posted January 26, 2011 11:45 PM            

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What is orgasm?
Orgasm is a state where your body is no longer felt as matter; it vibrates like energy, electricity.
It vibrates so deeply, from the very foundation, that you completely forget that it is a material thing. It becomes an electric phenomenon.

Now physicists say that there is no matter, that all matter is only appearance;... de...ep down, that which exists is electricity, not matter.

In orgasm, you come to this deepest layer of your body where matter no longer exists, just energy waves; you become a dancing energy, vibrating. There are no longer any boundaries to you - pulsating, but no longer substantial. And your beloved also pulsates.

Now, sexual orgasm needs time - the longer, the better; because then it will go deeper into your being, into your mind, into your soul.
Then it will spread from the toe to the head . . . every fiber of your being will be throbbing with it. Your whole body will become an orchestra and it will come to a crescendo.

But if you are in a hurry the orgasm becomes just an ejaculation, it is no more an orgasm. It is local and very tiny, almost meaningless. In fact you will feel tired, frustrated, depressed after it, because the energy is lost and it has not given you a bath, so it was just meaningless.

You remain the old - a little more tired, of course, with less energy of course, but you remain the same. It has not been a cleansing process, it has not thrilled you from corner to corner, from end to end.

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Tantra The Balance of Spirit and Nature
Seeing the Spiritual in the Sensual
Creating a space to be free and uninhibited is the common goal.
Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life. around. D...r Leo Buscaglia

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I do not know.
"If one can really come to that state of saying, "I do not know," it indicates an extraordinary sense of humility; there is no arrogance of knowledge; there is no self-assertive answer to make an impression. When you can actually say, "I do not know," which very few are capable of saying, then in that state all fear ceas...es because all sense of recognition, the search into memory, has come to an end; there is no longer inquiry into the field of the known. Then comes the extraordinary thing. If you have so far followed what I am talking about, not just verbally, but if you are actually experiencing it, you will find that when you can say, "I do not know," all conditioning has stopped.
Krishnamurti

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Tantra the celebration of life in the present moment

‎"In truth everything in life is about that dance. When the rain goes onto the parched earth, that's tantra in a sense, that's creation, that's merging. When the wind blows through trees, that's merging. Everything in life is always dancing with the polarities, with the interchangeable energies. And so expanding your un...derstanding of sex beyond the body can open up a world where you're truly living in a very ecstatic state. And then you just become a dancer in that dance. And it doesn't even matter how it turns out, it's the joy of dancing that allows your heart to celebrate every day."

This is the Tantra definition of our sexuality:

The return to absolute innocence, absolute oneness

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posted January 26, 2011 11:49 PM            

‎"In truth everything in life is about that dance. When the rain goes onto the parched earth, that's tantra in a sense, that's creation, that's merging. When the wind blows through trees, that's merging. Everything in life is always dancing with the polarities, with the interchangeable energies. And so expanding your un...derstanding of sex beyond the body can open up a world where you're truly living in a very ecstatic state. And then you just become a dancer in that dance. And it doesn't even matter how it turns out, it's the joy of dancing that allows your heart to celebrate every day."

This is the Tantra definition of our sexuality:

The return to absolute innocence, absolute oneness

Together by sharing these words We Can Make a Difference some-where some-how to Some-one

When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy.
Rumi

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A human being is part of a whole, called by us the 'Universe,' a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings, as something separated from the rest--a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circles of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty." -- Albert Einstein

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Tantra simply "the celebration of life in the present moment"

What is this sex energy? Why is it such a powerful disturbance in our lives? Why does it pervade our entire beings? Why do our lives revolve around it, even to the end? What is the source of this urge?...

I wish you sensefull moments,and blissfull Tantric experiences

We are beings of pleasure. Yet, we live in a sex-and-pleasure-negative culture. Most of us are very fragmented and wounded around sexuality. We often have a very limited experience which leaves us feeling deeply unsatisfied. We know that there has to be more to sex and we want more

Spiritual Sex is closely related to spirituality in several ways. In its negative aspects of lust, degradation and rape, it appears as the antithesis of spirituality, However, in its positive aspects our sexuality can open our heart to love,repair sexual traumas,enable us to have experiences similar to meditative states... and mystical bliss,,,and most importantly,,complete unity with our partners or ourselves

"Put away your pointless taboos and restrictions on sexual energy – rather help others to truly understand its wonder, and to channel it properly."
Donald Walsh

The Tantra attitude about sex is that sex is not a need. It is a cosmic experience, it is an experience of meditation. It is an instinctual return to our ultimate reality, one of the highest forms of meditation. Man and woman had their first luminous glimpse of Unity during the experience of intercourse.

Only in the moments of coitus did man realize that it was possible to feel such profound love, to experience such illuminating bliss. that in the moments of climax the mind becomes empty of thoughts. All thoughts drain out at that moment. And this emptiness of mind, this void, this vacuum, this freezing of the mind, is the cause of the shower of divine joy.

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This is the Tantra definition of our sexuality: The return to absolute innocence, absolute oneness

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Sex is also termed the small death In that single moment you don't know who you are. In that single moment you are pure energy vibrating, pulsating. With no center to it, with no "ego" in it.In that single moment of orgasmic space you lose all boundaries, separation. You become vast, huge. You are no more separate from the other. That's why there is so much joy -- although often the moment is very small

I honor those who try to rid themselves of any lying,
who empty the self and have only clear being there.
~Rumi

In a Tantra coitus you can remain for hours. That moment, once you know the art of remaining in it, can surround you twenty-four hours. Tantra transforms sex. It is a kind of melting with the woman or with the man, it is a kind of relaxation into each other's being. And it is meditative, because there is no ego, no thought stirs. And time stops. This is a glimpse of God/Unity. Tantra is the natural way to God, the normal way to "God". The object is to become so completely instinctual, so mindless, that we merge with ultimate nature -- that the woman disappears and becomes a door for the ultimate, the man disappears and becomes a door for the ultimate

Osho+

The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant.
We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.
~Albert Einstein

Let go, step out of the prison of societies conditioning,,,

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The fact that we can plant a seed and it becomes a flower, share a bit of knowledge and it becomes another's, smile at someone and receive a smile in return, are to me continual spiritual exercises." -- Dr. Leo Buscaglia

The difference in Normal Sex and tantric Sex
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posted January 27, 2011 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by charmainec:
Thank you Lexx I think of it as a somewhat lost art.There are many misconceptions about tantric sex or many do not even wish to try as they feel too vulnerable or do not have the patience for it.

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posted February 12, 2011 08:28 AM            

Across the Universe- Because

posted February 12, 2011 09:44 AM            

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Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
Good fb group

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posted February 12, 2011 09:45 AM            

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Originally posted by listenstotrees:
Awesome thread.

Across the Universe- Because

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wmKXQP_3zM

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posted February 22, 2011 10:53 PM            

Sexual Health CAN be improved naturally through the practices of Tantra Yoga and tantric sex. Besides having a strong body/mind/spirit connection, every loving couple should also enjoy multiple, powerful sexual orgasms, which stimulate and increase the secretion of the pineal and pituitary glands.

Tantric sex has a rejuvenating effect, improving men and women’s sexual health. Frequent orgasms, as one of the brain wave stimulations, will alter body chemistry. Depression and stress disappear. Women’s sexual health is greatly improved. Headaches, menstrual cramps, urinary-tract problems, weak immune function, incontinence, etc. virtually become a thing of the past.

In tantric sex, the brain chemistry is affected by empowering the endocrine glands for more hGH, serotonin, DHEA, and testosterone.

Scientific and medical studies prove that sexual health improves drastically... stimulating blood circulation, detoxifying the body through the breath, strengthening the cardiovascular, endocrine/immune and nervous functions, leading to improved sexual health, rejuvenation and longevity.

Orgasms that last at least 20 minutes can alleviate depression altogether. Take years off our face as depression is eliminated from our life. Prolong life span, strengthen the immune system and improve overall sexual health by freeing our body and mind through tantric sex.

Men can derive great benefits by increasing sexual quantity and sexual quality in a safe, healthy, natural way through tantric sex. Tantric sex focuses on the benefits of prolonging the sex act for more intimacy and health benefits.

Men are most concerned with:

* Having a soft erection
* Inability to maintain an erection
* Low intensity
* Premature ejaculation
* Prolonging ejaculation
* Performance skills
* Self confidence
* Satisfying his partner
* Male sexual health

While men’s sexual health concerns are more of a physical nature, women’s concerns seem to be a function of their minds.

Women want to enjoy sex, but their main problem usually stems from Western based religions or feelings of guilt and shame.

Women’s problems with sex generally fall in the following categories:

* Loss of interest in sex
* Loss of sensations
* Painful intercourse
* Inability to reach orgasm
* Having weak or mild orgasms
* Weak internal muscles due to childbirth etc.
* Sexual health concerns
* Sexual guilt and shame
* Inhibitions
* Fear of intimacy
* Need to be in control

Loss of interest can arise from being too busy, overworked, having an insensitive lover who doesn’t know how to make you happy. The guilt and shame factor is deeply imbedded in our Western culture mainly perpetuated through religion and “osmosis" ...the Western mind-set. In the East, the body and all its functions are considered beautiful and natural.

Frequent orgasms can benefit women’s sexual health tremendously. However, there is a vast difference in having an ordinary orgasm and having a tantric orgasm. Ordinary orgasms, which are the norm, are of short duration, isolated in the sex organs. Tantric sex orgasms involve the full body, mind and spirit, lasting for hours as well.

Benefits of Tantric Orgasm

To obtain the benefits of a tantric orgasm, the shakti, or energy, the rising kundalini, must pierce each of the chakras (vortexes of energy in the subtle body) as it ascends the spinal cord. It must reach the brain's central nervous system and endocrine command center - the hypothalamus and pituitary gland, which commands the changes that benefits our sexual health.

Benefits of Frequent Orgasms

Frequent and powerful orgasms increase the level of the orgasm hormone, oxytocin. The oxytocin level is linked to the personality, passion, social skills and emotional quotient (EQ), all of which affects career, marriage, emotions and social life. Orgasms are very beneficial for sexual health because they empower our pituitary (brain function).

We benefit from tantra practices on the physical, spiritual and emotional levels. Hari Om Tat Sat.

Chandi Devi

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Remember, love can conquer the influences of the planets....It can even eliminate karma.

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posted April 29, 2012 03:27 PM            

I think more people need to understand the true meaning of tantric sex and separate it from misconceptions.

posted January 25, 2013 05:02 AM            

I'm not sure when she wrote that, if the context would give a different meaning, or what she'd say today if she were still alive, but taken at face value I'd say look to other gay couples, many of whom have happy relationships (and I can't tell that many who don't are all that different from heterosexuals that don't). Of course there are people who give them a hard time and the laws barring them from equality under the law can create tragedy, but the problem is bigotry, not them, and for many of them love wins out.

posted January 25, 2013 05:35 AM            

To quote Lotis White elsewhere (NOTE: I took the liberty to change "sign" into "energy" to hopefully avoid confusion on why I'm sharing it here):
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/216270.html

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Originally posted by Lotis White:The difference between masculine and feminine [engergy] is that masculine (Air and Fire signs) [energy is] outgoing, while feminine (Earth and Water signs) [energy is] reserved. Feminine [energy is] private and introspective, while masculine [energy is] open and overt.

Masculine [energy] tend to directly go after what they want and are active, and aggressive. Masculine [energy is] 'electric' in temperament, and pour their energy forth into the world in the form of charisma and vivaciousness. These folks often have charm to spear, and use the strength of their personality to push themselves forward. Masculine [energy has] tremendous forceful power. Wherever masculine [energy goes], [it] tend to promote a dynamic, exciting environment where happenings are chaotic and loud.

Feminine [energy], on the other hand, draw what they want toward them and are serene, and gentle. Feminine [energy is] 'magnetic' in temperament, and pull people and things toward them with their receptive, quiet energy. These folks have the skill of subtle allurement down to an art, and carefully maneuver themselves forward. Feminine [energy has] tremendous attractive power (Magnets might be passive, but they ain't weak). Wherever feminine [energy goes, it tends] to promote a calm, soothing environment where happenings are peaceful and discreet.

In the most basic sense, masculine [energy is] like a 'push', while feminine [energy is] like a 'pull', in the way they seek to attain goals.

The terms 'masculine' and 'feminine' in astrology obviously do come from the traditional gender roles of the man being the aggressor and provider while, the women is the submissive receiver. Some people may take issue with that these days, so maybe the terms 'electric' and 'magnetic' would be a better fit...

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With that in mind it shouldn't be too hard for a gay man to adapt to that. It seems to me that gay men often have a "top/bottom" relationship (which is much rarer among lesbians), and btw that wouldn't have to be a fixed thing, the "polarity could shift" as desired. And even without the top/bottom dynamic (not to be confused with S&M) the electric/magnetic polarity could still be practiced or otherwise sought.

posted January 28, 2013 10:33 PM            

It was something like this...

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The Tantra attitude about sex is that sex is not a need. It is a cosmic experience, it is an experience of meditation. It is an instinctual return to our ultimate reality, one of the highest forms of meditation.

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...but only a dream!

posted January 28, 2013 10:48 PM            

I felt like I was ascending through multicolored rings of living, pulsating light.

Maybe that's got nothing to do with tantra, it's just the best guess I have.

So I'm looking for more descriptions.

posted January 28, 2013 11:08 PM            

Yes...very random, unexpected, no idea what caused it except maybe the full moon. I should look into the transits.

I'm not on Facebook, either, so maybe that's why the links don't work for me.

But I have a totally new appreciation for this topic now.