posted November 30, 2013 03:37 PM            

Online dating is a drag, but I have met some pretty cool people from online in person.

posted November 30, 2013 03:52 PM            

There seems to be a weird vibe to younger girls. My son found that before he found his g/f I told you about.

They seem really flaky, not all of them but there is kind of a flaky non committal kind of vibe.

On here, we have some great younger woman like Odette and others.

There are some flakes, too( names withheld)

I wish you could find the kind of girl my son did, AG. If I had one wish for you, it would be this!

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posted November 30, 2013 04:57 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Ha! I'm kinda curious about your chart because we seem to be on the same page quite a bit - thus far anyway.

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No, I don't see much, except a very wide orb Venus-Vertex and Moon-North Node Conjunction.

I am leaning more and more to a larger Vertex orb, however.

posted November 30, 2013 06:14 PM            

First of all they might need more time to get to know someone online before they meet. Some people are scared of potential 'creepers'... so they might want to Skype beforehand, and make sure you are who you say you are.. for example.

Secondly they might not have been completely honest about themselves.. They could be hiding minor or major details.. Usually I would think it is minor details.. because the average Jane/Joe is not demented enough to pretend they are an entirely different person leading an entirely different life.
But even if they are hiding relatively minor things - they might blow them up in their minds and make them *huge*.
For example - lets say a girl who posted pics of herself at 21 and she is now 22.. and she has gained 5 kg. Maybe from your perspective as a guy - you could care less.. and you would just think she is attractive regardless. But from her perspective she could panic about meeting you.

posted November 30, 2013 07:22 PM            

You: "No? What makes you hesitant?"

Her: "Well, I usually don't meet people in person this fast, I really need to get to know people better first...but how do you feel about getting together with a group or something?"

or

Her: "I don't know, my car's broken down and I'm not sure where you want to meet or how I would get there."

or

Her: "Well, this is fun, but you might see me in person and think less of me. You might think my pic was misleading or whatever. I kind of have to work up my nerve here."

or

Her: "I wasn't expecting you to ask so I'm just not prepared with an answer right away. No offense, I'm just a cautious person and have to get used to the idea first."

^ All those answers she might have given are totally understandable, but of course, it's easier to assume she was just using you, being coy, being malicious, or whatever.

posted November 30, 2013 08:45 PM            

Like you, to me, IDK means "No." To me, it's ambivalence and a less-than-enthusiastic response. Even if "Yes" were to be the eventual answer, I would have lost all interest at that point. I don't like wasting time and energy on the disinterested.

The difference here is that I would have gone completely silent after "IDK" a f would have gone on my merry way. Subsequent communication would have been politely terminated with "I don't think it's in our mutual interest...." I don't see why you wanted to give a lecture. She doesn't care for you. Why would she be interested in your lecture?

posted November 30, 2013 08:57 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I guess you and I are similar in some aspects and dissimilar in others.

Like you, to me, IDK means "No." To me, it's ambivalence and a less-than-enthusiastic response. Even if "Yes" were to be the eventual answer, I would have lost all interest at that point. I don't like wasting time and energy on the disinterested.

The difference here is that I would have gone completely silent after "IDK" a f would have gone on my merry way. Subsequent communication would have been politely terminated with "I don't think it's in our mutual interest...." I don't see why you wanted to give a lecture. She doesn't care for you. Why would she be interested in your lecture?

Time to move on.

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posted November 30, 2013 10:16 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
So how about our charts? I'm only curious.

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You and Aquaguy?

That was it.

Did you mean me? I haven't checked.

posted December 01, 2013 03:52 AM            

Honestly, a lot of people on online dating sites are lonely but not lonely enough to step outside their comfort zones. They just want people to make them feel good, give them that temporary high.

posted December 01, 2013 03:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
lol What a waste of time... online dating sites..
Maybe she has social anxiety and just wanted someone to text and just flirt within her own comfort zone

I'm not that romantic in the traditional sense but..online dating sites takes the thrill and excitement. Now you just have to worry if they look like their pic and everyone is either really thirsty or catfish.
I'd rather die alone , no offensive to others.
Just my opinion..

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posted December 01, 2013 07:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Yeah your response seemed negative, REALLY bitter and demanding.

You should have relaxed. If somebody replied with that, I probably wouldn't have responded either.

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posted December 01, 2013 11:33 AM            

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Originally posted by CatMote:
well you did kind of take out your frustrations on her.
you could have just said "ok" and ended it lol. hearing that response makes me think you are desperate, and women do not want to be with someone they think is desperate.

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posted December 01, 2013 12:28 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
That made me laugh!
I saw that thread but breezed by it.

EDIT: Oh it gets better! I just noticed your posts in THAT thread! LMAO!!!!

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Yes, but "Who's on, First?"

posted December 01, 2013 03:18 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Asking for a straight and honest answer is demanding and negative?

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