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Ami Anne
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posted March 10, 2011 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just saying Hi Fatinkerbel

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posted March 11, 2011 02:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fatinkerbel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi!!!!!!!!!!! : D

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posted March 25, 2011 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fatinkerbel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now here's an article that just upsets me. http://uk.health.lifestyle.yahoo.net/father-and-daughter-under-spell-of-gsa.htm
cee are ee pee spells?

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posted March 25, 2011 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fatinkerbel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My explanation for the so-called phenomenon of genetic sexual attraction is just this: You get told - This is your --- (insert family relationship here) so guess what you should love them! So with me it was like: This is your father. You're supposed to love him. OK go! Quite frankly the first feeling I had was repulsion, not attraction. After the sexual relationship between us had begun, I was under the spell of having a secret to keep. Man I'm gonna so bust this c r a p !! as soon as I get a chance. OK it's on a mail server that has stories of the alligators-in-sewers variety, but still. That's what so weird about modern life - since so few understand the specifics of science, it can be used to 'explain' issues that actually are supposed to be decided on grounds of morality and of where we as a society would like to go. Excuse me but ef you know what cee kay that! Luckily I'm seeing my therapist tomorrow so I'll keep my Aries rising temper on slow boil till then. And Uranus is hovering way to near my Ascendent for comfort. Can I just go somewhere and hide for the next few years? Please please please???? Just till my 40th birthday ... That shift in consciousness had better hurry itself up cos fatinkerbell is tired of having to scream with.

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posted March 25, 2011 12:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fatinkerbel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oops, that last sentence is supposed to read : ... is tired of having no voice to scream with.

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posted August 17, 2011 08:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted August 17, 2011 08:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I do not see a last post.How did this thread get bumped lol

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posted August 17, 2011 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted August 18, 2011 01:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fatinkerbel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey guys, I'm alive and kicking! What's up? Sorry for the long absence from LL ... I'm getting stuck into Korean! : D

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posted August 18, 2011 05:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Fatinkerbel
Northern Lad was the guy i was telling you about who mentioned he was interested in teaching English in Korea.
He and I are talking in the Asteroid Forum if you want to check.
I will link it tomorrow for you.
Welcome Back!

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posted August 18, 2011 05:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fatinkerbel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey AmiAnne : )
Do you have my e-mail address? Then Northern Lad can contact me that way ... Teaching in Korea is really great and there are MANY opportunities ... look for dave's esl cafe on the web ... it's the best one : )

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posted August 18, 2011 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It goes deeper than family level incest, though that gets enough support as it is. I've seen it as a runaway and as a babysitter, too many people enable sexual abusers, even those who abuse their own children.

Many who are abused, including sexually, run to the streets where there's a lot more abuse. Crooked cops can be sexual abusers AND turn you over to a local pimp for the bounty.

And even legally, there was what was called "vice nights" where cops would bust as many prostitutes (or likely prostitutes) as they could, and they'd all (including kids) would all be before the judge as one and all given the same fine and released. And guess how they're expected to raise the money to pay the fine? It's legalized pimping.

I don't know if any have heard of the "video vigilante" in Oklahoma City but he's videod girls being kidnapped in broad daylight on main street when the city swore it didn't happen (until he proved it did). All those cars going by and nobody sees anything...

As a runaway you can't go to the hospital or the police for help and you can't even get the help of other homeless because anyone who even feeds you is aiding and abetting your delinquency. Some do it anyway, but they're taking a risk (and shelters and such risk being shut down over it). The police only rarely help kids in trouble and even parents who kick their children out aren't tried for child neglect.

All this forces kids underground where they're prey to all sorts of predators including perverts and pimps who happily hunt them. In short the system is set up to make sure abused kids who flee become money makers for the city via prostitution and the like.

For some reason the pimps tend to leave the boys alone, but the boys still face a lot of sexual abuse on the streets just the same. Plenty of them are fleeing sexual abuse at home as well. And at least in Houston they were also exploited by the city's "vice nights" though they had another charge (I forget what it was exactly) but with the very same fine as the females.

'Course there are other options to running away. But reporting abuse often doesn't help. First of all when adults abuse you as a child then you don't expect other adults to help you. But my best friend did manage to talk to a school counselor after her dad had ripped part of her hair out so that she had an obvious patch missing along with a beat up face. The moron thought the family needed "more communication" and tried calling her father, but luckily her father hadn't paid his phone bill so the counselor had to settle for the grandparents who were scared what would've happened if the counselor had been able to call her dad. Needless to say she didn't ask for anymore help and the two of us ended up running away later.

She didn't survive it, she was killed by a pimp trying to break her in. The same pimp had his goons try kidnapping me in broad daylight, too. Another girl showed me where she'd been shot in the leg with a .22 by the same pimp after she'd run and been caught by him again to teach her not to run. And how they "break you in" is too vicious for words. I expect my best friend was grateful when she died of OD (they force the girls they capture onto hard drugs until they're addicted before they're allowed back out onto the streets as this makes them easier to control and alienates others who might otherwise sympathize thinking they did it to themselves).

I saw one earlier in this thread thinking of killing her dad. I read a "true crime" book where a girl arranged for that to happen with an Eagle Scout friend. She HAD gone for help before but it did no good so she arranged for her dad to be killed. The prosecutor even said it was tragic she hadn't gotten the help she asked for but then said that so many women don't and if she didn't get punished hard then those other women might also take the law into their own hands--going to show they KNOW the system is set up for systematic abuse. I was glad she and the Eagle Scout hitman only got like a year of jail and/or probation. The pic of them afterward showed them happy, so I hope it worked out well for them. It was better than running away or simply staying home and taking it.

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posted August 18, 2011 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will send your FB info over to NL.Is that OK? He is cool !

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posted August 18, 2011 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fatinkerbel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Ami Anne , yes I add everyone of facebook but then I hardly ever go there! But he can find my e-mail on Facebook so that's cool ...

Pixie Jane your story is exactly the kind of story I wanted to hear about when I started this thread ... I had no idea things like this happened ... well I had some idea but it's brutal ! It's embedded in the society ... thank you for telling me about that ...

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posted August 18, 2011 08:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for northernlad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fatinkerbel:
Hey AmiAnne : )
Do you have my e-mail address? Then Northern Lad can contact me that way ... Teaching in Korea is really great and there are MANY opportunities ... look for dave's esl cafe on the web ... it's the best one : )


Hiya!

I have to run, but just wanted to introduce myself.

I'm just at the researching everything about teaching English in Korea step. Trying to get my passport and background check started, but I'd love to pick your brain.

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posted September 06, 2011 03:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fatinkerbel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uhm ... this topic is creeping up on me again ...


On the topic of Korea, NorthernLad can you e-mail me ... add me on Facebook through AmiAnn my details are there ...

Korea in a nutshell: Do it. It's VERY lucrative. It can be difficult. It can be fulfilling. Depends on you : )

As for topic, after not thinking about publishing for many months a sudden ... thing ... happened ...

Don't wanna jinx it though : )

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posted November 04, 2016 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Message to all who knew fatinkerbel;
She took her own life this week
This smart sweet lady is muchly missed by many folks.

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posted November 05, 2016 08:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
NOOO

OMG

She is my FB friend

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posted November 05, 2016 08:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The abuse mars you soo badly. I am so shaken up.

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posted November 05, 2016 09:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Had you been talking with her, Lexx?

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posted November 05, 2016 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Had you been talking with her, Lexx?


I have not been talking to anyone for the past few years much;
Been "not in a good place physically, very bad, getting worse, living on borrowed time"...
however my husband and her had become rather good friends and she was a member in our Lexigram group.
I loved hearing/reading about things she said.
Very intelligent and real, and she had a very cool quirky sense of humour that I could relate to.
I also had experienced horrific rapes as a child by an uncle and molested by my mother and oddly other women;
so understood how abuse never stops damaging us decades later even.
fatinkerbel is very muchly missed by many folks to say the least.

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posted November 18, 2016 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't know Fatinkerbell, but I read the thread. It is always sad when a kindred soul doesn't make it. I truly hope she has found peace somewhere.

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posted November 20, 2016 07:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh no, I just read her story and expected to see her bumping the thread.. RIP
She was so intelligent and strong

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