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Topic: Lindaland Rules Of Conduct
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Emeraldopal Knowflake Posts: 1023 From: U Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 06:59 PM
Randall, I'm sorry but I disagree.. I have feelings too! You have hurt mine many times with your favortism...T, Thanks, that means alot to me! ------------------ All my love, with all my Heart lotusheartone IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3709 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 06:59 PM
I can stay away Randall. Just because I've come back doesnt mean I can't. Been around for over 7 years i think, so it's easy to come back and connect with a few people that are still here.IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 3511 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 07:00 PM
I was just coming back here to say that I can remember why T was banned in April (?), but I hardly ever see anything from her that is considered a ban-able offense. I'm not just saying that because I consider her a friend, I'm saying that because it's the truth. I know of one person who was offending others right and left, and they're still here. She pops in to see friends. Sometimes it's nice to see people all together, and an email isn't necessary; that's why I do it, too. So many people on Facebook (I've just deactivated for a while), a few on google plus, and more occasionally pop in here. It's nice to see her, and them, and I don't know why she was banned this time. I don't want to know either, because I've only seen good things from her, and nobody knows when she's having a bad time of it. Actually, she hardly lets on to anything like that. It's easy to assume that someone is just fine, and that everything's fine and dandy, when someone keeps their troubles to themselves. She asked you to lay off, and said that she couldn't handle that tonight; I've said the same thing to someone else recently, and they are now blaming me for something that wasn't my fault, ignoring the fact that they have no idea just how much crap has hit the fan in my life away from the computer, and how much I've been trying to hold it together this year (that's embarrassing to admit, but true). I was also banned from another board, after confronting passive-aggressive behaviour (intended to upset me, when they knew how upset I was). So, I'm an awful person, too. Happy New Year to all of you. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3709 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 07:06 PM
Thank you very much, my friend.I found two very good ones - best ones, from this place and for that I am forever grateful. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 14269 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 07:15 PM
I've never seen anyone threaten your life, Emerald. But I have seen you do that at least once under the Lotus moniker. And when you forgive someone for a real or perceived wrong you don't keep bringing it up; nor do you demand an apology. Forgiveness is something you do for yourself. It isn't dependent on the actions of others. And just a word of advice...I would stay as far away from any conflicts on here as possible if I were you.IP: Logged |
Emeraldopal Knowflake Posts: 1023 From: U Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 07:23 PM
I emailed you about the two that threatened my life...Walking away from this string... I just set forth an example, and you still can't see it! (How a moderator had recently treated me) I guess what she did was acceptable!? So, I realize I must just accept it! ------------------ All my love, with all my Heart lotusheartone IP: Logged |
Emeraldopal Knowflake Posts: 1023 From: U Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 07:25 PM
O, one more thing, I have never threatened anyones life, ever!!!------------------ All my love, with all my Heart lotusheartone IP: Logged |
SunChild Moderator Posts: 2561 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 07:33 PM
quote: Lotusheartone Knowflake Posts: 10051 From: piopolis, quebec canada Registered: Jul 2005 posted April 08, 2007 03:51 AM you have no idea who I am.... it would behoove to listen.... if you want to live... ----------------- Mannu Knowflake Posts: 814 From: Registered: Mar 2006 posted April 08, 2007 03:56 AM >>>>you have no idea who I am.... it would behoove to listen.... if you want to live... What , so now you are threatening me? Hahaha.... You are a woman who has not attained the perfect knowledge of God. Only when you truly love a man will you have that knowledge. ---------------------- lotusheartone Knowflake Posts: 10051 From: piopolis, quebec canada Registered: Jul 2005
posted April 08, 2007 04:06 AM hehe, mannu is silverstone'''' are you gay? --------------------------- lotusheartone Knowflake Posts: 10051 From: piopolis, quebec canada Registered: Jul 2005
posted April 08, 2007 12:04 PM I am sorry, I was drunk last night!
Is this it? There's more... http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum2/HTML/002579-2.html I can find many attacks and horrible posts by lotus by the hundreds! I have links to many things.
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SunChild Moderator Posts: 2561 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 07:37 PM
SO many threads like these, so very many: an examples http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum5/HTML/000248-4.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum8/HTML/001608-3.html This idiocy will keep repeating itself unless it is stopped.... Can we learn from the past? IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 3026 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 07:57 PM
I`d like to see us all rise above this conversation ; look ahead to a new year and open our selves to new experiences, joy and happyness in 2012.Expect A Miracle and Happy New Year!  ------------------ Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. ~Rumi~ IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24536 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 28, 2011 08:02 PM
((((Sun Child))))------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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SunChild Moderator Posts: 2561 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 08:16 PM
Much Love, Ami!  IP: Logged |
Cancer/Scorpio729 Moderator Posts: 1237 From: 6,000 feet above sea level Registered: Feb 2010
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posted December 28, 2011 09:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by juniperb: I`d like to see us all rise above this conversation ; look ahead to a new year and open our selves to new experiences, joy and happyness in 2012.Expect A Miracle and Happy New Year! 
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T Knowflake Posts: 3709 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 09:31 PM
I'm extremely irked about the member's posts, quoted above that SunChild so kindly shined a light upon for all of us to see.Was there a reason to copy and paste that particular one and post links to other things she has said in the past? To hold her to them like chains as if people cannont change? Are you insinuating that Emerald has or had at one time, a drinking problem? That's a pretty intersting post for you to point out, out of the "HUNDREDS" that you could have. I think it's terribly insensitive of you to put on old post of hers out on display like that and try to shame her here. When someone may or may not be an addict, whether you suspect so or not, to drugs or alcohol, one thing you should never EVER do is try and humiliate them in front of others about it. Especially on a public forum like you have just done. That may or may not have been your aim, but I think it's pretty sh!tty of you to bring up past posts of hers and try to get a gang together on your side simply because you obviously don't like someone and have it out for them. Especially if ;you think the person is "insane" like you said, or now trying to point out may be an "addict". Not something to make light of or try making someone feel bad about. It's a very serious thing. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3709 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 09:33 PM
Intervention on A&E ~ great show. http://www.aetv.com/intervention/index.jsp IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3709 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 09:33 PM
JuniIP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24536 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 28, 2011 09:46 PM
T if you want to rise above it, then don't add to it  ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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T Knowflake Posts: 3709 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 09:47 PM
Okay, Ami. I'll follow your lead then. And just quote people from now on and act like a bimbo.chuckle away with your goofy Joker hat on. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3709 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 09:48 PM
and i don't always want to rise above everything. Sometimes I like to swim with the sharks. & not pretend I'm better than.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24536 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 28, 2011 10:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by T: Okay, Ami. I'll follow your lead then. And just quote people from now on and act like a bimbo.chuckle away with your goofy Joker hat on.
Bimbo 
------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 14269 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 11:14 PM
The point of that post was to show that Lotus had made a threat on someone's life, not on her drinking, which was merely part of the entire conversation. It has nothing to do with the past and whether or not someone can change. All of that is irrelevant. Lotus denied ever threatening someone's life, and SunChild posted proof to the contrary, which is why that post out of "hundreds" was used. It's as simple as that.IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3709 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 11:37 PM
I think there was more than one reason behind that copy/paste post, otherwise she wouldnt have included the latter and wouldve stopped at a different point in that thread.& i'm not saying Emerald is or not, but like her i often don't like what i see going on here. But whatever it takes to make special people feel safe!   IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 3511 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 11:47 PM
I might add that when I said this: quote: I know of one person who was offending others right and left, and they're still here.
I was not talking about someone posting in this thread - I wasn't thinking about them at all. IP: Logged |
SunChild Moderator Posts: 2561 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 11:49 PM
What Randall said. That's the only reason I posted that.Wow.. ok T. I didn't know Lotus had an alcohol issue or anything of the sort actually. Lots of people get drunk and that is in there because I thought it was relevant and it is a part of that string. I don't know. I was not making a 'thing' of anyones addictions because I did not know it even existed! Seriously!
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SunChild Moderator Posts: 2561 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 29, 2011 12:00 AM
And by the way, I take alcoholism very seriously. My whole life at the moment is centred on one particular alcoholic (who I am trying to help and give access to his daughter) and I have lived with two, first 7 years, then 11 years. That's nearly all my life! So if there are or were alcoholics here then that may explain a lot of behaviour, but it does not excuse it! No it does not. I am unaware that LOTUS may have had a problem as you suggested. Now there is attention on something you wanted to avoid. Right. I just hope that is clear and my intention is clear.IP: Logged |