posted January 25, 2014 05:08 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I honestly don't see a fight. I see a little bickering and a lot of people getting worked up about a potential fight, but an actual fight. ... No.

I've been in muuuuuuuch worse before my return. I'm not following to fight btw, lol.
I just thought I'd say that I don't see one really. Not what I would call a fight.

It's astrological now, as was meant, so cross your fingers! LOL

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Okay. I'm going to try to lay this out for you without getting my emotions in the way. That's why it took me so long to reply.

If I get sick in my stomach over a comment, to the point of feeling nauseous, is it so bad of me to speak up? Because that comment did. I got this hunch - and I believe her now - because of the way it was worded. Then timed right after another fight with that user, it really made it look like she did this just to put them on the spot.

And the problem is that they've been on Astrology threads. Not just in offtopic ones working something out or even Sweet Peas where discussions get heated anyway, no, in threads about astrology. So, picture this: You go on your favourite board, curious about some new threads and BAM people fighting. You can't avoid it - it slaps you right in the face.

The thread about signs and causal sex got ugly fast too. (That was another thread I was thinking of.)

I wasn't the only one who took it a whole different way. So, it just felt like a fight coming up. That was what teasel tried to tell you. (thanks btw)

Am I too sensitive to these things? Yes, I am. There's a reason I have Aries on the DSC. I grew up in surroundings where everyone fought, either with me or me being in the middle. So please understand I sensed something coming up and tried to stop it before it got worse.

Some of those fights you were in were very intense. It's awful to get reminded of stuff like that. I get you're comparing it and all, and think it's minor. I just thought this one was bad as well.

posted January 25, 2014 09:00 PM              

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Originally posted by meissieri:
Okay. I'm going to try to lay this out for you without getting my emotions in the way. That's why it took me so long to reply.

If I get sick in my stomach over a comment, to the point of feeling nauseous, is it so bad of me to speak up? Because that comment did. I got this hunch - and I believe her now - because of the way it was worded. Then timed right after another fight with that user, it really made it look like she did this just to put them on the spot.

And the problem is that they've been on Astrology threads. Not just in offtopic ones working something out or even Sweet Peas where discussions get heated anyway, no, in threads about astrology. So, picture this: You go on your favourite board, curious about some new threads and BAM people fighting. You can't avoid it - it slaps you right in the face.

The thread about signs and causal sex got ugly fast too. (That was another thread I was thinking of.)

I wasn't the only one who took it a whole different way. So, it just felt like a fight coming up. That was what teasel tried to tell you. (thanks btw)

Am I too sensitive to these things? Yes, I am. There's a reason I have Aries on the DSC. I grew up in surroundings where everyone fought, either with me or me being in the middle. So please understand I sensed something coming up and tried to stop it before it got worse.

Some of those fights you were in were very intense. It's awful to get reminded of stuff like that. I get you're comparing it and all, and think it's minor. I just thought this one was bad as well.

But it's over now. Mods, don't worry about closing. Things seem to have gotten better now.

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Yes, I have been in some heated fights, although some weren't so serious in my head. I'm over that now.
Really, now I just kind of think if people want to fight, let 'em. Not to say that she was looking for one, but if it happens, it happens. Particularly if it involves the OP. I'm not just saying that because of who the OP was, but I think it should be easy enough to just ignore these things.
The person who everyone suspects was a target - I just think let THEM report it or call for mods intervention. If the "target" has not much issue, which they must not have with only one comment in there, then I guess just let it go, right?
All three of you, the OP, and myself have Aries DSC.

Anyway, I'm having difficulty to really express my thoughts without seeming like I'm looking for a fight or just being cold. I'm really not either. Well not trying anyway.
I've just been changing continually since first joining last August. Well, and meeting Barbiegirl19 has seriously changed me a lot. All of her Libra REALLY balances me and keeps me more level. It's just fantastic. I can't even express the feeling, even to her.

posted January 25, 2014 09:58 PM            

First of all, anyone can contact me if they are having any problems and I will try to help.

They can contact Randall or another Mod with whom they feel an affinity.

That being said, you react with sickness to your stomach because of your home life.

I was the same way. You know what? I will do a thread on it!

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posted January 26, 2014 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Yes, I have been in some heated fights, although some weren't so serious in my head. I'm over that now.
Really, now I just kind of think if people want to fight, let 'em. Not to say that she was looking for one, but if it happens, it happens. Particularly if it involves the OP. I'm not just saying that because of who the OP was, but I think it should be easy enough to just ignore these things.
The person who everyone suspects was a target - I just think let THEM report it or call for mods intervention. If the "target" has not much issue, which they must not have with only one comment in there, then I guess just let it go, right?
All three of you, the OP, and myself have Aries DSC.

Anyway, I'm having difficulty to really express my thoughts without seeming like I'm looking for a fight or just being cold. I'm really not either. Well not trying anyway.
I've just been changing continually since first joining last August. Well, and meeting Barbiegirl19 has seriously changed me a lot. All of her Libra REALLY balances me and keeps me more level. It's just fantastic. I can't even express the feeling, even to her.

So I guess we can just agree to disagree? It's really not important in the big scheme of things, right? It's simply a thread on a forum after all. I don't feel differently about anyone because of that, or this, no better or worse. It was simply something that happened. That's my viewpoint.
Try not to get emotional. I didn't mean to cause that. We just saw things differently, but that's okay.

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Yeah, it did get solved quickly and so most fights probably will. It's just not always easy to see which ones need a mod coming in and which ones don't. I trust the mod's judgement of course, not trying to take away from them. Sometimes there's a thread, though, where I admit I hope for a mod to come in and say something. The person targeted should get the chance to report it themselves, yeah, I agree that wasn't a good move of me. There may be members who don't join in on the arguments because they're afraid of the backlash.

No, don't worry, you're not. Bit to-the-point, maybe, but not argumentative or anything.

posted February 06, 2014 10:53 PM            

No matter what I accomplish in life I constantly feel like a failure. Its like I am still that ugly, fat girl no one wants. People never seem to appreciate the things I do for them and I get nothing in return.

posted February 06, 2014 11:31 PM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Tomorrow is my birthday and while I should feel happy...I actually feel depressed.

No matter what I accomplish in life I constantly feel like a failure. Its like I am still that ugly, fat girl no one wants. People never seem to appreciate the things I do for them and I get nothing in return.

God Saturn in 1st house really, really sucks.

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Aww Bella dear. I understand

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posted February 09, 2014 11:53 PM            

So I'm currently standing alone. I know that I'll eventually find new friends, but now I'm in my 'grieving process'. Today I decided to go shopping alone & saw a bunch of teenage girls shopping and laughing together. It reminded me so much of how me and my ex high school group of friends used to be, it hurt a little but I know that I can't go back to where I used to be.

posted February 27, 2014 07:04 AM            

It happens at times. Do you not want to share it here on LL? There's always someone around on here. Most are very supportive.

I hope your day brightens.

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posted March 04, 2014 10:06 AM            

Felt good, to drop the class. Cause it's in the morning, day after a night class. Now I have time in the morning to prepare for noon to evening class.

This feeling of relief was short lived. Work text me like 10 minutes after if I could take on someones shift for the next few months.
Someone at work had a stroke, yeah its sad. But its always me that get burdened with other peoples shifts, so if I say I can't do it,(especially w/ this situation) it makes me look like an ******* . Just cause I'm not a mom like most of my co-workers, doesn't mean I don't have enough going on. I need this thing called "time to actually do my hw and study"
When I started this job 4 yrs ago I had nothing better to do ALWAYS SAID YES. So if I say I can't do a shift they don't know what to do! A few years ago, this got old. And I decided hey I am not the shift ***** . I am not some *** dumpster that everyone can just dump their shift loads on me.

Yes I will help out, but I am sick of feeling like I HAVE TO every single time.

I kid you not, last week, I told them I couldn't take a shift, and a few days later one of my higher ups basically said to me, "I know you said you couldn't do it, but is there anyway you could do it anyways?"

I will probably just try to compromise and do like half of the days they are asking.

But for now I'm ignoring the text I got from work.

I have hw to do, tried doing it last night. Computer crashed. (leading me to snap and drop a class)

So yes not in the best mood, hence the venting.

posted March 06, 2014 02:29 PM            

Randall,you might have to unregister me soon,cause if I go off,it's gonna get ugly.

posted March 06, 2014 03:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemmy:
Trying really hard to ignore and not blow up on someone on this forum who seems to have a deep hatred for Geminis.This person constantly has a snarky remark,is passive aggressive,and trolls threads just to say mean things.It's bugging me.

Randall,you might have to unregister me soon,cause if I go off,it's gonna get ugly.

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I am a Gemini, too. Lets stick together

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