posted August 27, 2011 09:23 AM            

juni

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Submit to Love without thinking, as the sun rose this morning recklessly, extinguishing our star-candled minds.

posted August 27, 2011 09:27 AM            

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Submit to Love without thinking, as the sun rose this morning recklessly, extinguishing our star-candled minds.

posted August 27, 2011 09:35 AM            

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Originally posted by rajji:
Thanks Ami,You being a Moderator of Sweet Peas as well Im glad to hear that from you.

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posted August 27, 2011 09:48 AM            

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Originally posted by rajji:
Ami, There is Nothing to email.
But I would like to know if I should refrain myself from posting there as my recent post seemingly does not meet with the standards of those who made fun of the topic.
So I would like that to be confirmed to them or to me.
Incase my topic is wrong as implied by them, I will not post in that forum.

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Well ,Rajji you are as entitled to your opinion and way of life as anyone else on Sweet Peas.
You don't need to justify it with anyone or have anyone's approval.
That lesson took me a long time to learn and I have not learned it perfectly by ANY means but it is true

posted August 27, 2011 09:53 AM            

I would say if you hold a subject close and personal ( as in the thread,) and you share it in that forum, you may not like the responses. I would post it in a forum that follows your criteria of sincerety and Intention; limiting the exposure to it turning into an unwanted adult theme..

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Submit to Love without thinking, as the sun rose this morning recklessly, extinguishing our star-candled minds.

posted August 27, 2011 09:55 AM            

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Originally posted by rajji:
Thanks...I want them to know that too.
Some comments were vile.

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Learning to handle it here will help you handle hard things in the outside world. See it as a blessing and an opportunity!
That is what I do in all my LL encounters. Your goal is personal maturity and wisdom. These various encounters will help you get there imo.

posted August 27, 2011 10:08 AM            

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Originally posted by rajji:
Thanks but the Mockery in there is making me an outsider in my own thread!
I want them to know that.

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Well I would express my opinion from my heart and my gut. I would not expect anything back though.That is where we get in trouble ime

posted August 27, 2011 10:17 AM            

I think the world of you and it is difficult to see your emotional discomfort but as ami anne noted, logical personal growth stems from valid emotional experiences. I wish you well with this internal struggle.

Randall will be along to share his voice.

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Submit to Love without thinking, as the sun rose this morning recklessly, extinguishing our star-candled minds.

posted August 27, 2011 10:32 AM            

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Originally posted by juniperb:
rajji, ami anne is giving some sound advice

I think the world of you and it is difficult to see your emotional discomfort but as ami anne noted, logical personal growth stems from valid emotional experiences. I wish you well with this internal struggle.

Randall will be along to share his voice.

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Juni...Yes I agree..But its not about emotions or internal Struggle at all.
How would you like If I said I'd like to have an Orgasm in your thread or in front of you?
Or in front of GOD?....I believe I was talking about GOD in the whole thread.
I do think there are limits to anything.

posted August 27, 2011 10:46 AM            

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Submit to Love without thinking, as the sun rose this morning recklessly, extinguishing our star-candled minds.

posted August 27, 2011 11:01 AM            

Yes it is a sensitive subject and the title says it all!Afterall there are very few who even know about it or rather very few whe know of it as it is....It is not something that dosent exist. It means no harm if somebody wants to read and think that they resonate with it...I dont see anything wrong in that.
Those who dont consider themselves to be a part of it must abstain from posting as I do.
But here It seems to imply the reverse.
Whatever.

posted August 27, 2011 11:10 AM            

PS.
I AM CELIBATE!
I have been so by choice and circumstance for some time, years in fact.
I could have lovers if I chose to but am waiting for the person I love and who loves me.
I felt very uncomfortable posting on your thread even though I am celibate by mostly choice for years to date.

The fact that I have been an actively sexual person before (not only solo)
and intend to be so again;
well some things you posted did feel insulting and holier than thou.
I feel that was what made some folks post as they did.
Lots of uncomfortable feelings coming from both sides.
I know it was not your intention to be seen as insulting and nor was it theirs to be perceived as insulting either.
I speak as a person who has been on both sides of the sexuality spectrum having much personal experience in both extremes.