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Topic: Do You Think You Can Have The Sweet Friendships of Youth as You Get Older?
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Somna7H
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posted July 09, 2021 12:04 AM
  
I can't remember when I felt youth last time. I have Exalted Saturn in my 5th House.IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted July 09, 2021 03:12 PM
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Originally posted by Stawr:
From an astrology perspective
I have 11th house Sun w/ good and bad aspects. I've had all time highs and lows in this department.
I also have 3 things in Aquarius (sun, n. node, MC)
Very Uranian dominant (along w/ pluto and mars in my big 3) Plus through most of my 20's Uranus was transiting my 11th house. And recently Neptune has started transiting my 11th house in my 30's. I need a lot of freedom in my friendships. I can have a few very good friends that I consider like a best friend. But if somebody wants to do the whole salt and pepper, pb and j, constant contact I will run.
I need people who respect that I have a family, fiancé, work life, other friends, errands, appointments, a spiritual life, and I need to spend time with just myself too. I love when I can go a long time with out seeing someone and we can pick up where we left off. I am kind of getting my social groove back. After a rough couple of years as a new teacher and college work. Plus that one girl blowing up my phone so much! It was draining!
I will sometimes tell my fiancé "I kind of feel bad for not inviting them to the wedding." then fiancé will say "no you don't" and then I'll laugh.
Stawr:"I kind of just don't want to hang out with them anymore I feel bad saying that.
Fiance: No you don't Tomorrow I am seeing my friend I haven't socialized with in 6 years.
This is SO me!!! I also have Sun in 11H! IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted July 14, 2021 08:17 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
This is SO me!!! I also have Sun in 11H!
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Randall
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posted August 07, 2021 10:28 AM
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Stawr
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posted August 10, 2021 07:01 PM
I'm going on a girl trip with a girl I don't think I've seen in two years. Everyone else I am closer with bailed on the trip. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted October 10, 2021 01:30 PM
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saronna
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posted October 11, 2021 02:47 PM
I think you can. I'm reconnect with my friends.
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Stawr
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posted October 24, 2021 11:59 AM
Ugh but sometimes....it is too hard. One of my friends was in town....I haven't seen her in years. But I was having to much to do with my job and I was on the rag. I felt so bad for not having it in me to hang out with her. I will have to keep that in mind when I hit the road with husband, that people can't just drop everything to see me if I am in my home state for a bit. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 13, 2021 05:24 PM
Sometimes, you can know someone briefly and become closer friends than with people you have known for years.IP: Logged |
saronna
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posted November 14, 2021 06:57 AM
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Stawr
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posted November 14, 2021 11:19 PM
Gosh it is so nice when you can become really good friends with someone at work. Because if a friend is not close by ITS hard to keep up and maintain if you work a lot and have lotsa family.It easy to keep in touch when you see them most of your week.
A friend living close by too. It just seems to make more sense to have more energy to make time in that sense. I become closer with someone who has been at my work for 3 years. I use to think wow, she is awesome but I don't have it in me right now. But the energy shifted. Her chart is so similar to my sisters. We are on the same wave length a lot and on the same level a lot. Plus she has two kids, so I know she wont be up my ass all the time. lol
We have been starting to text each other a bit in our free time. I have this with a friend from a previous job too. We keep in touch but it's hard. One time we went two years with out seeing each other. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 27, 2021 11:15 AM
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Randall
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posted December 11, 2021 06:55 PM
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Randall
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posted January 01, 2022 04:50 PM
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Randall
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posted January 14, 2022 02:10 PM
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Randall
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posted January 27, 2022 07:25 PM
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Randall
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posted February 13, 2022 06:50 PM
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Randall
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posted March 02, 2022 02:27 PM
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Stawr
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posted April 17, 2022 03:39 PM
My friend who I can go years with out seeing asked me to be in her wedding. As a bridesmaid! My first time being a bridesmaid too. (I've been a maid of honor and a jr. bridesmaid in the past)I am considered one of her best of friend's. Her sister will be her maid of honor. She has another friend who lives out of state who will be the other bridesmaid. This will happen in July.
She doesn't want to do a bridal shower. But she is thinking of doing a Spa Party like me for her bachelorette party. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted April 17, 2022 03:45 PM
Ugh and then there is another friend group that I am not very interested in. I have really tried to beat around the bush and avoid them. I am going to get dinner with them next week. I blame Aries season since it's my 11th house. Because I don't really know how to say this one person in the group is crazy and makes me uncomfortable. I use to be grateful but I really have zero interest now. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted May 13, 2022 03:40 PM
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Lexxigramer
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posted May 15, 2022 01:21 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
A friend today could be an enemy tomorrow. Tread carefully.
sadly too true too true.
Sometimes the nicest ones at first
end up having the most vile dark hearts.🖤😞
Hence except for my husband
and posting here
I have no social life and have no desire or energy left to devote to the what ifs and
not interested in taking any chances again.
I have only one friend in my Facebook.
They wanted to stay so I kept them.My best friends of over 43 to some 60
plus years from my teen years are long dead.
If my oldest ones were still alive one would be like 142 years old.
Another about the same. If one has the time and energy to devote to forming or renewing friendships
Then by all means do it!😎 Just be careful.💙
Do not trust unless trust is clearly earned. ------------------
Click here to read My Lexigramming Biography:
going on 2/3 of a century to date
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I shall return
for as long as
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Randall
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posted June 02, 2022 01:29 PM
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aquaguy91
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posted June 02, 2022 02:34 PM
I think this issue could be related to one's astrological makeup and the makeup of one's friends. My chart is very fixed and I'm Saturn/Capricorn dominant with a strong Pluto thrown in for good measure. Needless to say, I'm very loyal and don't take my relationships lightly. Most of the people in my life are either heavy
on fixed placements or Capricorn/Saturn are prominent in their charts. A lot of my childhood friends are still in my life today IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer
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posted June 02, 2022 09:58 PM
aquaguy91 😎
I envy your still having close childhood friends 😎
At my age unfortunately most of mine are long dead and or because of my autism and dyslexia I tended to hang out with adults more than others in my age group.
Enjoy them whilst they are still n body😎💖------------------ Take a look at my
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