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Topic: Ever experince same sex attraction
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DepTaurus
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From: canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 19, 2011 07:52 PM
  
i was just wondering if i was the only one who has and still has been attracting members of the same sex to me? how did this happen to you? when did it happen? was their a certain period of your life where you were more vulnerable to this attraction?i currently have two guys who for some reason i think have some sort of crush on me? for whatever reason they think im good looking because their always staring. do you currently have anyone of the same sex intrested in you? how did you handle this? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 38691
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 19, 2011 09:58 PM
I had an attraction to a woman once that I can remember.
It was a weird fleeting type of thought that I looked at as if I looked at a 1000 dollar dress.
No way--ever.
It came and went as if I wanted to eat the whole cheesecake or do any number of things I would never do.
I thought it was strange but was not really bothered.
I think sexually can be plastic.
If one was in prison ,one could become homosexual by reason of circumstances. That is my opinion. I am 100% heterosexual lol ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 19, 2011 11:20 PM
Not really.. But I wish I did.I've had very mild, insignificant attractions. But I'd like to actually be strongly attracted once, just to try it. I've had women who were either bi or lesbians hit on me. But usually they didn't seem attractive to me. Basically I want to have sex with a woman (in theory) but I'm not attracted to anyone (in practice) LOL They seem more emotional than I am. I mean I want to just have sex for the experience.. But they want to 'make love'.. and that makes me uncomfortable because I don't feel "in love". I don't think I could fall in love with a woman. I also feel like the girls who did hit on me didn't take rejection well and became so clingy - specially one girl.. and I genuinely did not know how to get the heck out of there. I started behaving like the guys in all the Astro threads on Pisces men. IP: Logged |
Venus
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posted July 20, 2011 02:07 AM
im tremendously attracted to Keira Knightley...  im pretty straight though i swear  IP: Logged |
sand
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From: Lake Como next to George Clooney's House
Registered: May 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 03:05 AM
yes during my days as a greco roman wrestler in college. there's just something shmexy about pinning a big hunk of flesh unto the mat. haha just kidding! iv a lot of gay male friends well not a lot maybe 3 or so. they are spoken for. either way i wouldn't be into the sex. all guys are fugg to me sexually.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 20, 2011 06:12 AM
What is fugg?
That is a great word ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 38691
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 20, 2011 06:12 AM
If it is not some really bad swear,I am gonna start using it  ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs IP: Logged |
snarly
Knowflake Posts: 312
From: Wales, UK
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 20, 2011 06:20 AM
Is it an abbreviation of fugly? As in f***ing ugly? That was my thought IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 8101
From: Lake Como next to George Clooney's House
Registered: May 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 07:06 AM
lol yes snarly iz ryt!IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 07:25 AM
I am a strange person but I have never been sexually attracted to another man. IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 07:28 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Not really.. But I wish I did.I've had very mild, insignificant attractions. But I'd like to actually be strongly attracted once, just to try it. I've had women who were either bi or lesbians hit on me. But usually they didn't seem attractive to me. Basically I want to have sex with a woman (in theory) but I'm not attracted to anyone (in practice) LOL They seem more emotional than I am. I mean I want to just have sex for the experience.. But they want to 'make love'.. and that makes me uncomfortable because I don't feel "in love". I don't think I could fall in love with a woman. I also feel like the girls who did hit on me didn't take rejection well and became so clingy - specially one girl.. and I genuinely did not know how to get the heck out of there. I started behaving like the guys in all the Astro threads on Pisces men.
Do you think that you could be sexually attracted to a woman if the guy put you on to it. Like if your boyfriend brought you another woman and joined in. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 20, 2011 08:43 AM
That’s like me asking – Do you think that if your GF set up a blind date for you with one of her friends (who she chooses) you would be attracted to this other girl?
I mean it’s a stab in the dark. Unless me and the guy in question were such similar people astrologically and psychologically that we’d be attracted to the same person. Then I guess I could be attracted to the girl he picks.
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pisces moon
Knowflake Posts: 170
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Registered: Aug 2010
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posted July 20, 2011 09:27 AM
I don't know if any women have been attracted to me, if so they didn't let me in on it, but there have been a few that I found myself thinking ooh, she is so my type. It's not a big deal and maybe someday, I'll see what being with a woman is like. I don't think I could be in a relationship with a woman though just because, well, I think most of them act too much like woman and that's not appealing to me on a day to day basis. The ones who are more neutral, they tend to not be physically attractive to me. And that doesn't mean they are unattractive, just that I don't feel any need or want to be with them sexually. Even though I'm pretty sure I'm bi sexual, without having experienced that part of myself, the physical attraction is a much larger component than compatability. But who knows, later down the road that could change. It'd be surprising as hell to me but never say never. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 2791
From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 21, 2011 05:51 PM
Physically attracted? Yes, it's happened before. Not intensely, just some mild attraction. It was actually one half of a couple (girl + guy) who I found collectively hot. Like if I were honest, I'd have done some 'experimental' things with them if asked. I don't think I'd ever could be romantically drawn to a woman though. For actual emotional connections, I prefer men.
I can't tell you if there's ever been a woman who was attracted to me. Oh wait, there was a weird incident back when I had a myspace but that's a whole different story. =__=
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Frozen Queen
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From: 11th Dimension
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 22, 2011 03:22 PM
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northernlad
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posted July 22, 2011 04:22 PM
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BearsArcher
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From: Arizona with Bear the Leo
Registered: Apr 2010
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posted July 24, 2011 01:54 AM
Nope, another woman has the same things that I do. I like different, but I respect those that are attracted to the same sex (I have many gay friends). To me, to each their own. IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 24, 2011 06:49 AM
All women are bi sexual. Yes. All. IP: Logged |
LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9742
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 24, 2011 08:53 AM
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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
All women are bi sexual. Yes. All.
Well if true then ALL men are bi-sexual too LOL! IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 25, 2011 08:17 PM
quote:
Originally posted by DepTaurus:
i was just wondering if i was the only one who has and still has been attracting members of the same sex to me? how did this happen to you? when did it happen? was their a certain period of your life where you were more vulnerable to this attraction?i currently have two guys who for some reason i think have some sort of crush on me? for whatever reason they think im good looking because their always staring. do you currently have anyone of the same sex intrested in you? how did you handle this?
Yes I have had girls interested in me when I was younger, I remember the one who liked me the most walked me back home every day after school (we were classmates) and always made sure that I was protected from everything..I just saw her as being a friend at the time but looking back I can tell now how attracted she was and can see now all the times she wanted us to do more than be 'just friends.' Now that I'm older there have been women who have been romantically interested. I encourage a friendship but not the sexual relations. So yea, basically I keep it at the friends level, I let them know very respectfully and very nicely that I'm not interested in them in that way. I like them as people tho, and if they were men I would be dating them no problem because we get on really well. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted July 28, 2011 11:59 PM
I have a female friend that Im attracted to... But we have been friends for over 15 years, so yeah that line would never be crossed...
But I do find my self really sexually attracted to her..
We have alot of "sexual" aspects maybe thats why I find her so sexually attracted..
Im not normally attracted to women.. I can say wow yeah she's hot.. Or what ever but not really finding my self attracted on a sexual level...
But with this one girl... Im very attracted.. Sexual attraction aspects are me/her
mars conjunct moon
pluto opps venus
venus sq pluto
uranus sq mars
venus sq venus
venus trine uranus
venus trine sun
pluto trine mars
Her mars is exact conjunct to my NN.
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future_uncertain
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posted July 29, 2011 12:52 AM
Any female I've come across who I feel even remotely sexual toward looks like Justin Bieber. I don't know what that means. I'm not attracted to JB, but apparently, if I were a lesbian, I'd want to do a chick who looked like him?? Otherwise, I find lots of females beautiful, I just have no interest in them sexually. Like BA said, I have the same parts, and, frankly, I like the other parts quite well.  IP: Logged |
future_uncertain
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posted July 29, 2011 12:53 AM
Lioness, does she know? Like is it an overwhelming sort of thing or just in the back of your mind? IP: Logged |
Venus
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posted July 29, 2011 01:06 AM
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Originally posted by future_uncertain:
Any female I've come across who I feel even remotely sexual toward looks like Justin Bieber. I don't know what that means. I'm not attracted to JB, but apparently, if I were a lesbian, I'd want to do a chick who looked like him??
he's a pretty little girl IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 8101
From: Lake Como next to George Clooney's House
Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2011 02:21 AM
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