posted August 17, 2004 02:42 PM           

I know a few people with this transit uranus square uranus and they either dating around, or breaking up after a long relationship,

posted August 25, 2004 03:16 PM           

I'm Cap. rising and have Saturn in the seventh. So I can be very Capricornian in affairs of the heart.

It can be hard for those with this sign to show their true feelings, especially right off the bat. But when they do you can be sure it's true. They won't tell it to you or show it like some other signs will, like say a Leo, Libra....Aries.

You have to be patient with this sign and don't expect them to profess their love to you like you see in the scenes of some movies. It's truely just not in their natures to extravagantly and passionatly express their love right away. Not to say that they don't or can't love deeply. Far from it.

If you are looking for a sign that will sweep you off of your feet and carry you off into the sunset in some romantic frenzy then look towards some other signs. That is not the Capricorn style.

They are usually reserved and can be shy. But this is only a small part here. You need to look at other planets and signs and the chart of this person.

Here's a little nugget for you:

"The person out there wailing "Is that all there is?" a la Peggy Lee might well be a Capricorn, since love can at times be difficult for these folks. This measure of mistrust might well be attributed to a fear of losing oneself in affairs of the heart. The good news is that with the right one, the Sea Goat positively blooms in love, and is a loyal and devoted partner. When they give, their love is total. Not only that, it's also delicious for both, since Capricorns can easily engage in dreamy states where their lover's complete satisfaction is all that's on their mind. This can mean creating a beautiful home (although it's likely to be with their lover's money) or being the perfect partner at a party. Love is a blissful state for the Sea Goat, and one which they will work hard to keep. "

Good luck!

posted August 25, 2004 03:19 PM           

I'm a Virgo Moon also....do a little research on these placements.

posted August 25, 2004 03:29 PM           

I've read everything on his placements and it doesn't really fit the person I've seen (he could be hiding behind his ascendant and aquarius venus) The thing is he was interested in me at first and I wasn't at all interested, then he kinda got to me and since then I'm worried if he likes me or not. When I start a conversation he doesn't really speak, I might be losing his interest. I don't know, it was a lot simpler when I didn't like him

posted August 25, 2004 03:56 PM           

Imagine a Capricorn in love is like a contemporary bedroom, useful, decorative, uncluttered, beautiful. Imagine you are the mate of a Capricorn. Be serene and uncluttered.

Ask to see his house, ooh and ahh over his tastes, never criticize, never judge. Do free things, go to the park, walk around, or see a movie. Caps do not like big expensive dinner dates.

If a Cap is with you, he likes you, if he doesn't he's suddenly unavailable.

Lots of times people will ask me what it means if a Cap doesn't call, or doesn't return calls?? It's obvious, what that means, he isn't into you. That is an easy relationship to judge because he's there or he isn't, when he's gone, he's gone.

Does he call you, or do you call him? Has he tried to touch you/kiss you yet? If he hasn't he isn't into you I have to tell you. Aqua Venus will make some kind of move very soon, however subtle. It's like a touch on the shoulder, or hand holding, or peck on the cheek. It's small but it's there. If you are sensiive you will feel the touching.

If you do not respond he will notice but that's Cap, very sensitive and pride is easily injured.

You will notice. If you have not noticed anything like this then I would say he sees you as a friend, or someone who can teach him a lesson about life. Try asking him if you can hold his hand, or if he would like to hold your hand, whatever sounds less corny, if he does not respond it's not because he's thinking about the idea. Caps are earth so they respond instantly to touching someone they like, they don't think about that too much. Don't expect him to change his mind, Caps and earth signs do not like to be rushed into something they do not feel already.

It's there or it's not, that's the way Caps are, I know I feel your pain when you have put emotional time into the relationship, but there are other Caps out there who find you attractive. Being attractive is a relative thing to what else is out there, if your friend is more attractive to him, you can't blame him for being attracted to her instead of you. I wouldn't take this personally, there is a man out there who thinks you are a Goddess, and he hasn't met you yet.

People have funny tastes too, one man I met didn't like me because of my hair colour, and loved me when I changed it. When I changed back, he dropped me only I didn't realize I had been dropped for a while. It's hard to believe someone could have such singular tastes in people, but Caps and Earth signs are very sensitive to touch and taste, and we are very into a certain kind of look when we are younger. After a while we grow and mature, but only after mingling with many other cultures/people.

I still think that brown eyes are beautiful but I no longer date men with brown eyes ONLY, do you see what I mean? Earth men fall into this trap, again and again, wanting the same thing, that's not available. Eventually they learn to adapt, tolerate, and respect others, but for now you may have to find another Cap.

The Caps I knew who were into me at that time, showed their interest almost instantly. The interest wanes and comes back but there was a spark right away. Relationships are part him and part you, without his spark, you have to let him go.

I used to be pretty dense about these things, imagining I was being played with, actually most Caps have better things to do, like work and make more money. I have a strong Aries signature on my chart too, and my pride gets in the way of Cap relationships. I like them as friends, but I am still waiting for that special Cap to make me fee special sometimes.

They make great companions and are tons of fun to talk to. Great walkers, hand holders. I have had one relationship with a Cap and I was very happy, unless he got moody and unavailable which was too often. Ideally you live close and can stop by whenever you want.

If a Cap doesn't invite you to his home, or allow you to come over or call whenever you want to within reason, that's a red flag. He must show his trust, or he's not happy. Once he does trust you, he will be dutiful and caring for the rest of your life but you have to work for it.

Work, Work, Work for it
I think the song goes
"I say I, you say No,
I got what you need,
Work, Work, Work for it
Respect, Respect,
Just a little bit
I'm not one of your .....
So don't play me like one of your .....
You've got to give me, give me,
Respect, Respect,
I got to get some
Respect, Respect"

Don't know who sings that, but it came on the radio the other say, and sounds like a Cap or a Taurus singing! Caps are a bit paranoid about getting the respect they need.

If I were in your shoes, would give him a gift that he can use, not a book, but a big comfy bed pillow, or offer to help him fix something in his house, make sure he says yes or no. Gifts mean a lot to Caps, and they affected by them.

posted August 25, 2004 04:20 PM           

Giving gifts would be tricky living with him, but you could always leave a little bag of his favorite edible goodies on his pillow at night as long as no one else is around, or give him a ride someplace. You really have to think hard about what he wants, he's not domestic, so something he can use, would be best. He will appreciate that, as long as the intentions are clear, and he can figure things out, he will be happy.

Do not try to make him jealous, Caps hate that, and do not like open competition. Best if you complain openly how you don't have a date, than brag about your dates. He would prefer a lonely girl than a fast girl.

I can say all this because I have done the exact opposite, and driven many Caps away. They can be so nice though, I almost feel like kicking one in the butt and saying, come on already, make up your mind! Which is a bad energy to have. So I do not think I am good for Caps, though they are incredibly sweet and caring.

posted August 25, 2004 04:54 PM           

Caps like romance sometimes, but they are not hormonally driven, that is they can go without for years and years. That is why if you are flirting only and he doesn't feel a signal right away, chances he was waiting forever before making a move and now he's impatient. Let him run around, get tired, and come back if he's in the mood.

Then you can flirt again, but in the meantime, see a romantic movie with friends. Caps are very sentimental and need to get into the mood to flirt, they are not driven by practicalities, or hormones, or their friends. All you can do is listen, when he wants to talk.

It doesn't totally suck, he could make a great friend, and now you know what to do when a Cap shows interest.

posted August 25, 2004 11:08 PM           

OK - I've been involved with a couple one, two, or three Cappy princes, and everything Natasha said is true, but if he also has a Moon in Virgo, I'd run for the hills.

posted August 26, 2004 03:32 AM           

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OK - I've been involved with a couple one, two, or three Cappy princes, and everything Natasha said is true, but if he also has a Moon in Virgo, I'd run for the hills.

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