'm still talking to my ex He's weird haha, he really doesn't get some things. He never even loved anyone else but me in his life. We are not together though. If he ever comes to his senses, I guess I'd be with him because we had something real and we understand each other so well. Otherwise, I am a lot more at peace since I stopped online dating. A bit before Saturn entered my 7th house and for a while after, my heart was bleeding for about 2 years (I had other heavy transits too). I can't think of a better word than bleeding, and I couldn't stop it... I dreamt that playgrounds were burning and people committing suicides. I think I finally came to terms that I may never find the kind of connection that I'm looking for and I'll try to make up for it with my own spiritual experiences and work that I love. Perhaps someone will show up with who I can have a good day to day life, joy, respect, trust etc. and with who I can build a family - even if it's just the two of us. I'd love that! But I don't hope anymore that I'll find the spiritual connection I've always wanted.

posted August 15, 2024 06:37 PM            

Honestly, I feel like running into traffic and being by a car and just ending this ******** . I feel so lonely, sad, and I seriously can't take my life anymore.

posted August 16, 2024 06:53 AM            

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Originally posted by frida:

I am so glad to hear that things are going well for you! Enjoy the journey ❤️ So in the end, Saturn transit through your 7th house really did bring you something solid.

All I can say that I feel the heaviness around dating and relationships lightening up. Nothing concrete though. With Uranus, Jupiter and now Mars transiting my 10th house (and yours, I wonder how that's working out for you?), I am preoccupied with my career and a few other areas in life. Focusing on myself.

Yes, I'm still talking to my ex He's weird haha, he really doesn't get some things. He never even loved anyone else but me in his life. We are not together though. If he ever comes to his senses, I guess I'd be with him because we had something real and we understand each other so well. Otherwise, I am a lot more at peace since I stopped online dating. A bit before Saturn entered my 7th house and for a while after, my heart was bleeding for about 2 years (I had other heavy transits too). I can't think of a better word than bleeding, and I couldn't stop it... I dreamt that playgrounds were burning and people committing suicides. I think I finally came to terms that I may never find the kind of connection that I'm looking for and I'll try to make up for it with my own spiritual experiences and work that I love. Perhaps someone will show up with who I can have a good day to day life, joy, respect, trust etc. and with who I can build a family - even if it's just the two of us. I'd love that! But I don't hope anymore that I'll find the spiritual connection I've always wanted.

I'm supposed to go on a date tomorrow with someone new after a long time, but that's more just for fun

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So far it does seem like Saturn did bring me someone solid. We have the same birthday just a different year and he's a Cap rising. I like him a lot but I don't want to rush things. It's only been about three months. If I'm being honest I still have my guard up a lot. He says he wants something serious. I can see myself being with him. But then a part of me is still second-guessing everything. Before I met him I had gone out with two different guys and was done with dating.