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Topic: If you know a person above 40...
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12914 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 19, 2014 07:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: I don't see why people would think there's something wrong or out of ordinary with someone 22 years of age who doesn't have a girlfriend/boyfriend, since most young people at this age are focused on studies, not relationships. It's not like we're in the 18th century anymore, to be considered a "spinster" if you don't marry by 25! geez! Most people I know didn't have a really serious relationship until 25!
True. But most people are sexually active and are casually dating by their late teens and if you reach your early 20s without dating or having sex people are generally going to be asking questions.IP: Logged |
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posted May 19, 2014 07:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: [QUOTE]Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: [b] True. But most people are sexually active and are casually dating by their late teens and if you reach your early 20s without dating or having sex people are generally going to be asking questions.
It is as you say, although they should mind their own business Some people are introvert or focused on other things at this age, but it is true that people tend to judge those who are different, it's that animal fear and suspicion towards the different one. I've grown up among people who study at this age or are focused on work, so not being involved in a relationship for various reasons (of course while dating or going out with friends or sexual experiences) is regarded as perfectly normal. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12914 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 19, 2014 08:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: It is as you say, although they should mind their own business .
Yes, but most people don't have the slightest clue how to do that.IP: Logged |
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posted May 19, 2014 08:37 AM
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 19, 2014 08:45 AM
Doesn't count, neeeext!------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
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posted May 19, 2014 08:51 AM
Did edit my post.I'm really really sorry, I apologise unreservedly for trashing your thread IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 19, 2014 08:53 AM
Lol, I forgive you. ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
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posted May 19, 2014 08:54 AM
Does a 38 year old who never even kissed count?IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 19, 2014 08:56 AM
Hmm, I think I could count this one ^^ How is that person doing?------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
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posted May 19, 2014 09:00 AM
I don’t know him too well but he seems fine and he seems to have no complexes due to his non-existing experiences in kissing and his unattractive looks and behaviour IP: Logged |
MoonWitch Moderator Posts: 1971 From: The Beach Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 19, 2014 01:36 PM
I don't know anyone over the age of 40 that has NEVER had a relationship.One of my best friends, however, is 43 and she hasn't had a relationship in the time that I've known her (about 15 years). She did have one relationship in her 20's that was a few years but they never married. She is content in her life. I mean, she's happy with her two kitties and isn't particularly lonely. She can be a bit of a hermit. I imagine when I move out of state and she doesn't see me every day at work anymore, she'll feel pretty lonely and may reach out a bit for other friends. IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98 Knowflake Posts: 1961 From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada Registered: Nov 2014
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posted October 08, 2023 09:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35:
I'm over an over 40 male, single and as happy as I have ever been and in the best physical shape of my life and just graduated from college and playing around with some business ideas.
Woohoo, congratulations! You go, babe! How are you doing today? ------------------ Cancer Rising 2nd House Leo Sun 3rd House Leo Mercury 6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto 1st House Cancer Venus & Mars 9th House Pisces Jupiter conjunct MC. IP: Logged |