posted August 14, 2024 06:39 PM
I have 20 years of dating experience..
I recently made a list of everyone I’ve had a relationship with (or at least some period of dating , if it was just a fling)
From 22 people:
8x Sagittarius
4x Aries
2x Virgo
2x Pisces
2x Cancer
2x Libra
1x Scorpio (29 degree)
1x Aquarius
The men I loved seemingly unconditionally and had an amazing connection with, were all Sagittarius! My first boyfriend included.. and also my current boyfriend.
I had two significant relationships with Cancer men, where we were committed instantly, but the sexual spark just wasn’t quite there, and the whole relationship was based more on familiarity and friendship ..
The two Aries men I dated were also committed very fast but the relationship dissolved just as fast. One of them I married in Las Vegas , we broke up a month later (yeah I know)
The two Virgos, I dated broke my heart. The first one was a guy in high school, he wasn’t my boyfriend but an on/off situation , where we were in love with each other, but never at the same time.. I also never felt good enough in his presence.. and he started dating my best friend.
The other one is the father of my only child. He also triggered all of my self-esteem issues. We had really bad communication, despite a strong karmic & emotional bond.
I loved him, but he also chose someone else over me.
Pisces, Libra, Scorpio, Aqua were all flings.
Looking at that .. Sagittarius really stands out. I’ve never met a Sagittarius I didn’t like and even when the relationship dissolved, there were no hard feelings. I still like them. Interestingly my daughter is also a Sagittarius. I feel pure adoration for her entire being. I admire her in so many ways. The Sagittarians I dated and formed a relationship with, I always adored them. It wasn’t just infatuation, lust or romantic love it was also pure adoration.. and I always felt good in their presence. It’s like they switched me on
What also stands out is.. that despite loving Saggitarians, I also tend to gravitate towards men with either Cancer Asc or Cancer Moon!
Strangely I never dated a Taurus or a Gemini, despite both signs being in my 7th & 8th house.. but I like Taurus as a moon sign.. it gives me peace and makes me feel domestic around them.
My current boyfriend is s Sagittarius Sun, Taurus Moon (conj my NN), Cancer Asc and he has Mars in Aries.. conj my Venus/Mars. He basically checks every box so far! I’ve never had that type of combination with anyone before. Even though he’s physically not the most attractive partner I had, I’m crazy about him. His energy turns me on, he doesn’t even have to do anything.
How come Sagittarius Suns captivate me so much? They usually conj my anti-vertex.. btw.. it seems like my anti-vertex is stronger than my 5th, 7th or 8th house.. which is strange. I never heard of anti-vertex being that significant.
Am I overlooking something?