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Lexxigramer
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From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted November 04, 2016 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Message to all who knew fatinkerbel;
She took her own life this week
This smart sweet lady is muchly missed by many folks.

A link to one of her many threads to help folks remember her.
It was kind of an autobiography.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum27/HTML/000261.html

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Randall
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posted November 05, 2016 08:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't even imagine what her family is going through.

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Lexxigramer
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posted November 05, 2016 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
I can't even imagine what her family is going through.

Her mother has been communicating with my husband and she is very broken up by the loss of her daughter;
but comforted by all the outpouring of love from fb friends of herself and her daughter.
She understood the terrible pain her daughter was burdened with.

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juniperb
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posted November 05, 2016 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am saddened to hear this. She was a very kind and interesting lady.
I always enjoyed her posts in GU and wondered why she wasn`t posting this election year.
RIP fattinkerbel

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Pearlty
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posted November 05, 2016 08:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pearlty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't know her, but my heart goes out to her loved ones
Rest easy in peace

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mirage29
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posted November 08, 2016 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hadn't seen this thread....
Created this posting in a different forum.

On November 5, 2016 10:08 p.m. -----

I just saw the thread in Sweet Peas, called 'Silence Rhymes with Violence.' I don't usually hang out in that forum, but it had caught my eye.

I began reading it... The poster was born in S.Africa, and worked as an English teacher in Korea-- a writer, trying to publish her work. She posted several chapters of her book. I'm not leaving a link because the story was very explicit. She was a born again christian, sexually abused by her father.

I went through the 15 pages of posts. It was mainly a conversation between Ami and herself. I felt like I started to know her. Saw her chart.

The thread was an old one, which began late December 2010. Most of the postings were 2011. Every once in a while, old threads do get bumped. When I got to the last page.... Lexx was reporting the sad news that she had died this past week, by her own hand.

fatinkerbel ..... aka "Christine"
b. Dec 21, 1972 to e.o Oct/Nov 2016
(at 43+yo)

*reverential silence*

Apparently too, she was active on FB with a few here at LL.

You get to know people in their writings.... Her book ended. Just, not like I expected.

Honoring her spirit.

And, To All Survivors of Abuse.... {{{{ }}}}

(music) I Love You But I Don't Know What To Say (Ryan Adams, lyrics) [4:05] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWvFWZxYbf4

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Randall
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posted December 21, 2016 06:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum19/HTML/000250.html

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Elysia
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posted January 04, 2017 11:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To those who knew her, here is a website:
***Tribute to Christine Jonker*** that was built for her.

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You can download her memoirs here:
An open minded Girl, by Christine Jonker
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She did have them published after all, except maybe not in the way she would've expected.

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mirage29
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posted January 05, 2017 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Elysia... What a Beautiful tribute. That website is awesome. Thanks.

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Elysia
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posted January 05, 2017 12:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, Mirage..

I didn't make it, just thought I'd share it. I think it's nice that her thoughts and her work are finally up there for the world to see. Maybe they'll inspire other survivors of rape and abuse.

You can see the difference in her face, back when she was barely out of school and after she got heavily into drugs. It's just so sad. Such a bright, brilliant young girl, full of potential.

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Lexxigramer
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posted January 05, 2017 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Elysia.
Links passed on.

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