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Topic: Venting Thread
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Barbiegirl19 unregistered
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posted October 08, 2014 08:02 AM
Those responses from THE instigator of this site were from a number of threads where she initiated it with Mia. How would any of us react if we were her age and talked down to like that, bullied? It's okay for a member to constantly mock another member's intelligence, call their existence "pitiful," and then call them a cancer of the forum? Not to mention a number of other horrible things said to her from the instigator again and other members. That's okay? That's how things are handled here? It's disgusting and it's not acceptable. I'm not saying at all that she, Mia, wasn't being nasty but so were the other people involved. She was defending herself(each thread of hers that were closed due to people getting nasty) and got nastier after being treated that way. It was a two way street. It really hurts my heart when people who are against bullying, and have been bullied themselves, participate in it. End rant. I feel like I'm beating a dead horse. 😣 Sorry if I'm annoying anyone it just really rubbed me the wrong way. It isn't fair. This is what this thread is for so I let it out. It really made me angry and now I'm over it. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 9522 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 08, 2014 04:14 PM
I don't even know what's going on - I put one of the sentences in quotes, in the lindaland search engine, and posted the link when I found it.IP: Logged |
MillyX Knowflake Posts: 2081 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 13, 2014 12:14 AM
Being in a relationship where people around you are opposed to you two being together It sucks... We have Saturn Pluto in hard aspects to venus in synastry and composite -_-IP: Logged |
melodiemelodie Knowflake Posts: 293 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted October 16, 2014 02:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Those responses from THE instigator of this site were from a number of threads where she initiated it with Mia. How would any of us react if we were her age and talked down to like that, bullied? It's okay for a member to constantly mock another member's intelligence, call their existence "pitiful," and then call them a cancer of the forum? Not to mention a number of other horrible things said to her from the instigator again and other members. That's okay? That's how things are handled here? It's disgusting and it's not acceptable. I'm not saying at all that she, Mia, wasn't being nasty but so were the other people involved. She was defending herself(each thread of hers that were closed due to people getting nasty) and got nastier after being treated that way. It was a two way street. It really hurts my heart when people who are [b]against bullying, and have been bullied themselves, participate in it. End rant. I feel like I'm beating a dead horse. 😣 Sorry if I'm annoying anyone it just really rubbed me the wrong way. It isn't fair. This is what this thread is for so I let it out. It really made me angry and now I'm over it. [/B]
I agree with you dear. Sigh..  IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 9522 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 24, 2014 10:44 PM
Almost five years of vomiting almost daily - repeatedly - and I still don't have a clear answer as to what's causing it, or how to fix it.I've been doing better in other ways, but I can't get past the people who **** on me over the past four years. I just can't. Especially family. I begged for it to stop, and they let it continue, but I can't. That **** really affects you. If you've repeatedly been a problem for me, then I likely won't trust you ever again. Now I'm going to cuddle the cat who's in my lap, and my dog, and go to sleep. IP: Logged |
MillyX Knowflake Posts: 2081 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 03, 2014 09:38 PM
Boyfriend moving out of the city to some small town to work. Devastated. Wish him the best though.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 70877 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 03, 2014 09:56 PM
Wow Teasel. I did not know you went through that. ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8778 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 05, 2014 07:18 PM
I leave home to find someone let their dog dump on the sidewalk and leave it there again (more than one person does this). Annoyed I tell myself I'll deal with it when I get back which should be before the schools let out, and I do...save by then someone has ridden their bike tire over one of the droppings and smeared it everywhere. I hope that if any of the kids who walk home on that sidewalk step in that skid mark I didn't clean up (I got the rest) and tracks it into the home is the kid of whoever left those dog droppings there (or one of the others who leave dog droppings)...course the lesson will be lost on the parent who thinks he or she is the only one worthy of consideration as s/he berates the kid for such thoughtlessness/carelessness for tracking dog doo into the home. Some people really should not have dogs. I bet they'd make lousy, irresponsible parents, too. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 9522 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 06, 2014 01:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Wow Teasel. I did not know you went through that.
What are you referring to? It's been a really ****** five/six years, with the past three being the worst. And that isn't counting the online crap, where I had no idea what was going on, but have been repeatedly penalized for it, anyway. What I would like to say to those people would be hidden by asterisks. Things have calmed down offline - quite a bit over the past few months - but I haven't been able to fully enjoy it, because I'm a wreck. People get away with so much cruelty, it's astounding to me. IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87 Moderator Posts: 6018 From: Curitiba, Brasil Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 06, 2014 01:29 PM
Mom, daddy and Grandma all of them sick!!  IP: Logged |
MineAgain Knowflake Posts: 2120 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 06, 2014 06:21 PM
I'm not here to vent but kind of: I love you. I'm invisible to you. You were here. Now you're gone. The memory of your face is slowly fading. I no longer know what your kisses taste like. The longing for your touch is gone. The feelings are still haunting my heart. You are the first thing I think of when I wake up and the last when I go to sleep at night. I feel so close to you yet you're so far. In a distant past, a far away place. My love is lost somewhere in the horizon. We were lovers. You were my soulmate. I'm now invisible. The hearts wants what it wants ... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 70877 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 07, 2014 07:24 AM
Sorry Dani  I did not know you were sick like that every day, Teasel 
------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 70877 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 07, 2014 08:34 AM
Here is my thing. I hate 4 people. One is responsible for the death of my son. One is a Jew hater. One is my mother. The other is my father.I was making great strides praying for each person and feeling much better but it crept back in. If I am to be free and well, emotionally and physically, I have to not hate. The Bible is very clear on people not harboring hatred because it will destroy the human vessel. God will take care of the Jew hater. God will take care of the person who hurt my son. God will take care of my parents. ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 21731 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 13, 2014 02:07 PM
I didn't know you were that sick either, teasel  --- edit IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 10068 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 13, 2014 02:17 PM
Faith, hugs and Tell her you can see she is "upset" about something and ask if it is about a specific situtation or me/you in particular. I find this can open a persons mind up to recognising what is hidden from them. ps, that`s two hearts  ------------------ Christian, Jew, Muslim, Shaman, Zoroastrian, stone, ground, mountain, river, each has a secret way of being with the Mystery, unique and not to be judged. Rumi IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 21731 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 13, 2014 02:28 PM
LOL thanks Juni.  *edit IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 10068 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 14, 2014 01:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: LOL thanks Juni.  *edit
Ha! I read it  It will come to a head either way. I always believe a soft yet firm confident approach will put you in the drivers seat. Good luck and when it resolves, do share! ------------------ Christian, Jew, Muslim, Shaman, Zoroastrian, stone, ground, mountain, river, each has a secret way of being with the Mystery, unique and not to be judged. Rumi IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze unregistered
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posted November 15, 2014 06:15 PM
I'm annoyed at the moment that in a certain thread I have not been able to post in it for hours. "No data received". No matter what network I'm on.Edit: I guess if you let the browser sit for a good 10 minutes it finally takes it. It'll work out probably. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 70877 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 15, 2014 06:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: I'm annoyed at the moment that in a certain thread I have not been able to post in it for hours. "No data received". No matter what network I'm on.Edit: I guess if you let the browser sit for a good 10 minutes it finally takes it. It'll work out probably.
Clear your cache. Then hit that semi circle in the browser bar
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 16, 2014 12:42 PM
Impromptu dinner with my honey at a posh restaurant last night, not thinking of reservations obviously lol. Ended up waiting hour and a half for a table with loads of other people, so packed! Nice thing was that despite all the chaos people were so kind and respectful when it could've just as easily been ugly and bitter, and on such a cold night.Then another, said partner and I saw a homeless on the corner of a lil cafe where we stopped for lunch, a genuine homeless not just a bum, and some nimrod drove close to the curb just to splash water on him! And on a cold day, ridiculous!! I opted for an extra lunch, something neutral that would appeal to most, and handed it to him on our way out of the parking lot. He was missing some teeth but his smile was still pretty and it was nice to see he wasn't letting that idiot ruin his day. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 unregistered
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posted November 16, 2014 01:58 PM
I am SOOOO sick of disgusting posters on this site. How dare any person here throw private, shared information, that another poster felt comfortable sharing here in their face. Shame on you. I am so sick of this garbage, callous behavior. As a "victim" of bullying you'd think you'd know how it feels and to never treat people so horribly BUT I guess not. Ignorance is bliss. Back to beating that dead horse. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 3419 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 16, 2014 05:04 PM
Again, if have a problem with something I said, please bring it up directly with me. I did not say anything harmful in that thread, but rather have brought up a point that Ami has been very callous and harsh at times on women when gender topics arise. I was in no light making fun of her situation, but rather pointing out that her situation often skews her viewpoints on women's issues. This has happened in all of the gender threads, as some of the comments have been questionable and I'm definitely not the only one who has felt his way. What is malicious about pointing out a bias? I didn't think it was a malicious comment, but if Ami has a problem with what I said then she can discuss it with me. If she is actually upset about it, then I have no problem apologizing, because I can see how it may not have been worded the best. I really don't have any issues with Ami other than I don't feel she is objective in gender threads, and the accusation against PisceanDream is an example. I would greatly appreciate it that you stop passive-aggressively leaving me comments, as I do have a right to an opinion. If you do not like something I say, request an email response or leave an H&H thread so that we can talk about it constructively. What do you gain by posting this here in such a hostile manner? I don't really understand why you feel the need to be gunning for me. You do not know me or anything about my life, so l would appreciate it if you didn't use name calling either. Again, I am always open for discussion as long as it is diplomatic and constructive. I haven't even been posting much in here, I've been in Personal Readings. I really think you need to air out your concerns with me as soon as possible because it is only going to get worse if you let it fester. Otherwise, what will happen is that we will be in the same heated thread and it will end up being explosive, which never solves things. Notice how despite the things you have said about me, I haven't done the same to you? I've intentionally spent a lot time away from this particular forum and only responded today because women's issues are something I am very passionate about. Otherwise, based on my energy level I would continue to not really post here. I know people who have been raped, so it really upsets me when I see victim blaming in any shape or form. I've thought about killing myself so I hope you are happy with the name calling for no reason. I have nothing to live for anymore, but standing up for people like PisceanDream and women in general is something that keeps me going. Same things with personal readings, if I can help or stand up for someone then it gives me hope in the world. That is why I responded the way I did, when you are at the end up the rope you need something to keep you from you losing your grip. IP: Logged |
PisceanDream unregistered
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posted November 16, 2014 05:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice:
I've thought about killing myself so I hope you are happy with the name calling for no reason. I have nothing to live for anymore, but standing up for people like PisceanDream and women in general is something that keeps me going. Same things with personal readings, if I can help or stand up for someone then it gives me hope in the world. That is why I responded the way I did, when you are at the end up the rope you need something to keep you from you losing your grip.
Girl, you're making me cry . I know and feel your pain. Thank you for defending me and thank you for being so passionate about what you believe in. I'm here if you ever wanna vent or talk. I really am. And that's a promise. Take good care of yourself and don't let anything bring you down. You're a good person. If that's what keeps you going, you keep doing it! IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze unregistered
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posted November 16, 2014 06:07 PM
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 9522 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 16, 2014 06:42 PM
Oh, Bella, I've been back there, too. I finally calmed down today, but I spent all night Friday, and all day Saturday, crying, and thinking about it. IP: Logged |