posted August 16, 2024 08:45 AM            

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Originally posted by multipolarworldorder:
I hate Saturn in the 7th house transit... as soon as it hit my 7th house I argued with a good friend and she left my life. We haven't spoken in 6 months and we used to be very close in a spiritual way.

Honestly, I feel like running into traffic and being by a car and just ending this ******** . I feel so lonely, sad, and I seriously can't take my life anymore.

I started a business in hopes of earning more money and achieving my dream, but I've hit so many delays and ******* obstacles, I hate it. Especially now during this retrograde Mercury, it's amplified the blockages towards achieving my business goals. Couple that with the fact that I am alone and have no one to talk to... it's just a lot to handle... I know Saturn teaches you lessons, blah blah blah, but seriously... I can't handle it bro. I just can't. I need life to give me a break.

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posted August 18, 2024 06:16 PM            

I know women try to change the person she is in relationship with. But when you give up expectation to change the other but instead through your words and actions, point out to them your observation, it will benefit both.

Remember the other is also god / goddess but deep asleep especially in the age of Kali. It is not your duty to wake others unless you have awoken yourself first. All you can do is help find the guiding light to truth in each other.

posted August 19, 2024 07:12 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
So far it does seem like Saturn did bring me someone solid. We have the same birthday just a different year and he's a Cap rising. I like him a lot but I don't want to rush things. It's only been about three months. If I'm being honest I still have my guard up a lot. He says he wants something serious. I can see myself being with him. But then a part of me is still second-guessing everything. Before I met him I had gone out with two different guys and was done with dating.

As far as my career goes yes I'm focused on that a lot. That's really what I think about mostly I want a career that I am happy with. What do you do for work?
I hope the date went well even if it's not so serious.

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I'm not confident enough to analyze other people's synastries and I don't want to say something wrong. I agree you two have a decent synastry. Be careful with your Neptune square his Mercury and Venus. There could be misunderstandings. It's good to be cautious and communicate as clear as possible. Also your Moon is unaspected in the synastry which makes me wonder if your emotional needs will be fully acknowledged and met in this relationship.

Transit Uranus also squares your Asc now... and the full Moon today is exactly on 27* Aquarius. Curious if that will have any effect on the relationships. My Asc is also at 27* Leo, plus Sun and Mercury at 28* Aquarius.

posted August 19, 2024 10:38 PM            

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Originally posted by frida:
@multipolarworldorder, hang in there, it will get better! Do you have planets in your 7th house?

I'm not confident enough to analyze other people's synastries and I don't want to say something wrong. I agree you two have a decent synastry. Be careful with your Neptune square his Mercury and Venus. There could be misunderstandings. It's good to be cautious and communicate as clear as possible. Also your Moon is unaspected in the synastry which makes me wonder if your emotional needs will be fully acknowledged and met in this relationship.

Transit Uranus also squares your Asc now... and the full Moon today is exactly on 27* Aquarius. Curious if that will have any effect on the relationships. My Asc is also at 27* Leo, plus Sun and Mercury at 28* Aquarius.

I work as an engineer, with a mix of research and art in it. Keeping it a little vague here, I'd rather not reveal much online Yeah, this much activity in the 10th house currently should not be wasted! Best of success!

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No planets in my 7th house natal. Saturn and Neptune are in my 5th house natal though, and the friendship with the woman I've lost was very Neptunian, so I think the 5th house neptune definitely had some impact. It was such a rough experience to find someone so beautiful in soul and spirit, and then lose them.... : (

She was my good friend, we spoke about deep things, she knew all my secrets, and I knew hers. We were heavily bonded. We helped each other through rough times. She even told me she'd always be there to help me and now that she isn't, I just feel crappy about the whole thing. I wish I could forget her because the memory of her just hurts.

posted August 20, 2024 12:24 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I understand I lost someone that I had been friends with since kindergarten. We didn't argue one day she just blocked me on Social Media. I still don't even know what I did wrong. We were in the middle of having a conversation. This transit has been rough for me too. I've had a lot of relationship drama. And I still have a lot of time left. Saturn won't be out of my 7th house until March of next year. But then it'll be transiting my natal Venus. I'm just trying to go along with the ride. I've said the same thing too about just needing a break. I still feel like I need a break sometimes it's been rough.

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Yeah dude... I wouldn't wish this transit on my worst enemy. Speaking from personal experience, this transit isn't easy and it just ****** me off how cookbook astrology sites talk about getting married or deepening a relationship during this time. That is not how it's going for me. Quite the opposite. It's a social desert in my life lol. I know Saturn teaches, etc. But so many people downplay the pain felt during rough Saturn transits.

At least people like us are aware, via astrology, why it's so tough currently. I can't imagine having zero clue or faith in astrology and wondering what the hell is going on in my life during this experience.

posted August 20, 2024 11:49 AM            

the second Saturn opposite natal Sun Transit is happening right now, and he just told me he cheated on me but still loves me.(The first-time opposition was banana too) weirdly, I kind of knew it was coming. and I know this isn't the end of our story because Saturn is in retrograde(so is my chart ruler Mercury) and Saturn will go direct and make the 3rd opposition in December. My astrologer friend was sure I'd meet someone new with this transit and how TIME should be my friend... don't rush just wait and put in work with Saturn transit... but now I am not even sure it will work out with time!? Cheating is a red line for me and I have to respect myself and my dignity, wtf.

Besides the love relationship, I am also entering a new business partnership. It's much easier to channel Saturn quality with work. There are a lot of things to work out with communication and trial but it feels helpful and progressive. Also, Jupiter is transiting in 10H, this feels GREAT and lots of work incoming and it's helping the bzns partnership formation. I wish I had Jupiter 10H aspect Natally.

I guess there will be more lessons coming from the Saturn in 7H transit will last til 2026... I must say, Saturn in 6H was much harder for me (it was opposite my chart Ruler in 12H) and I'm scared of the 8H transit, it's notoriously the hardest one (gotta save up some money...) 7H transit is hard but feels manageable.

posted August 21, 2024 11:27 AM            

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Originally posted by frida:
@multipolarworldorder, hang in there, it will get better! Do you have planets in your 7th house?

I'm not confident enough to analyze other people's synastries and I don't want to say something wrong. I agree you two have a decent synastry. Be careful with your Neptune square his Mercury and Venus. There could be misunderstandings. It's good to be cautious and communicate as clear as possible. Also your Moon is unaspected in the synastry which makes me wonder if your emotional needs will be fully acknowledged and met in this relationship.

Transit Uranus also squares your Asc now... and the full Moon today is exactly on 27* Aquarius. Curious if that will have any effect on the relationships. My Asc is also at 27* Leo, plus Sun and Mercury at 28* Aquarius.

I work as an engineer, with a mix of research and art in it. Keeping it a little vague here, I'd rather not reveal much online Yeah, this much activity in the 10th house currently should not be wasted! Best of success!

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We've had some miscommunications but other than that things have been good. I notice my Moon only makes a trine to his Jupiter. But emotionally I feel ok. Being an Aquarius Moon I usually feel detached even when my moon is aspected in synastry. I like how I feel when I'm with him he's nice to me and generous. My Moon being in his 1st house probably helps. Yesterday made three months of us dating and we went to a nice restaurant. I don't expect things to be perfect the fact that he puts in the effort is comforting.