posted November 24, 2012 01:19 AM            

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I could generally go without for quite possibly a life time.

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posted November 29, 2012 04:55 AM            

For instance, I am dating someone with Gemini Ascending and Mars in Capricorn and 8th.

Now, with eighth house in Capricorn, it is likely that a conservative approach towards sexual intimacy is opted for. The individual may even be a late bloomer(especially if Saturn is unaspected)

Certainly, with this guy, his Saturn is unaspected and sits in Sagittarius and so, there is a morality /principled approach to sexuality and intimacy of a sexual nature.

His Jupiter(ruler of Sag) sits in Pisces and so there is strong emphasis with sprituality and "divine experience" when it comes to this kind of intimacy. Most certainly, it is not something that is taken casually or lightly...

The Mars sitting there is his energy and drive to "do it". Certainly the conjunct with transiting Pluto and square with Uranus has him acting like an energizer bunny. He is quite overwhelming lately. Really!

I, on the other hand, have Sagittarius on the 8th house cusp. My approcah to sex and sexual intimacy is quite playful,but also "moral" and "principled". In this regard, He and I overlap.

The ruler of the Eighth house is Jupiter and it is aspected by Neptune(conjunct) which makes sexual intimacy a very religious/moral/principled experience for me(since both Jupiter and Neptune are in Sagittarius). I don't just sleep with anyone.

My Mars in Libra is my drive to "do it".Currently it is unaspected by the Uranus/Pluto transit, but that will change soon; making me the energizer bunny(can't wait)

posted February 06, 2015 03:03 PM            

He LOVES his job and he works A LOT. Very driven! Is an Aries Sun so the ruler of his sun is Saturn which makes him cold and calculating at times, which is ok since my Cancer Sun is also ruled by Saturn.

He likes sex but can shut off in the blink of an eye if he feels like it :-/ He'll go from red hot to ice cold faster than me.

He is not overtly kinky in an open way but there are undercurrents...he is more into being "one" and reach some form of heightened, spiritual awakening together. Think Kundalini.

He always says that it feels like I "devour" him and I suppose that is his Mars reacting to my Moon. He can't enjoy sex unless I do so. He will just stop, turn around and fall asleep. He has gone YEARS without any sex!

I have Mars conj Asc and am much more aggressive than him, which his Pisces Venus doesn't really like all that much.

posted February 06, 2015 11:13 PM            

Well...we like a sure thing. We need to know that we will get off and that YOU will get off twice as much. We don't have sex just for the hell of it, usually. No thanks to 'okay' sex! Go hard or go the F home! 💋

We are self-controlled in general but we have deep desire to 'let go' with the right partner - and with them only. Our passions run very deep - we are FAR from boring. "Flash" or "putting on a show" and not truly delivering is boring to us and is absolutely STUPID.

We enjoy layers in a person. Immaturity and wimpiness are turnoffs! Laughter and affection are great. Be in-tune with yourself and with us. Prove yourself as loyal, and we will rock...your...world. 🤘🏽

posted February 06, 2015 11:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Thermidor:
To Capricorn Mars persons : Have you ever had sex with someone with Aries Mars ? How was it ? How could you compare their style to yours ? How could they be better for you ?

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Hello.

My last ex had both Aries Venus & Mars. I'm Taurus Venus, Cap Mars.

The sex was just 'okay'. And as I said before, 'okay' sex is not acceptable to a Cap Mars. We would prefer to be celibate than to have a ton of underwhelming sex. 💯 DEAD FREAKING SERIOUS about that!

His style was too "flash in the pan" for me. He rushed too much and was somewhat selfish. He wasn't deep enough overall to keep my interest.

My style is sensual. I want all five of my senses stimulated. I don't need to go all night, but don't rush things either! Take your time! And don't try to "impress" us - we'll sense your insincerity and we'll become cold. Cap Mars tends to have a lot on their plate, so offer to help with things to relieve their stress - it's appreciated. Listen to us, give us firm hugs, massages and kisses. 💋 Even when you're tender with us... be 'strong' in your approach. We admire strength, stability, sensuality, and *some* sensitivity to open us up.

posted February 07, 2015 04:13 AM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
@charlie, the guy I'm into is also a cap Mars, venus in Pisces..can you give some more details about that combination? What else are some traits of that combo?

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He is very "manly" when it comes to work, money and those matters but when it comes to emotions and relationships he is more like a woman. I need to be VERY alert to keep up with him switching minds..He is an excellent business man. I would trust him to be able to find economical solutions in the most dire of circumstances!!!

He doesn't like hard women or hard looking clothes/surfaces/cars/buildings etc He likes everything to be soft and flowing. Dreamy.If you are vulgar he will just walk away mid-sentence. If someone is hard or cold with him he will outdo them by 1000 and he gets HARD and COLD! You won't be able to penetrate him until he is good and ready.

posted February 07, 2015 12:02 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
If someone is hard or cold with him he will outdo them by 1000 and he gets HARD and COLD! You won't be able to penetrate him until he is good and ready.

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Signature Cap-Mars move, there!

We can yell & shout like anyone else, but it's not our preference. We'll simply treat you like you're totally invisible and irrelevant - which tends to hurt most people much more.

posted February 07, 2015 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by StfP5:
I've been with 2 Mars in Capricorn men and they are both similar. They can go without sex for a long time (years), but once you start having sex and get into a routine with them they will become obsessed and want it daily/more than once a day. They can go on for a very long time and like to be in charge. Another thing that I've noticed is that they like pleasing and they won't come unless you did (if you can't they'll refuse to do it because they feel like they don't deserve it). They are also a bit aggressive, but very considerate and patient. They try to build your trust until you can and want to do the (sometimes very kinky) things they'd like to do. The ones I know are far from conservative but that might be because of other placements. Also, there's a big difference between sex and love-making for the 2 cap mars I've been with.

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This sounds pretty accurate.

posted February 07, 2015 06:29 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
About our sexual urges and tastes?

Well...we like a sure thing -- we need to know that we will get off, and that YOU will get off twice as well. We don't have sex just for the hell of it, usually. No thanks to 'okay' sex! Go hard or go the F home!

We are self-controlled in general but we have deep desire to 'let go' with the right partner - and with them only. Our passions run very deep -- we are FAR from boring. "Flash" or "putting on a show" and not truly delivering is boring to us and is absolutely STUPID.

We enjoy layers in a person. Immaturity and wimpiness are turnoffs! Laughter and affection are great. Be in-tune with yourself and with us. Prove yourself as loyal, and we will rock...your...world.

#BOOM

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posted February 07, 2015 10:22 PM            

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"Flash" or "putting on a show" and not truly delivering is boring to us and is absolutely STUPID.

We enjoy layers in a person. Immaturity and wimpiness are turnoffs! Laughter and affection are great. Be in-tune with yourself and with us. Prove yourself as loyal, and we will rock...your...world.

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So true. Nothing bothers me more than people who put on an empty show and other immature characters :\
When I see someone behave this way, I find myself doing breathing exercises to calm down - so as to not start verbally abusing them in public.

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His style was too "flash in the pan" for me. He rushed too much and was somewhat selfish. He wasn't deep enough overall to keep my interest.

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posted February 08, 2015 01:12 AM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
LovelyAries-what are your other natal placemats? Would you mind sharing?

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Oh sure.

posted February 08, 2015 01:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I find myself doing breathing exercises to calm down - so as to not start verbally abusing them in public.

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I can certainly relate.

posted February 08, 2015 07:38 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:

Oh sure.

-Aries Sun
-Cancer Moon
-Pisces Mercury
-Taurus Venus
-Cap Mars

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posted February 08, 2015 07:39 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
You got that right. The sexual energy and stamina is top notch.

My tastes are conventional and marathon sessions. But I'm also a Capricorn Sun. No satisfaction for me until my female counterpart gets at least two to three orgasms, if not more. In my case, my wife is a Leo and she has very high standards of performance.

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