posted September 01, 2024 02:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
That's specific to them having romantic feelings for me, then I'm absolutely retarded and oblivious. Huge blindspot for me. Other **** though that's not true about, it's that specifically. So yeah I definitely said that, but it was likely about that. I can tell immediately when someone is sad or angry or something like that. Those things you can't hide from me, but you can be extremely forward about romantic intentions and that won't get through. I think that's because I'm the kind of person who will do **** like cuddle with friends or even had coworkers who would come over to me to lean against me or hug me or hold my hand when they were stressed, and I tend to flirt without really thinking because I don't see it as anything. I say I love you to friends, to people who made me momentarily happy etc it all means different **** of course but because I'm like that to such a degree I find it difficult to pick up on that. Not to mention I often hope that's not the case which adds to it. Plus it's also probably some unresolved trauma around self worth or some **** on top of that. But yeah... that's definitely me with that.

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posted September 01, 2024 08:12 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
I looked at your chart and saw that you have a 1st house Pluto some Neptune aspects and a 12th house Venus and a Cancer mc which i absolutely think influences you more to feel yourself through life sometimes.

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But if we went just by signs there it'd sound like a load of **** correct? 😁 Just wanted to help illustrate the point we were making earlier about signs and readings. Because my chart and life do this to a large degree. I'm also much calmer (particularly on the surface, internally 😅 not so much) than Aries moons are generally considered, which is another thing that can't be gained from the signs. It takes a lot to push me to have feelings beyond neutral that are negative (positive feelings not so much there I'm like a little kid and it doesn't take a lot for those to be pulled up) and it takes even more for me to react. When I do I'm generally calm, to the point where I've actually had exes and a roommate scream at me for being too calm during "fights" (I use the term loosely because on my end I'd attempt discussion and there was none to be had with them.) It gets a fair amount of people mad. When I do react though it's not pretty. 🤷‍♀️ I can be mean, but worse than that I can be cold. Just completely stop feeling anything and then I'm done (sometimes only in the moment, often for good) and check out to a large degree if I don't walk away entirely. People often have told me I'm the calmest person they know, which is funny because it's more just a lack of reaction rather than a lack of feeling though it can be mistaken as the latter and is often. I'm just very accustomed to jarring and tense situations and they tend to have a calming effect on me, the crazier things are around me the more calmly I typically behave, which people both appreciate and hate. It's clearer with aspects moon-uranus, moon-mercury in particular, but easily missed by sign. This is how most people's charts are ultimately.

If I were to post my vedic chart it'd be more in your face and the stuff in this chart that's more upfront would be more in the background. Which is intriguing. Lack of in depth knowledge of either can make looking at both flesh each other out in a way where the details of each often make up for each other. Depth of knowledge you can pull it all out with one system but without it you'll have a very poor idea of these things. Which is why you can look at these charts and see why water didnt express itself for those men in that stereotypical manner, and why someone else can't.

I think I'm fairly realistic about myself and what sort of person I am btw. I'm ok with the fact that I'm flawed and able to look at those flaws for what they are. It's a favorite pastime of mine to dig into myself and pull **** out to look at and work on etc. I actually really hate having feelings at all so being forced to move through life based on them to a large degree is a frustrating experience and I don't like most people enough to have any desire to care about what they're feeling much less react to it (but it's instinctual), I'm perfectly comfortable to be seen as anything by someone else really because I don't take those things personally to a large degree. Perception is afterall largely based on our internal workings. So it's not that I prefer my vedic chart for those reasons, I just find it to be more upfront about the major themes and such in my life and thus more accessible to an outsider. People don't tend to like how all these things can break down about the same, they think it loses meaning, but that's like getting upset you can take different routes to the same place ultimately.

posted September 03, 2024 10:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
But if we went just by signs there it'd sound like a load of **** correct? 😁 Just wanted to help illustrate the point we were making earlier about signs and readings. Because my chart and life do this to a large degree. I'm also much calmer (particularly on the surface, internally 😅 not so much) than Aries moons are generally considered, which is another thing that can't be gained from the signs.

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posted September 05, 2024 01:49 PM            

They are in constant need of female attention, and usually form intense relationships where the partner needs to have nerves of steel.

Air placements in the Sun or the Moon could lighten it, but I didn't see much difference with water, earth or fire placements in the moon or the sun.

posted September 05, 2024 06:28 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
What I find common in the three Cancer ACs that I have dated, is their grumpiness and an immaturity regardless of age.

Air placements in the Sun or the Moon could lighten it, but I didn't see much difference with water, earth or fire placements in the moon or the sun.

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That is because Fire, Water and Earth all can be very grumpy and immature esp Virgos and Capricorns can be very grumpy from the Earth signs, all the Fire signs are kids at heart and can be short fused and moody and all the Water signs can be grumpy having to deal with so much emotions and moodiness daily which can lead them to act immature.