posted February 17, 2025 07:45 PM            

I'm with you on that. My Venus is in 6th house, wide trine Libra Jupiter+Saturn in 2nd. Taurus MC. Aggressive people misinterpret it maybe as weakness and then I get into conflict with them since I have zero tolerance.

posted February 19, 2025 03:30 AM            

Isolation, inner conversations,escape, solitude, dissolving,alone time,sanctuary, spirituality,dreaming,privacy,concealment (intentional) or keeping secrets,staying away from the limelight, not feeling ready, being shy and retiring, wanting to be left alone, silence etc.

With Sat and Nep both in the 12th, I don't feel there is much difference in how this month will unfold. It will be as its been.

There is also the rising heat of the transit Mars conj my Moon and opp my Mercury anger. I just realized I am going online and picking fights with people 🤦🏿‍♂️

posted February 21, 2025 10:36 AM            

I also found a war water spell yesterday I’ve been keeping my eye out for one.

posted February 21, 2025 11:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I underestimated the finale of this Mars retrograde. I had the worst vomiting episode in my entire life. From Wednesday from 2-6am. I was vomiting so hard that I also ****** all over the floor. I basically slept the entire day after that. If I barely did anything yesterday. I think I can step it up today but going at a very slow pace.

I also found a war water spell yesterday I’ve been keeping my eye out for one.

How are you biological male, divine masculine Aries people, mars dominant people doing with this?

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Oh, that was my life for years. Every day. It's finally improved, but I'm still having days when I get sick.

posted February 22, 2025 03:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
As a Mars Libra in 6th (Placidus), i know exactly what you mean.I used to get stressed because the environments I worked in were so unprofessional.

And by "unprofessional", I mean that people would be unfair, toxic and unnecessarily difficult to work with.

Libra is energy that likes collaboration. But far and above that, I also realize that Libra likes justice and fairness. Venus truly is about justice and atonement.

So my concern would also be people getting away with the most.Not being held to account for their bad behaviour.And those who are doing their work, are still expected to work in unbearable conditions.

Watch your kidneys (as I have been told is sensitive area for Libra energy). The stress of that imbalance hits your kidneys.

I have a good friend working in a very challenging environment. She is always complaining about the unfairness and toxic culture of that environment etc. She is Libra Sun/Moon/Merc and Venus.

I think Libra is highly sensitive to such things. I also tell her to take care of her kidneys and not let those be compromised in the process of dealing with so much stress.

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posted February 22, 2025 10:47 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I am sinking. I don’t feel like talking to anyone, doing anything, going anywhere.

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So it's not the good kind of 'not caring'? Maybe talk to a counselor or something?
I'm so sorry. Sounds like me about ten years ago.

posted February 28, 2025 02:23 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I am sinking. I don’t feel like talking to anyone, doing anything, going anywhere.

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I think the problem is finding the right people that are receptive, willing to listen, going through a similar problem or in the same environment as you, and above all else you can trust.

I always had this rapport with Aquarian females, not so much the males. I never got along with air sign males.

I really believe Sherilyn Fenn when she said Johnny Depp would accompany her to auditions. I think that moral support did go a long way.

Jupiter is still conjunct my sun.

I'm still on observer mode. Very seldom do I say anything.

Connecting the dots of the world around me then linking the cause and effect, which is helping me stay sane in an insane world.

posted March 03, 2025 05:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Woh so there is an eclipse at the end of March 9 degrees in Aries. Sigh less intense than last year w/ squaring my Jupiter Cancer 4 degrees.

But this exactly squares my Uranus.

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posted March 03, 2025 06:09 AM            

When it did the latter, my Father came to visit me. And I must say that the few days that he was here for, the home felt so uninhabitable.

This visit came right after Mars went into direct motion on my Moon(domestic affairs) and ruling the 4th house.

The 4th house is to me all about intimate space that one retreats to(like home or their own bedroom). And so when Mars is in aspect with the ruler of the 4th house OR in the 4th house, one can feel a "home invasiom. OR the inability to be comfortable in one's own environment.

I was definitely uncomfortable for the days that he was here. No doubt.And when he left, the energy began to shift and I felt more at peace.

posted March 05, 2025 08:40 AM            

These are the kind of transits that absolutely certify birth time. No doubt. I was just gobsmacked at the Universal timing of it all.

And why do I always see it "after" the event? I mean I had his chart. But was looking at the coming conjunction of Saturn to his Venus/Mars in Pisces. Not this.

He is one friend who has been out of work for so long. An absolutely painful situation really. Just awful.

What I also noted was that solar arc Uranus is exactly conjunct his natal Jupiter (9th house ruler). Pluto is conjunct his Sun (wife orb of 4 Degrees so I don't know if that counts).

He had a very troubled relationship with his Dad.There's Sun squaring Plu in his chart. So perhaps Plu did play a role (as it always does in death situations) as it was squaring his natal Plu in Sco? 🤔

Mercury in Aries just started in his whole sign 1st house

posted March 06, 2025 02:58 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
I think the problem is finding the right people that are receptive, willing to listen, going through a similar problem or in the same environment as you, and above all else you can trust.

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I remember this high school friend who talked to me and he said very similar thing to his own problem (surprisingly that you and him share the same Gemini mercury sign). When he said that, my analyzing thought processing whether he felt lonely/alone or feeling disconnected in his marriage/relationship or he was in realization that he had not found that person yet and now dream about it.

I asked him why he opened up to me, was he trying to find solution? or he wanted to hear from female perspective? or he just wanted an ear to listen? And he said: "I just want to have someone to listen and understand me (not thinking I am crazy or too much)". So what I did was just letting him talked and finished it without judgement although a lil bit awkward for me as I think he should talk about it to his wife (or pastor or marriage counselor) not to other people's wife . Of course I said it to him when the time was right in our conversation as I could understand he might be in frustration at the moment and maybe couldn't find someone to trust in the big city and didn't want to put him down as a friend. I also can see his point of view and I think it's totally fixable but he felt blocked in their communication.

You know, being in a marriage isn't an easy journey. I can not forget when he said, "I want in my old days I can talk to my wife all day long and keep feeling connected through it. She can keep up with the conversation and meet the mind, probably (I realize now) what I want in my old days as I will spend my old/pension life with her as our daughters will have their own life with their husband." Being an air mercury sign too I can totally understand his concerns (we love to talk and love having a nice intellectual conversation, don't we?). His wife has earth mercury sign and my husband has water mercury sign. He and I have air mercury sign. The struggle with the communication is sometimes create the disconnection and unfulfillment in some part in the marriage. It needs a lot of adjustment and a knowledge how to communicate with each other everyday. But it takes two to tango otherwise feeling alone or lonely will haunted the journey.

So, yeah, consider you are lucky if you have found the right person to talk with and intuitive enough to know what is the real problem underlying it if you need some support. A lot of people are carrying pain and sometimes talking to somebody helps you to relief the pain, or maybe find the solution, or maybe able to make you grow and learn things.

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:

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Connecting the dots of the world around me then linking the cause and effect, which is helping me stay sane in an insane world.

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It is more insane if you know too much. In terms of how world actually works. Sometimes I wish I don't know that much but it is the real of the reality we have.

What I have learned is that being simple and living simplistic, maybe a boring life that outsider see, not seeking validation from other people or following the crazy trend out there, learning frugal living and focus on what I'm doing, I found peace in it and it really helps me being sane. I know, maybe I'm just weird lol. But for me, there's nothing more enjoyable having your coffee and a nice healthy homecooked meal, watching the movie/series you like, decorate your home as cozy as much, nice music, and have a good knowledge on how to manage your finance so you don't feel like being chased with the bills and responsibility.

I think a lot of people try to compare their life to other people, to compete, to point the finger out to other people, instead of trying to have self discovery, nurture, help, and heal themselve first. Although I am a Christian, I learn about Buddhism too and it helps the stress out of me as I have a mind that can't stop thinking. It's not about the religion, what I want to point out is taking the positive side of every knowledge out there, like broaden the mind also help me to stay sane. Sometimes we just get stuck in our mind and our little environment.

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posted March 06, 2025 04:45 AM            

I've been sick since the weekend. In and out of fevers. Today was better, but I'm not 100%.

We have an eclipse coming up. I don't know where it hits. A lunar eclipse in eight days. A solar eclipse on the 29th.

Mars is squaring my Mercury again. 2 degrees away, applying.

Venus trine Neptune, and soon, my MC. Also trine Jupiter, and opposed Pluto. About to square Saturn.

Jupiter opposed Neptune.

Mercury is going to conjoin Jupiter, but oppose Pluto, around the same time as Mars square Mercury. I hate that for me. Pluto is moving away from my ascendant, but is still square it. The moon is in my eighth house, and my cat is throwing up, so I need to clean that up, and try to sleep.

posted March 06, 2025 05:13 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
I think the problem is finding the right people that are receptive, willing to listen, going through a similar problem or in the same environment as you, and above all else you can trust.

I always had this rapport with Aquarian females, not so much the males. I never got along with air sign males.

I really believe Sherilyn Fenn when she said Johnny Depp would accompany her to auditions. I think that moral support did go a long way.

Jupiter is still conjunct my sun.

I'm still on observer mode. Very seldom do I say anything.

Connecting the dots of the world around me then linking the cause and effect, which is helping me stay sane in an insane world.

My Planets
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☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑

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I didn't see this before. Thanks. I have been spending time with my dad, when I can, and I saw a post from a woman in a local group that I usually have snoozed, where she wants to try to get members of the community together, to be there for each other. I sent her a message when I saw it, and told her that I'm interested in possibly helping.

My aunt apparently told my dad that I could stay with her for a while, in England. I don't have my passport, though. It needs to be renewed. I'd feel weird going without my dad and my pets, though.

I need to try to sleep - I've been sleeping a lot lately, and now when I want to, I'm still awake, because I read something that freaked me out earlier.

posted March 06, 2025 05:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
A friend of mine had his Dad pass on yesterday when Mars 17 Cancer was conjunct his Ic/ square his Asc-Dsc. Transiting Moon was also in house 1.

These are the kind of transits that absolutely certify birth time. No doubt. I was just gobsmacked at the Universal timing of it all.

And why do I always see it "after" the event? I mean I had his chart. But was looking at the coming conjunction of Saturn to his Venus/Mars in Pisces. Not this.

He is one friend who has been out of work for so long. An absolutely painful situation really. Just awful.

What I also noted was that solar arc Uranus is exactly conjunct his natal Jupiter (9th house ruler). Pluto is conjunct his Sun (wife orb of 4 Degrees so I don't know if that counts).

He had a very troubled relationship with his Dad.There's Sun squaring Plu in his chart. So perhaps Plu did play a role (as it always does in death situations) as it was squaring his natal Plu in Sco? 🤔

Mercury in Aries just started in his whole sign 1st house

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This is what I was afraid of when Saturn was conjunct my Mars in Pisces, in the 4th. My dad slid over and hit his head, around that time, when he was rushing. He got up, and started to drive, without his glasses, then realized, went back for them, and drove himself to the hospital, because he had blood shooting out of his head. It was all over the dashboard. He had to get an MRI, to make sur that he was okay. He continued to freaking work, went to work the next day (Friday), then slept all day Saturday. Half his face was bruised. It happened again that October, but not as extreme (only the bruising was awful).

posted March 06, 2025 06:20 AM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:

I remember this high school friend who talked to me and he said very similar thing to his own problem (surprisingly that you and him share the same Gemini mercury sign). When he said that, my analyzing thought processing whether he felt lonely/alone or feeling disconnected in his marriage/relationship or he was in realization that he had not found that person yet and now dream about it.

I asked him why he opened up to me, was he trying to find solution? or he wanted to hear from female perspective? or he just wanted an ear to listen? And he said: "I just want to have someone to listen and understand me (not thinking I am crazy or too much)". So what I did was just letting him talked and finished it without judgement although a lil bit awkward for me as I think he should talk about it to his wife (or pastor or marriage counselor) not to other people's wife . Of course I said it to him when the time was right in our conversation as I could understand he might be in frustration at the moment and maybe couldn't find someone to trust in the big city and didn't want to put him down as a friend. I also can see his point of view and I think it's totally fixable but he felt blocked in their communication.

You know, being in a marriage isn't an easy journey. I can not forget when he said, "I want in my old days I can talk to my wife all day long and keep feeling connected through it. She can keep up with the conversation and meet the mind, probably (I realize now) what I want in my old days as I will spend my old/pension life with her as our daughters will have their own life with their husband." Being an air mercury sign too I can totally understand his concerns (we love to talk and love having a nice intellectual conversation, don't we?). His wife has earth mercury sign and my husband has water mercury sign. He and I have air mercury sign. The struggle with the communication is sometimes create the disconnection and unfulfillment in some part in the marriage. It needs a lot of adjustment and a knowledge how to communicate with each other everyday. But it takes two to tango otherwise feeling alone or lonely will haunted the journey.

So, yeah, consider you are lucky if you have found the right person to talk with and intuitive enough to know what is the real problem underlying it if you need some support. A lot of people are carrying pain and sometimes talking to somebody helps you to relief the pain, or maybe find the solution, or maybe able to make you grow and learn things.

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If your curious I will link my chart, my Mercury is very strong. Librapurr said I had a combust...idk.

The mentioned friend started watching house and said to me there's something about Hugh Laurie/House that reminds me of you. I'm nothing like a Trump Gemini.
http://ibb.co/ymy1GfkS

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:

It is more insane if you know too much. In terms of how world actually works. Sometimes I wish I don't know that much but it is the real of the reality we have.

What I have learned is that being simple and living simplistic, maybe a boring life that outsider see, not seeking validation from other people or following the crazy trend out there, learning frugal living and focus on what I'm doing, I found peace in it and it really helps me being sane. I know, maybe I'm just weird lol. But for me, there's nothing more enjoyable having your coffee and a nice healthy homecooked meal, watching the movie/series you like, decorate your home as cozy as much, nice music, and have a good knowledge on how to manage your finance so you don't feel like being chased with the bills and responsibility.

I think a lot of people try to compare their life to other people, to compete, to point the finger out to other people, instead of trying to have self discovery, nurture, help, and heal themselve first. Although I am a Christian, I learn about Buddhism too and it helps the stress out of me as I have a mind that can't stop thinking. It's not about the religion, what I want to point out is taking the positive side of every knowledge out there, like broaden the mind also help me to stay sane. Sometimes we just get stuck in our mind and our little environment.

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My difficulty is that i'm the type that likes to know how everything comes together.

Or really is an expert in their work. I'm really more of the type that works in his/her profesion during the day then in the evenings and weekend gaining more educational credentials in the field that I work in.

Most people aren't interested in that, they just want the bare minimum to do a job and that's it.

I always envied the Japanese working model.

Tell a Japanese guru that's worked and studied in their field for more then 20yrs that their an expert, they'll respond with something like "no, I still have 10 more years to work and learn more" then they truly are an expert that knows their craft.

Tell that to someone in North America and it will just go to their heads and then they'll become narcissistic. Or you'll encounter a lot of fake experts.

It's kinda ironic. I was actually going to respond when you posted, but decided to go back to sleep because I go to the office this morning.

I then couldn't go back to sleep and though I will just get ready instead.

Then as I was in the shower I was thinking how they told us about how their tracking our IPs to make sure we log onto the office.

We were previously working remotely during covid and now they want to ensure everyone is meeting there required in office time.

We can show up to any office to make our hours.

I then started to debate if out VPNs are actually collecting logs, next if someone or if a system is actually monitoring and which team that whould be.

Ironically I'm suppose to be one of the few people thats gives my Director General advise on these things.

I'm thinking to myself it's possible but very difficult then unlikely.

Can't image given the cut backs that a team of 4 -10 people whould monitor upwards of 500 people even if they had something like Splunk or even a SIEM tool to monitor they'd also be in protest of wanting to go back to the office and wouldn't want to even catch themselves being non-compliant.

So I'm not going to say anything.

posted March 06, 2025 09:43 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
This is what I was afraid of when Saturn was conjunct my Mars in Pisces, in the 4th. My dad slid over and hit his head, around that time, when he was rushing. He got up, and started to drive, without his glasses, then realized, went back for them, and drove himself to the hospital, because he had blood shooting out of his head. It was all over the dashboard. He had to get an MRI, to make sur that he was okay. He continued to freaking work, went to work the next day (Friday), then slept all day Saturday. Half his face was bruised. It happened again that October, but not as extreme (only the bruising was awful).

They keep moving around the days my dad has off, so I don’t have regular days when I can make appointments I’m going to need to make for anything. His boss’ wife has cancer, and dad had to take over for him the other night, when I was also sick, and thought I might need him here.

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Wow. Is your Dad Aries Asc/Moon or Sun? Maybe Aries prominent? Coz that sounds like an Aries related injury(head)🙆🏿‍♂️.

posted March 06, 2025 12:26 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:

If your curious I will link my chart, my Mercury is very strong. Librapurr said I had a combust...idk.

The mentioned friend started watching house and said to me there's something about Hugh Laurie/House that reminds me of you. I'm nothing like a Trump Gemini.

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The page doesn't exist or is it my internet?

Anyway, I don't really follow what's going on with Trump and Gemini? I mean, I know he is a Gemini, but I don't quite understand why people have to make a clear statement that they are not like a Trump Gemini. I have met some Geminis who are shy and less talking or more in a serious side, definitely not like Trump Gemini. Is it really that bad how people associate the Gemini people to Trump? Well, don't worry, I don't have a thought about every Gemini is like Trump.

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
My difficulty is that i'm the type that likes to know how everything comes together.

Or really is an expert in their work. I'm really more of the type that works in his/her profesion during the day then in the evenings and weekend gaining more educational credentials in the field that I work in.

Most people aren't interested in that, they just want the bare minimum to do a job and that's it.

I always envied the Japanese working model.

Tell a Japanese guru that's worked and studied in their field for more then 20yrs that their an expert, they'll respond with something like "no, I still have 10 more years to work and learn more" then they truly are an expert that knows their craft.

Tell that to someone in North America and it will just go to their heads and then they'll become narcissistic. Or you'll encounter a lot of fake experts.

It's kinda ironic. I was actually going to respond when you posted, but decided to go back to sleep because I go to the office this morning.

I then couldn't go back to sleep and though I will just get ready instead.

Then as I was in the shower I was thinking how they told us about how their tracking our IPs to make sure we log onto the office.

We were previously working remotely during covid and now they want to ensure everyone is meeting there required in office time.

We can show up to any office to make our hours.

I then started to debate if out VPNs are actually collecting logs, next if someone or if a system is actually monitoring and which team that whould be.

Ironically I'm suppose to be one of the few people thats gives my Director General advise on these things.

I'm thinking to myself it's possible but very difficult then unlikely.

Can't image given the cut backs that a team of 4 -10 people whould monitor upwards of 500 people even if they had something like Splunk or even a SIEM tool to monitor they'd also be in protest of wanting to go back to the office and wouldn't want to even catch themselves being non-compliant.

So I'm not going to say anything.

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You know what, when I had the conversation with that Gemini mercury friend and try to understand how his mind works, I was like: wow he wanted to know how everything came together, questioning a lot of things, and easily frustrated to people who do not use their brain to do things in a smart and right way. And I know what comes next: it will make him prone to overthinking, and next: he will want to talk it out hoping someone can listen and understand his mind just so he could relax for a moment and release him from the frustration. The mercury energy needs to be calmed through a nice chit chat and someone who can get it, because when it is not in a good mood it feels scattered and too many and too much at the same time.

Actually last year I met with one of my high school best friend who is a Gemini with mercury in Gemini. She is married with a Pisces but been rocky for the last couple of months. She called me out of nowhere (we have not met for years) crying and telling that she might get a divorce. We ended up meet with one of our lawyer friend who she had been talking to about her marriage problem before she decided to call me.

I again see the problem is COMMUNICATION. I couldn't understand how much that important for a Gemini mercury to talk and having conversation (as they are known as a conversationalist) with someone/the spouse until I met them telling me this and that like wow they have the same busy mind as mine but theirs feel like text messages that pop up every seconds lol. But I totally get them like I may not say a lot of things but I can totally understand it.

I think there's no other mercury sign who loves to connect through conversation other than mercury in Gemini. It's funny how my high school best friend (Gemini sun Gemini mercury) said, "sometimes words can give me a feeling of orgasm" lol. She said it after the three of us talked for many hours from tears to laugh and to go deep to her problem, and my Gemini husband couldn't stop calling my phone like an angry hen "how much important that conversation than you going home? You have gone too long". When I got home, I found him sleeping nicely, I thought he would wait for me to nag on me. -___-

posted March 09, 2025 07:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Eclipses (I have noted) seem to be linked to endings/beginnings. A chance to end something or begin something in the house in which they occur

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Yes the one in March last year was in my 5th house square Jupiter. Wild nights out we’re going to end…or they changed.
This continued with the eclipse in Pisces that sextiled my Saturn. Very stable for sobriety.

Feeling this eclipse energy already. I had over time this week and I’m having withdrawals from being anti social, and feel super disregulated. I’m trying to watch it because in the fall I had a really bad mental health episode because I could get space when I needed it.