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Topic: Why are women so dishonest with men?
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Voix_de_la_Mer
Moderator Posts: 3183
From: Sound
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 18, 2020 12:14 PM
  
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
excuse me? where do you get off even implying i'm looking for some **** like that? cool you want to appear empathetic that doesn't mean you project some **** like that onto mei'm not saying anything i've said for an audience and i'm not saying it for personal validation from other people, that is beyond ****** of you to even imply everyone has stress and troubles, do mine give me a free pass? apparently not because you're projecting a lot of garbage onto me with a statement like that, but that's ok right? you don't know **** about me or my life and yet here you are projecting absolute **** onto me and not saying "well where is this behavior coming from?" kind of ironic for someone so empathetic to not consider other people at all when saying ****** things didn't apologize to me, and he said plenty post his apology that was not ok 🤷♀️ but we'll play pretend as if he has dementia because it makes you feel good
Dumuzi, you said quote:
i didn't even make the assumptions he accused me of making i asked him questions and tried to have an actual conversation with him, but let's pretend that and an apology didn't happen while his behavior is applauded 🤷♀️
I was referring to the above statement from you. ------------------
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Dumuzi
Knowflake Posts: 2869
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Registered: Oct 2018
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posted December 18, 2020 12:18 PM
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
I was referring to the above statement from you.
my bad, you hit a nerve, but i think you can see that every time he'a toxic everyone is just "this is fine" which is my point when i said "applaud" i read it very differently, so i'm sorry for my reaction that being said empathy does not equate with condoning horrible behavior and grief and pain are not excuses for hate speech and tantrums if you can show me how i lack empathy by apologizing to someone, asking them questions to understand them, and offering advice instead of behaving the same way i was treated in return i'd love to see that IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
Moderator Posts: 3183
From: Sound
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 18, 2020 12:18 PM
Please remember this forum is supposed to be a safe place for all to express life's troubles. We all naturally want to help each other, however we must recognise when our efforts to help are either misguided, untimely, or simply not helping. This thread is now closed at the request of the OP. ------------------
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