posted November 09, 2011 10:04 PM            

I have 8th house pluto in scorp conjunct eros 1 degree
sun sextile pluto 1 degree
sun conjunct mars (loose orb)
aries rising
uranus exact conjunct MC

posted November 09, 2011 10:05 PM            

My mars in cancer squares my jupiter in libra

posted November 09, 2011 10:22 PM            

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posted November 09, 2011 10:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Mars in Cancer seems like it would like to be more submissive. I think domination would be Pluto.

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posted November 09, 2011 10:49 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
How rough are you talking? lol

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yeah, seriously...
i know someone that drew the line at it getting to the point of drawing blood..
people have different limits.

posted November 09, 2011 10:52 PM            

Mars in Aries
Mars in the 1st
Sun opposite Mars
Mars square Uranus
Mars square Saturn
Mars Quintile Pluto
Pluto in the 8th

Here's a description of Mars square Uranus from astro.com, It's an abbreviated description by John Townley from his astrology book. I related strongly to this description. (Uranus rules my chart)

posted November 09, 2011 11:02 PM            

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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
Heavy Mars and Pluto aspects. Mars enjoys a good fight and Pluto rules taboos and transformations. I'm not rough but I'm definitely assertive. I'm a Libra Sun and I don't like anything rough, especially not intimacy. Here are a few of my placements. These pretty much account for my aggressive tendencies.

Mars in Aries
Mars in the 1st
Sun opposite Mars
Mars square Uranus
Mars square Saturn
Mars Quintile Pluto
Pluto in the 8th

Here's a description of Mars square Uranus from astro.com, It's an abbreviated description by John Townley from his astrology book. I related strongly to this description. (Uranus rules my chart)

"You usually try to cover up your natural impatience, but when the dam breaks, it releases a flood of physical passion that takes a lover by storm. There is a very hard inner core to your style of loving. Although it seems to be very tender, underneath it has a biting, pungent quality. You show a certain meticulousness in lovemaking, such that not a single possibility is missed in a nights play."

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it's odd because i think every time i've seen mars aspecting uranus in a chart, i see it making an aspect as well to saturn. read up on the saturn one and how there are looooooots of inhibitions and things of that sort trailing back to the father and what they represent as an authoritative figure disapprovingly watching. don't know if you have any of the 'fears' that placement hints at but i've found lots of people to inhibit their sexual expression because of it.

there's some kind of thing where they look at things being of nature as even something unnatural like plants being indoors or something.. i've never understood that.

posted November 09, 2011 11:07 PM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
yeah, seriously...
i know someone that drew the line at it getting to the point of drawing blood..
people have different limits.

..jus sayin

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a little too rough.......
not gonna lie sometimes i get a little too curious that I feel like biting someone off, literally. it's so weird.

posted November 09, 2011 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
it's odd because i think every time i've seen mars aspecting uranus in a chart, i see it making an aspect as well to saturn. read up on the saturn one and how there are looooooots of inhibitions and things of that sort trailing back to the father and what they represent as an authoritative figure disapprovingly watching. don't know if you have any of the 'fears' that placement hints at but i've found lots of people to inhibit their sexual expression because of it.

there's some kind of thing where they look at things being of nature as even something unnatural like plants being indoors or something.. i've never understood that.

it's almost as if saying humans and the things humans do weren't a part of nature and i think we very much are..

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I know what you mean and I think those of us who have Saturn and Uranus in Sagittarius (1985 - 1989) deal with aspects that effect both simultaneously.

I have issues with authority but that actually has to do with my Sun squaring Saturn. I also have Saturn in the 10th. I had an overbearing, controlling dominant Saturn father, who was absent most of my childhood. My father was restrictive and my mother was expressive and open. This environment mirrored what I was dealing with personality wise also.

With Mars squaring both Saturn and Uranus, it's like a balancing act between two extremes. Saturn Restricts and Uranus breaks apart. As a result of having them both square my Mars I'm able to walk the line evenly between the two. However Uranus is dominant in my chart, and my most aspected planet. I'm more in touch with Uranus but don't worry I still feel the effects of my Saturn aspects just not as powerfully as Uranus. When I was younger I'd swing between being completely sexually uninhibited to sexually inhibited. It was crazy, and as I've grown I've learned how to find a balance between the two.

posted November 10, 2011 01:56 PM            

Mars in Cancer, 6th house
Mars square Jupiter
Mars square Saturn
Mars square Pluto
Uranus conjunct MC

Pretty much all the aspects named off in this thread. And I'm not into ANY of this type of s**t...like, at all.

posted November 10, 2011 02:24 PM            

some days i like it rough (and even painful) and other days i like it slow with lots of snuggling

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted November 10, 2011 02:36 PM            

I dated a man who had Mars in Cancer conjunct his Saturn and he was more of a passive partner as well (Sun in Taurus too, so…) and it didn’t work out too well for us sexually. Sensually, it worked quite well but sexually . He had other stuff going on too <fetishes> that I wasn't into...

I did learn from that experience that I need a complimentary type in the bedroom. It was something I didn't think about until I didn't have it...

posted November 10, 2011 04:41 PM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
yeah, seriously...
i know someone that drew the line at it getting to the point of drawing blood..
people have different limits.

..jus sayin

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Haha, my last sexual partner left bleeding, bruised, and barely walking.

I think it's as much to do with who you are with though, than your personal preferences - some people bring it outta ya, some don't.
As for aspects ... Pluto conjunct ascendant maybe? I dunno.

posted November 30, 2011 02:07 AM            

Synastry: Mars in the 8th house.

My clothes get aggressively ripped off and I get slammed onto the bed alot.

We also have pluto conjunct venus, sun opposition mars, venus conjunct mars, mars conjunct neptune.

5 years on and off.

posted November 30, 2011 04:22 AM            

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I'm begining to think that people who enjoy this but like being the passive partner often have neptune aspects to venus or mars, but especially mars.

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posted November 30, 2011 03:00 PM            

I am quite the matriarch in my family...single mom, have had to work for everything I have gained in my life (in one way or another), I am so friggin independent drives most men crazy....

I can do anything I put my mind to. Fix plumbing, change tires, etc.

I am a nurse, charge nurse alot, and care for patients and families, and the entire friggin unit, 36 hours a week..come home and take care of my house, my cats, my daughters dog, my yard...

SO, when it is time to let go..YAY!!!

Let somebody else take care of me..let my man tell me what to do, instead of me telling everybody else what to do, how to act, how to care for themselves..please just let me let go...

Seriously lock me up in a castle tower, for a day only...and let me let go.

I am Pisces sun, friggin Aqua like no other, with my Mars in a tight stellium with Mercury and Jupiter in Aqua opposed to Uranus himself, forming 3 T-squares to my Taurus moon..all which aspect my Scorpio rising..

Yea, buddy...let me let go~

great thread!

posted June 23, 2012 01:44 AM            

As for me.. I think I can go both ways but this is uncomfortable for me since I have a history of rape attempts that I am not yet at peace with. I guess I do tend to attract that sort of energy, though, because I haven't dealt with it and I know it goes back to my father..

Mars in Aries opp Pluto and Saturn
Mars trine Moon and Neptune
Mars conj Mercury
Mars sextile NN

posted June 23, 2012 03:07 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Mars in Taurus a.k.a the bull probably sensual yet animalistic, rough or dominating behavior may be involved but that's natural. Sex in many forms isn't taboo. But a Mars in Taurus my be more selective about who they share that side with.

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posted June 23, 2012 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Hey, is your Mars in Taurus?
Mines is and I agree with this description, especially the bolded. Dominance really goes either way with me, I like playing that role but not all the time...that gets old.
I also think Mars opposite Pluto can either manifest as "dominant" or at least attract the energy.

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