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Topic: Does the 7th house represent the type of partners/relationships we attract?
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Blisstarix Newflake Posts: 11 From: Chi>NY Registered: May 2024
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posted July 17, 2024 08:44 PM
My 7th house is ruled by Capricorn(which makes me a Cancer rising). I've heard this placement represents the type of spouse we will have, and I've also seen it be about the characteristics we will have when we get into relationships. Also, my 7th house ruler is Saturn in the 10th house(in Taurus). Is this house about the partner's characteristics and physical attributes? And what exactly does this mean for the types of people I attract(or are attracted to me)? What do these placements say about how they will be(physically)? IP: Logged |
Preppyarcher7989Wiff Knowflake Posts: 357 From: United States Registered: Jan 2024
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posted July 18, 2024 12:43 AM
It can be, but it isn't the only factor. I'll give you a few real life examples from my life, with family and friends.My mother was an Aries rising and married a poetic, intellectual, kind, and creative, man. That sounds kind of like a Libra 7th house, to me! My sister, is a Virgo rising, and she married a guy who had a criminal past, who drank, and was a bit mentally unstable. My sister's 7th house is in Pisces. The guy has become a better person, and has changed. One more example. My brother is an Scorpio rising, and he married a very earthy, practical, and money-wise, women! His 7th house is in Taurus. So yes, the 7th house is one avenue of how a relationship may work out, the relationship's flavor in some areas, sometimes more than some areas! ------------------ Happiness is easy to find. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 10807 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 18, 2024 02:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff: It can be, but it isn't the only factor. I'll give you a few real life examples from my life, with family and friends.My mother was an Aries rising and married a poetic, intellectual, kind, and creative, man. That sounds kind of like a Libra 7th house, to me! My sister, is a Virgo rising, and she married a guy who had a criminal past, who drank, and was a bit mentally unstable. My sister's 7th house is in Pisces. The guy has become a better person, and has changed. One more example. My brother is an Scorpio rising, and he married a very earthy, practical, and money-wise, women! His 7th house is in Taurus. So yes, the 7th house is one avenue of how a relationship may work out, the relationship's flavor in some areas, sometimes more than some areas!
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 10807 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 18, 2024 02:38 AM
Just to add. The planets in the 7th or those close to the angle, tend to colour the 7th house attraction.In other words, it will influence the type of partner you are attracted to/attract to you and/or the nature of the relationship.For example if you have Mars conj Dsc (like me)or in house 7,the relationship partner is likely going to be someone who is easily triggered into anger or is very passionate. Because of the ardent nature of Mars, the relationship is likely to be demonstrative and loud.It can even degenerate to toxic levels. Even outright domestic violence(at worst). The relationship may also surface anger(Mars) for the individual.Feelings that are very intense that the native has always dissociated with the self. As the 7th house is also about that part of us which we have distanced ourselves from , because we find it doesn't match what we perceive ourselves (1st house)to be. I haven't seen this play out in my life in quite the full throttle mode as I have heard others who have thos placement have experienced.I think (in my case) it has yet to be triggered by a long-standing transit or progression to take form. I have been single for most of my life. However, I do note that I attract the aggressive/assertive types. They are the type that pursue me and rarely the other way around. This has happened time and again.I can't remember when I ever initiated romantic interest on anyone. And when I do, it's not successful. It seems that it works better when I am the object pursued i.e. The "sitting duck " (so to speak). Then things tend to develop more steadily. This until I yearn for independence again and break up. I think Mars, Sun and Ketu in 7th house, may find it difficult to sustain a relationship. As the impulse is usually towards independence and being alone. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4169 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted July 18, 2024 05:41 AM
from what i remember (it's been a bit) 7th house ruler's placement can tell you more about how your relationship works than about your spouse in general, though things about your spouse can be seen from 7thIP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 27794 From: Here Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2024 07:36 AM
So, would Uranus conjunct ascendant, affect the 7th house, and this subject? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 10807 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 18, 2024 09:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: So, would Uranus conjunct ascendant, affect the 7th house, and this subject?
Yes.The Asc/Dsc axis is one line. Planets on there affect both sides. Same as Mc/Ic axis.
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Preppyarcher7989Wiff Knowflake Posts: 357 From: United States Registered: Jan 2024
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posted July 18, 2024 10:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: 🙌🏿
Yeah it's not a foolproof equation, but it explains, at least, a certain angle of a person's possible partner. ------------------ Happiness is easy to find. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 1226 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted July 18, 2024 10:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: from what i remember (it's been a bit) 7th house ruler's placement can tell you more about how your relationship works than about your spouse in general, though things about your spouse can be seen from 7th
I agree 100%. That's how my 7th house in leo plays out. I tend to prefer getting involved with people that have a shared common goal, take charge, and we both support, and encourage each other to reach that goal. That's how my frienship with my Best Female Aquarius friend has worked out. Not dating but we are very close, we've been friends for 15+ yrs. I'm much better at planning and figuring out a solution for problems which she'll agree with. She's good at pushing me to make sure I stick to what was originally planned and not deviate from it. Everything comes together in the end and gets done!!!. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑ IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 2591 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted July 18, 2024 01:14 PM
It often works as someone with matching placements to other’s relationship houses tend to want to stick around longer, have more ability to find common ground. However, having one placement with that sign doesn’t mean those people are matching stereotypical qualities of the sign. Sometimes I got attracted to people because they appeared like they had my rs houses qualities, but they turned out not to be that way. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 27794 From: Here Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2024 01:52 PM
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Blisstarix Newflake Posts: 11 From: Chi>NY Registered: May 2024
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posted July 18, 2024 02:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff: It can be, but it isn't the only factor. I'll give you a few real life examples from my life, with family and friends.My mother was an Aries rising and married a poetic, intellectual, kind, and creative, man. That sounds kind of like a Libra 7th house, to me! My sister, is a Virgo rising, and she married a guy who had a criminal past, who drank, and was a bit mentally unstable. My sister's 7th house is in Pisces. The guy has become a better person, and has changed. One more example. My brother is an Scorpio rising, and he married a very earthy, practical, and money-wise, women! His 7th house is in Taurus. So yes, the 7th house is one avenue of how a relationship may work out, the relationship's flavor in some areas, sometimes more than some areas!
I see. But I don’t have any 7th house planets so how would this play out? Do I look towards the ruling planet of the sign that is in the house(which is Saturn)? But that is in the tenth house. However, I have the aspects Moon opposing Saturn and Saturn Square Neptune. How much of these are an importance you think?
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 10807 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 18, 2024 03:16 PM
@teasel. Uranus aspect Venus/ 7th house is the worst. They never know what they want. A very complex situation of "I love you from far. But I am far from loving you."I dated one with Venus conj Uranus.He just suddenly ghosted me. It was awful. Came back to apologize. But I was already gone emotionally.😶 IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss Knowflake Posts: 1244 From: Virginia, US Registered: Jan 2019
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posted July 18, 2024 10:49 PM
My 7th house hasn't been any help in my relationships. It's actually pointed more at who I am than my partner. Sagittarius descendant exactly conjunct the south node and both conjunct Uranus. I am extremely independent and want to do my own thing 99% of the time. I don't like to make plans, especially long term with another person. My life is constantly changing and possibly having to consider another person's opinion regarding my life is a bizarre thought to me. A few months ago I relented and gave my number to someone and eventually it got to where he called every day, texted during the day, etc, etc. It gave me anxiety! I seem to attract the opposite of my 7th house/my 7th house describes me more. Jupiter is in my 8th house (retrograde) capricorn so maybe that's who I'm attracting??? Idk, at this point I'd be happy being alone the rest of my life. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 27794 From: Here Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2024 11:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: [b]@teasel. Uranus aspect Venus/ 7th house is the worst. They never know what they want. A very complex situation of "I love you from far. But I am far from loving you."I dated one with Venus conj Uranus.He just suddenly ghosted me. It was awful. Came back to apologize. But I was already gone emotionally.😶[/B]
I have it opposed my descendant, and inconjunct my moon/venus. It feels like I experience this crap with others, so I don't get much of a chance to be the flake. Except when trying to form habits and routines. I need to be doing so much offline, and just trying to ground myself, and not feel like a freaking ghost.
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Preppyarcher7989Wiff Knowflake Posts: 357 From: United States Registered: Jan 2024
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posted July 19, 2024 12:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by Blisstarix: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff: [b]It can be, but it isn't the only factor. I'll give you a few real life examples from my life, with family and friends.My mother was an Aries rising and married a poetic, intellectual, kind, and creative, man. That sounds kind of like a Libra 7th house, to me! My sister, is a Virgo rising, and she married a guy who had a criminal past, who drank, and was a bit mentally unstable. My sister's 7th house is in Pisces. The guy has become a better person, and has changed. One more example. My brother is an Scorpio rising, and he married a very earthy, practical, and money-wise, women! His 7th house is in Taurus. So yes, the 7th house is one avenue of how a relationship may work out, the relationship's flavor in some areas, sometimes more than some areas!
I see. But I don’t have any 7th house planets so how would this play out? Do I look towards the ruling planet of the sign that is in the house(which is Saturn)? But that is in the tenth house. However, I have the aspects Moon opposing Saturn and Saturn Square Neptune. How much of these are an importance you think? [/B][/QUOTE]You don't have to have 7th house planets. Just your 7th house. I wasn't even talking about any of my family members's 7th house placments, just their 7th house. Like with me, I have a Pisces rising, and I don't have any 7th house, at all. But with my 7th house being mostly in Virgo, I attract people, at work, who I have found have been attracted to me. I have had to put down some boundaries at work, though. But yeah, the 7th house is a powerful them in one's love life. ------------------ Happiness is easy to find. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 2591 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted July 19, 2024 09:37 AM
It might be more about how I need to be in connections. As they make me go down to my 7th and take some of those qualities. Also, many of my relationships have my 7th house undertones. I used to be passive about any types of connections. When I was a child people came to me themselves. Eventually, I needed to start to extend myself a little more. With romantic interest I thought for a while apparently I needed to be an enchanted princess what didn’t work. So I also needed to learn to be more active and comfortable with it. That meant to acquire my 7th placements qualities. quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: from what i remember (it's been a bit) 7th house ruler's placement can tell you more about how your relationship works than about your spouse in general, though things about your spouse can be seen from 7th
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6365 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted July 19, 2024 09:44 AM
I'm talking to a guy who's a Cancer rising he has Mars in Cancer in his 7th house. I don't have any Cancer placements though. So I'm not sure if I fit his 7th house. But he likes me so I must fit something lol. His Mars (which is in his 7th house) does make a trine to my Venus. And his 7th house ruler (his Moon) does make a wide conjunction to my Sun. As in regard to me he doesn't have Aquarius placements but he's a different race. Which I suppose does fit me having an Aquarius 7th house with Venus square Uranus. Me having Venus square Uranus does make me kind of hot and cold. But with this guy who I'm currently dating so far I really like how he treats me and how I feel when I'm with him. So perhaps that's the difference. IP: Logged |
Blisstarix Newflake Posts: 11 From: Chi>NY Registered: May 2024
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posted July 19, 2024 04:06 PM
So 7th house doesn’t speak on partner’s physical traits or characteristics? Why do I see some websites say the 7th house can point to what physical traits your partner MAY have? Or is that just a sham? Lol. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4169 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted July 19, 2024 04:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by DualGemV2: I agree 100%. That's how my 7th house in leo plays out. I tend to prefer getting involved with people that have a shared common goal, take charge, and we both support, and encourage each other to reach that goal. That's how my frienship with my Best Female Aquarius friend has worked out. Not dating but we are very close, we've been friends for 15+ yrs. I'm much better at planning and figuring out a solution for problems which she'll agree with. She's good at pushing me to make sure I stick to what was originally planned and not deviate from it. Everything comes together in the end and gets done!!!. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑
yeah i think people put too much emphasis on the sign of the 7th house or someone having planets there, my first relationship (friends for like 20 years together for almost 15 started dating in hs) had more 3rd house stuff going on than anything (for me)🤷♀️ how things work for our individual souls doesn't necessarily reflect the rules laid out by astrology. a chart paints a picture, but people get too caught up in the rules. that being said divorce is in my vedic chart (lord of the 7th in the 6th) and a lack of spiritual connection/goals in a partnership causing it to fail (i have venus conjunct ketu in the ascendant) among other things can be seen.
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Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4169 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted July 19, 2024 04:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: [b]@teasel. Uranus aspect Venus/ 7th house is the worst. They never know what they want. A very complex situation of "I love you from far. But I am far from loving you."I dated one with Venus conj Uranus.He just suddenly ghosted me. It was awful. Came back to apologize. But I was already gone emotionally.😶[/B]
i have venus trine uranus and both aspecting my 7th house moon/rahu conjunction, i think the hard aspects are more likely to ghost. i've detached and stayed before though IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4169 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted July 19, 2024 04:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Blisstarix: So 7th house doesn’t speak on partner’s physical traits or characteristics? Why do I see some websites say the 7th house can point to what physical traits your partner MAY have? Or is that just a sham? Lol.
it can, but with physical appearances in particular i don't go by that, seeing what a relationship and partner are like is only partially 7th house anyway. in vedic there's also a d9 chart that brings more depth to that area of life. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 10807 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 20, 2024 03:29 AM
I found this on (https:// medium.com/@akashvaaniteam /type-of-chart-in-astrology-and-role-of-each-chart-about-marriage-4613dfeaa7aa)" There are 16 Divisional Charts in all, also known as Shadashvarga. Let’s have a look at the various charts and what each of the chart would signify: 1. Rashi/Natal Chart(D-1)–This is the basic chart which gives us details about the physical stature of the person and all the different basic aspects of life. 2. Hora Chart(D-2) — This chart would help in understanding the financial aspects of the person 3. Dreshkana(D-3) — This chart would give us information about the siblings and longevity of life. 4. Chaturamsha(D-4)- This chart will help us study about the property, fortune, mother and assets of the person. 5. Saptamsa(D-7) — This chart gives us information about the person’s ability to procreate their own progeny. 6. Navamsa(D-9)– This is one of the main charts referred to as it gives us information about married life, the spouse, spiritual progress and general fortune. This is used most often as it gives us the maximum details of a person. 7. Dashamsa(D-10) — This chart would tell us about the career, fame, status of person in society, work, occupation etc. 8. Dwadasamsa(D-12)–This chart gives us information about parents, their health and life expectancy. Also, it could help us know if any inheritable disease is predicted for the person. 9. Shodasamsa(D-16) — Shows us information about vehicles, accidents and happiness related to luxuries of life 10. Vimshamsa(D-20) — This division would let us know about worship, spiritual progress of a person 11. Chaturvimshamsa(D-24) — This chart lets us know about the learning, education, academic progress and achievements of a person. 12. Saptavimshamsa(D-27)–This chart would help us gain an insight into the physical strength, weaknesses and stamina of the person. 13. Trimshamsa(D-30)– This chart would give us details regarding the happiness, misfortune, miseries, evils and difficulties a person may have to face in his life. 14. Khavedamsa(D-40) — This chart lets us know the auspicious and inauspicious effects of the horoscope on our life. This also lets us know if there is any legacy from the maternal side of the family. 15. Akshvedamsa(D-45)–This chart gives an insight into the character of the person and the way he conducts himself in life. Again, this chart gives us an indication if there is any legacy from the paternal side of the family. 16. Shastiamsa(D-60)–This chart gives us details about past life karmas and repayment of good and bad deeds of our past life. It lets us know why particular events occur in the life of a person. Now, let’s have a look at which Chart is considered as the most important for a successful marriage. Ø First and foremost would be the Navamsa chart (D-9) The Navamsa chart is considered the most important to be studied for marriage, physical appearance, nature and character of the spouse. Ø Next, would be Dashamsa(D-10) This Dashama chart is used to know about the career prospects of a person in detail. Here one tenth of the RashiKundali will represent the career and a detailed analysis has to be done. Ø Also, we could consider Saptamsa(D-7) The Saptamsa chart would give information about begetting progeny and any othermatter relating to children. Consult astrologer for personalized detail To study the different charts we have to understand calculation of each Chart separately in detail and then study the horoscope as per the planetary positions. " I haven't looked at some of these charts. Interesting 🤔 IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 27794 From: Here Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2024 03:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: i have venus trine uranus and both aspecting my 7th house moon/rahu conjunction, i think the hard aspects are more likely to ghost. i've detached and stayed before though
I was going to respond with how I think I experience the inconjunct, but I'm tired. I think it's that I'm uncomfortable with fully cutting anyone off, and I used to think that was a good thing, but I don't know if it is, anymore. I sometimes envy those who can just cut someone off, and not care anymore. I also feel it emotionally, and Mars is about to conjoin that group, inconjunct Mars. I need to find a better outlet, than talking. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4169 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted July 20, 2024 06:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: I was going to respond with how I think I experience the inconjunct, but I'm tired. I think it's that I'm uncomfortable with fully cutting anyone off, and I used to think that was a good thing, but I don't know if it is, anymore. I sometimes envy those who can just cut someone off, and not care anymore. I also feel it emotionally, and Mars is about to conjoin that group, inconjunct Mars. I need to find a better outlet, than talking.
it takes me a long time to get there, but i can do it personally 🤷♀️ once someone is cut out then i don't care at all anymore and it's always been with good reason. it can be necessary, though generally i'm more just the type to not keep up with most people, i'll go years without talking to someone and not miss them even if i like them. im cool with losing touch and reconnecting whenever life goes that way outside of romantic relationships though when i'm done with those i'm fully done.
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