posted March 17, 2024 12:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
An update.

All went well with my sister's surgery. She is recovering from that procedure. And even her recovery is without complications.🙌🏿

I want to take this opportunity to thank [b]@ Stawr @teasel and @Hypatia for the support given. It was highly appreciated

This close call has made it clear to me that I am strongly emotionally connected to my family. No doubt. The Moon-Mercury connection is strong. I was affected by the moods and emotions of all concerned during this time.

But thank goodness its over. ❤❤[/B]

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posted March 17, 2024 01:07 PM            

I spoke to my sister today who has an MBA and is a realtor and finances is more her area of strength, she has financial literacy and doesn't get anxious and shut down like I do around these topics.

She provided me with guidance on both completing the death claims and what to do and the steps I need to take to deal with the house situation with my ex.

I ended up signing up with fidelity investments and opening an IRA inheritance account, I started the transfer process from my mother's IRA account and finally completed the death claim, she will review it later tonight and then my dad will provide me with the death certificate and it will then be ready to be mailed off. With her guidance on what to do it was actually simple to get all this done.

She had offered to help already but I was just was blocked mentally from doing anything about it.

Once this gets submitted I will start addressing the house situation. I feel better about moving forward with it with her guidance, support and advice. She is going to help me with every step of the way.

My sister who is a cancer has literally been an angel to my mother, my father, my brother and now with me. She has helped so much with all this stuff surrounding my mother's health decline, her death and everything that is coming after. Her role in helping us has been very significant and substantial, its mind blowing, I just can't believe how lucky we have been to have her as part of our family. All this stuff makes me anxious and I shut down or want to run and hide and she just handles all of it.

posted March 18, 2024 10:52 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
That is great to hear Aries23! Thanks for sharing this wonderful news, glad your family is feeling more at peace and can now rest and celebrate. Situations like this definitely give you perspective and bring you closer to your family. You decide to let go of the things that divide you more and focus more on what unites you.

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posted March 18, 2024 12:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff:
Jupiter will move into my 3rd house within about two weeks! I want to get a bigger car!

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posted March 18, 2024 02:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Mine is arcing to enter the cusp the 2nd house cusp. How has your experience been with Jupiter in 2nd?

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Well, it entered my 2nd house roughly early 2023! I quit one job around March of 2023! I then got another job around October that paid more! But the employer was inflated (Jupiter) so I quit the job. I did get paid more (Jupiter in the 2nd house). Then also more money, but I also got an inflated (Jupiter) boss, LMAO.

And now I am trying to get another job!

My job issues are partly my South Node in Virgo issues! But they are also partly because I have depression!

posted March 23, 2024 02:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff:
Well, it entered my 2nd house roughly early 2023! I quit one job around March of 2023! I then got another job around October that paid more! But the employer was inflated (Jupiter) so I quit the job. I did get paid more (Jupiter in the 2nd house). Then also more money, but I also got an inflated (Jupiter) boss, LMAO.

And now I am trying to get another job!

My job issues are partly my South Node in Virgo issues! But they are also partly because I have depression!

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posted March 23, 2024 03:02 PM            

I am wondering if it was such a good idea for me to take in this project right now? I am not at my best. My energy levels are not top notch. I feel like napping and waking up when all is finished tbh.

But as project manager ,I must gather up the strength somehow to do what needs to be done. And its tough.

posted March 24, 2024 02:09 PM            

Merc rules my 3rd and 6th house & placed in 9th and conj the MC.Moon rules my 4th is placed in the 3rd.Mars rules my 8th, 1st and placed in the 6th.

posted March 24, 2024 02:09 PM            

Kate has progressed Moon conjunct Transit Plu (out of sign).

She also has progMars in Lib (retro) square Sun/Moon.She recently underwent surgery to remove the malignant growth that was initially thought of as "benign".

posted March 24, 2024 06:47 PM            

F*ck me...this freaking eclipse full moons..as someone with a water moon and fire as her strongest element who is neurodivergent, emotional, reactive with impulse control issues when emotional, impacting how I communicate and deal with things, I don't need full moon eclipses throwing little grenades at my emotional nature and exacerbating my undesirable tendencies and irrational nature more than typical...it just makes me feel so not in control and irrational.

Feels like a tidal wave hitting you for no reason at all bc I was feeling great and then this FM eclipse just wants to cause havoc in my subconscious and make me act irrational like F*ck you FM Eclipse.

posted March 24, 2024 06:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
So I am back home with family to do renovations on the family home. Transiting Mercury was on my Asc on the cusp of the day when we were about to do some travelling. At it is continuing its venture in the 1st house as I spearhead the renovations.

I am wondering if it was such a good idea for me to take in this project right now? I am not at my best. My energy levels are not top notch. I feel like napping and waking up when all is finished tbh.

But as project manager ,I must gather up the strength somehow to do what needs to be done. And its tough.

Sun was square my Sun(but is separating now). Moon in Virgo is squaring my Sun. The Mercury transit is opposing my Mars.

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yea that moon in virgo was also opposing venus in pisces and yeah that stuff was hitting my mercury in virgo which squares my nodes and opposes my moon on Friday when I started to feel offffffff but then there is this wonderful Full Moon Eclipse coming down after midnight that I think was also stirring things up (I say wonderful sarcastically).

posted March 25, 2024 11:39 AM            

"It’s the third eclipse in a set of six occurring along the Aries-Libra axis from April 20th, 2023, to March 29, 2025. The first one was a Total Solar Eclipse in late Aries. While we’ve been focusing on building our independence and working on assertiveness since April 2023, this March eclipse in Libra prompts us to consider healthy relating and how it affects the process."

^^This whole weekend was about that but it did end up with my partner and I having sex pretty much during the eclipse bec he couldn't go to sleep.

We talked about healthy relating a lot last night and the issues we had since this Friday night since my mood shifted. Yes I had to reflect a lot yesterday the day right before the eclipse on this topic and how to make some changes to my routine like seeing less clients on Fridays instead of doing back to back for 8 hours. He needs to be able to tell me when I am rude and for me to not act out and be reactive and just listen, apologize and redirect.

But I swear is like this eclipse just stirred things up to get me to reflect on this stuff more bc I was in a great mood and doing well and then my mood shifted for no reason at all and I felt like I was out of my window of tolerance in hyper-arousal mode and hyper vigilant and then the next day in hypo-arousal. Is like the FM eclipse was like here lets stir things up and trigger some conflict so you can learn from it I SUPPOSE, well that is the hope right, that the universe is trying to help LOL.

"Full Moons are always helpful for magnifying pre-existing problems so that we can see where to bring back balance. Our larger work should focus on reaching a good balance. Enlightenment in the weeks following the lunation provides us with a golden opportunity to explore our emotional needs, ultimately leading to positive actions and decisions."

posted March 25, 2024 03:04 PM            

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yea that moon in virgo was also opposing venus in pisces and yeah that stuff was hitting my mercury in virgo which squares my nodes and opposes my moon on Friday when I started to feel offffffff but then there is this wonderful Full Moon Eclipse coming down after midnight that I think was also stirring things up (I say wonderful sarcastically).

Thinking you will feel more settled and grounded again once this Full Moon Eclipse passes.

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It's been unbelievably exhausting.Wowza! I really didn't think it would be this hard.

Much of the exhaustion I feel is also due to additional unforeseen expenses I have had to incurr. As much as I want the project to be quality focused,I also would like it all to be over.😶

But it is coming along nicely. Quite nicely. That's the upside 🙌🏿

posted March 25, 2024 03:36 PM            

The sun is squaring my Jupiter...so that pretty much translates to my happiness and optimism being challenged. I have it all the time around this year.

I've been trying to read helpful stuff online about how things pass only good times can be next if having a bad time....blablablaaa.

So I look at my chart. Not only is this eclipse challenging me feeling optimistic about life. Oh also Jupiter is in my second house and that means self esteem.

I have another not so great outlook on life transit going on right now too.
Mercury h12 square Saturn h9
Spiritually feeling hopeless. But still having cool stuff happen.

Jupiter and Uranus is squaring my IC and opposing my moon pluto and lilith and Kaali.

Chiron and NN are squaring my Neptune too.

posted March 26, 2024 07:56 AM            

Talk about not being in a good head space. It taking everything out of me to practice self care...when I have gotten to this point of fed up.

The existential life crises are constant. When can I just enjoy existing?

posted March 26, 2024 11:48 PM            

My fellow Libra Risings - how are YOU feeling?!

posted March 27, 2024 12:09 AM            

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Hypatia, someone’s looking for you here: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/244459.html

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Thank you! Oh is nice to hear from Orange!

So I continue to reflect on this Aries/Libra Super moon Eclipse....its been interesting...he tells me that I am combative ...We have venus conjunct mars square nodes in synastry and venus conjunct mars square jupiter conjunct uranus so maybe that is part of it too..I think I need to balance out my Aries nature...they say the IC is your deepest self, I need to lean into the need to create harmony internally and externally more, embody more venus and libra in my spirit but part of me is like F*ck it this is me, I don't know if I can change my nature and maybe I haven't found my person and someone who gets me but that feels more like wishful thinking, relationships take work and you do have to build relationship skills and emotional regulation skills if you want a more stable relationship that is prone to less conflict and were things are worked through gently and more smoothly.

This fits:

https://teaandrosemary.com/mars-nodal-aspects-synastry/

In the synastry chart, Mars aspects to the North Node indicate that the Mars person is pushing the Nodal person to change and grow. This can be beneficial or difficult, as sometimes Mars is very aggressive.

When Mars aspects the South Node in the synastry chart, this most likely indicates that there is leftover tension from a past life due to a war or fight. This energy will play out again in the current lifetime.

At their best, the North Node person can be an inspiration to the Mars person, helping them to focus and take action in a way that is constructive. Meanwhile, the Mars person can illuminate the North Node person’s path to soul growth and push them to take action in order to get there.

Mars Square North Node Synastry (Square South Node)

If you have the Mars square North North synastry aspect, you most likely also have the Mars square South Node aspect, though this isn’t always the case.

The Mars square North Node synastry aspect means that the couple knew each other in a past life, but they skipped the issues that they were supposed to address. In this life, they will be forced to address the problems between them in a more harsh and constant way.

When the Mars square North Node synastry couple first meets, they may feel intrigued by each other. They want to know more about each other, but there is also a rough energy between them and a sense of friction. This is usually what creates the attraction.

The couple perpetuated a war between them in a past life, and this energy still exists now. The relationship can be filled with power struggles, aggression, and anger.

Sometimes, Mars square North Node means that the couple is always competing against each other instead of being on the same side. They may try to one-up each other, win fights, or control each other. This dynamic simply feels natural because of the energy between them from their past life.

However, the Mars square North Node synastry relationship can block the couple from evolving if they can’t work through their issues. They may feel like they are triggered by the other person over and over, and that it’s impossible to truly make peace.

The way that the Mars person exerts their energy triggers the Nodal person, because it reminds them of how that energy was directed against them in this past life. In fact, the Mars person will trigger emotion issues as well as issues relating to the Nodal person’s sense of self.

Meanwhile, the Nodal person can feel held back from reaching their soul’s purpose. Something about this relationship makes them feel that they can never evolve around the Mars person.

Over time, the Mars person may want to impress the Nodal person or somehow work things out, but their efforts are in vain. Typically, the Mars person fails to see what the Nodal person really needs to evolve, so they give them all of the wrong things. For example, Mars may buy the Nodal person gifts instead of attempting to connect emotionally.

The Mars conjunct North Node synastry relationship can work if both people are willing to put the effort in. The Mars person must learn how to focus on themselves and build their own self-confidence without resorting to aggressive, competition, or games. They must stop trying to win the love of the Nodal person and start to realize that the Nodal person must choose to love them.

Meanwhile, the Nodal person must let go of their need to win against the Mars person. They are usually the ones who “lost” to Mars in a past lifetime, so now they may be obsessed with winning to try and even the scales. Over time, they will realize that this game of competition doesn’t truly change the energy.

The Nodal person must learn how to win for themselves, not against someone else. They must forgive their partner for past hurts and learn how to be on the same side as a couple.

Ultimately, the Mars square North Node synastry aspect means that there is an issue of competition in the relationship. The couple must learn to compete against themselves to be a better version of their soul, and to be united as a couple.

posted March 27, 2024 12:09 AM            

But you know one Virgo placement I'm starting to change my mind about?! Virgo ASC. ✨️ They may be the exception. Galactic used to tell me I'd have chemistry with them but I blew it off! Lol. Now that I've had more personal experience with them over the past year - we do indeed have chemistry. 👍 I see it now.

posted March 27, 2024 04:25 AM            

I think it's becoming a pattern that whenever Moon is in an angular house (whether house 7 or house 4) there is usually a "heart to heart" chat that needs to occur.

The trans Moon opposing my Asc seems to be a time when I am more receptive to another and willing to see the other's point of view.