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teasel Knowflake Posts: 9522 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 06, 2014 01:40 AM
Dad admitted to me earlier on, that late last week, he was really worried about his health. I'm having a bit of a panic over that now, and a cry. I won't be able to take it if something happens to either of them. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8778 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 09, 2014 06:50 PM
People who say they know what certain people (be it something as vague as a gender or specific as an astrological placement) are like "but will never admit it" or "if they say otherwise they're lying." That's just plain ignorant, and it's absurd to believe you're really that omniscient! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9168 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 09, 2014 09:20 PM
I am worried about my dear friend because he just experienced the death of his mother and is going through a really difficult time because he is very close to his mom who suffered a stroke before. I am super depressed and stressed out.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 70877 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 09, 2014 09:59 PM
I am sorry, Teasel  ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 70877 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 09, 2014 09:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: I am worried about my dear friend because he just experienced the death of his mother and is going through a really difficult time because he is very close to his mom who suffered a stroke before. I am super depressed and stressed out.
I am so sorry, SSS  ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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23 Knowflake Posts: 714 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 09, 2014 10:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: I am worried about my dear friend because he just experienced the death of his mother and is going through a really difficult time because he is very close to his mom who suffered a stroke before. I am super depressed and stressed out.
I'm sorry to hear this. Your friend is probably depending on you, you need to make yourself strong. Have you spoken to someone about your feelings? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9168 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 09, 2014 10:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I am so sorry, SSS 
Thank you, Ami. IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 714 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 09, 2014 10:31 PM
To the stupid girl behind me on the road who was giving me road rage through my rear vision mirror this morning - sod off. I had to stop to give way to a cyclist as I didn't want to cut them off and kill them. So I have you have a cr$p day, Lady!IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9168 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 09, 2014 11:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by 23: I'm sorry to hear this. Your friend is probably depending on you, you need to make yourself strong. Have you spoken to someone about your feelings?
Yeah, sort of. I just miss our time together but it's not happening right now which is understandable. You know how it is when someone you are really close to is going through something really terrible. You kinda feel depressed and under the weather? That's how I feel at the moment. Plus I feel disillusioned because before this happened I told him my NY resolution was to have the best year with him so far and I have been really working hard making that a reality and then this happened and it obviously won't be the best year now. I feel defeated because I was on a good roll and trying so hard to be really sweet and uplifting. I was feeling happier and happier everyday just being happy for someone else, you know? It's like, if you do that, you can feel great, too.IP: Logged |
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posted January 09, 2014 11:18 PM
I hope that things get better soon, SSS. But I understand that the grieving process is a long one. I wish you both love and peace.
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23 Knowflake Posts: 714 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 09, 2014 11:22 PM
But it's not your fault that this has happened, SSS. Please don't carry guilt about this. Her time had come unfortunately. Your friend of course isn't going to have a great time, they will be mourning but hopefully, you can still help them out when they need it and to carry on and although the pain will be there, they can come to some resolution about it. Sending you my love to you and your friend.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9168 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 10, 2014 12:39 AM
Thanks Violets and 23. I do have some semi good news (even though nothing is really good at the moment). I got in touch with him and he is doing a little better. He told me he did have an anxiety attack at one point. I feel a bit more optimistic about everything now and that everything will be okay, eventually. Still have to get through this difficult time but we will make it through together.He's been at his mom's side at the hospital all week, barely eating or sleeping. IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 7078 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted January 10, 2014 01:36 AM
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MillyX Knowflake Posts: 2081 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 11, 2014 01:55 AM
Feeling generally confused & lost in life ... The song what now by rihanna pretty much sums up how I feel nowadays. My self destructive song. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Knowflake Posts: 4424 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 18, 2014 04:13 AM
School has been very hectic and some Instructors favouring certain students that's my rant lolIP: Logged |
Violets unregistered
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posted January 18, 2014 01:17 PM
This. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 75504 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 18, 2014 03:32 PM
Hey! quote: Originally posted by ariesdragon: School has been very hectic and some Instructors favouring certain students that's my rant lol
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 70877 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 18, 2014 07:55 PM
My guitar teacher is going back to school for his law degree, too.I think it is harder to put up with crap when you are older. When you are younger, you are too dumb to know much of anything  ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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meissieri Knowflake Posts: 1437 From: Neptune with Faith, Bella, Muddy and Doux. Commuting between that and Chiron. Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 23, 2014 06:14 AM
Inspired by the other thread.It really bothers me just how many fights have been on this board lately. I know, we can't all get along, we all have the freedom to say what we want to say and we can all take care of themselves. But this is also a community and I doubt many of us are here for the fights. Just the number of them lately has been affecting me. I come here for fun and to connect to friends and it's hard enough not to read and join in on most of the fights. If it makes anyone feel better, I am sorry for starting off another fight. I was trying to stop one, wanting to stick up for another member, but I made it worse and accused someone of something harsh. Just... could the mods be more quick to step in here? IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7203 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted January 23, 2014 08:13 AM
Freezing my tushie off and hurting my back shoveling snow.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 70877 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 23, 2014 08:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by meissieri: Inspired by the other thread.It really bothers me just how many fights have been on this board lately. I know, we can't all get along, we all have the freedom to say what we want to say and we can all take care of themselves. But this is also a community and I doubt many of us are here for the fights. Just the number of them lately has been affecting me. I come here for fun and to connect to friends and it's hard enough not to read and join in on most of the fights. If it makes anyone feel better, I am sorry for starting off another fight. I was trying to stop one, wanting to stick up for another member, but I made it worse and accused someone of something harsh. Just... could the mods be more quick to step in here?
E mail a Mod because we may not see it. Sometimes, people need to work things out and airing differences is good. Sometimes, it should be stopped. Randall seems to have a really good balance about this but it can be hard, too, because there is a balance, as I said. However, if you are uncomfortable and want it closed, e mail someone so they know and can do it for you!
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 75504 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 23, 2014 11:28 AM
Which thread? quote: Originally posted by meissieri: Inspired by the other thread.It really bothers me just how many fights have been on this board lately. I know, we can't all get along, we all have the freedom to say what we want to say and we can all take care of themselves. But this is also a community and I doubt many of us are here for the fights. Just the number of them lately has been affecting me. I come here for fun and to connect to friends and it's hard enough not to read and join in on most of the fights. If it makes anyone feel better, I am sorry for starting off another fight. I was trying to stop one, wanting to stick up for another member, but I made it worse and accused someone of something harsh. Just... could the mods be more quick to step in here?
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 9522 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 23, 2014 12:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by meissieri: Inspired by the other thread.It really bothers me just how many fights have been on this board lately. I know, we can't all get along, we all have the freedom to say what we want to say and we can all take care of themselves. But this is also a community and I doubt many of us are here for the fights. Just the number of them lately has been affecting me. I come here for fun and to connect to friends and it's hard enough not to read and join in on most of the fights. If it makes anyone feel better, I am sorry for starting off another fight. I was trying to stop one, wanting to stick up for another member, but I made it worse and accused someone of something harsh. Just... could the mods be more quick to step in here?
I saw it, and it was obvious you were trying to stop it. This is why another board I used to visit, failed: all of the fighting. Almost everyone moved to a new place where they're getting along right now. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze unregistered
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posted January 23, 2014 02:17 PM
I honestly don't see a fight. I see a little bickering and a lot of people getting worked up about a potential fight, but an actual fight. ... No. I've been in muuuuuuuch worse before my return. I'm not following to fight btw, lol. I just thought I'd say that I don't see one really. Not what I would call a fight. It's astrological now, as was meant, so cross your fingers! LOL IP: Logged |
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posted January 23, 2014 03:05 PM
I just saw your earlier post about your dad, teasle. Big hugs to you and your family.  IP: Logged |