posted March 26, 2015 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by awakemer:
i also have nessus in 7th and i've attracted in the past abusive relationships .. ok so how do i pull the nessus energy inward so i stop attracting this?? interestingly enough my nessus conjuncts narissus and i seem to attract theses crazy narisstic personality disorder people.. i'm so done w/ it

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IMO, the only answer is a true and sincere relationship with God.

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posted April 18, 2015 03:12 PM            

I have Nessus square Venus in the 4th house at a 1' degree orb. Throughout my childhood until I graduated from high school and physically left, I suffered verbal/physical abuse from my father (along with my mother and sister). As I am Scorpio (A LOT OF SCORPIO), I held a lot of anger, vengeance, and resentment towards my dad. I hated him, "hate" is a strong word and it's being used meaningfully here.

posted May 09, 2015 05:24 PM            

How do I understand this? I'm not an abusive person, I'm super sensitive (moon conjunct neptune) & (jupiter singleton) injustice upsets me. How would nessus playout?

Mars is how a person does things, sexuality, anger. +Eros&nessus?

posted May 09, 2015 05:51 PM            

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Originally posted by CAY_512:
Hi Ami! I have nessus at 20 degrees leo, Mars at 19 degrees leo and Eros at 19 degrees Leo. In the fifth house. I don't get how this works in my life.

How do I understand this? I'm not an abusive person, I'm super sensitive (moon conjunct neptune) & (jupiter singleton) injustice upsets me. How would nessus playout?

Mars is how a person does things, sexuality, anger. +Eros&nessus?

What do you think?

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It may have strong mitigating factors such as a very, empathetic moon, for example.

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posted May 09, 2015 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Ashes2Phoenix:
Nessus in my chart has not manifested in how I abuse however where I WAS abused.

I have Nessus square Venus in the 4th house at a 1' degree orb. Throughout my childhood until I graduated from high school and physically left, I suffered verbal/physical abuse from my father (along with my mother and sister). As I am Scorpio (A LOT OF SCORPIO), I held a lot of anger, vengeance, and resentment towards my dad. I hated him, "hate" is a strong word and it's being used meaningfully here.

It took years of prayer for me to let go of my anger towards my father. Hatred can eat away at a spirit if you allow it to consume you as I did. I still don't like my father and I prefer not to be near him, but I have forgiven him. I will never forget.

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posted May 09, 2015 11:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Well, Let me relate to people who have Pluto in the 1st.
This is NOT to you,Anemone,just talking lol

If you have Pluto in the first ,you are highly Plutonian, strong,forceful, a definite Plutonian/Scorpion presence.
Perhaps, Nessus in the 1st gives one the vibe of Nessus.
I am thinking that Nessus in the first,in general, would be someone who could be abusive as a natural tendency.
I am NOT saying they are. Free will imposes order on all/any of our placements
What do you guys think based on your experience ?

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I have Nessus in my 1st house, as well. Mine's in Libra (also my ascendant). I've been wondering what this could mean for months. People do find me a little intimidating, especially if my rising sign isn't "on" at a given moment. I always thought that was just because of my Cap stellium or half of my 1st house also being occupied by Scorpio.

There's also the rare-ish occasion where a person just feels wary around me or assumes I'm the domineering type. Ironically, I often feel mistreated by these peeps as a result.They just have a militant reaction to me and assume the absolute worst. Even though I'm typically easy-going unless my sense of justice is violated. Honest! Again, Libra rising. This with an Aqua Sun and Pisces Venus. I'm a lover <3.

posted May 10, 2015 09:45 AM            

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posted May 10, 2015 10:38 AM            

What did her Dejanira do?

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posted May 10, 2015 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by CAY_512:
This girl I know. She was treated really bad in high school. They broke her windows in her car. The kids tormented her. I checked her chart. She has nessus on her Ascendent exactly and it squares her venus exactly.
It took along time before she would open up & talk to me. And I am Aries rising, in your face with a conversation lol
But could the nessus have caused the extreme treatment from her peers? They would all have Nessus around hers and be conjuncting her Asc & squaring her venus as well.

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posted May 10, 2015 11:04 PM            

Put up her chart, so we can see why this happened.

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posted May 10, 2015 11:17 PM            

My Nessus is in my 5th house. It only makes 2 aspects, sextile moon and trine uranus. I just read a description of Nessus in the 5th and it says that it relates to sexual abuse. Which is weird - I am the one female in my family besides my middle child who hasn't experienced some form of sexual abuse. My eldest daughter was fondled by a friends elderly uncle once and didn't tell me until she was almost 20. WHY?!?! She said she assumed I knew. I'm glad we finally discussed the matter because once I asked her how on earth I could have ever known - it happened at her friend's house when the mom had called the uncle to watch the girls when she had an errand to run. I never had a clue. My sister was molested by our grandfather's brother - whom I spent a TON of time with. I liked him but I had no idea what he was doing to my younger sister when I wasn't around. I was 12 and she was 4. My mother was molested by her stepfather and later almost raped by her step brother. My dad walked in and punched him. My own father apparently had sex with my mom's sister (& her best friend) when he was 23 and she was 13.

I am very sexual - in a healthy way, I think. I have a rule that I've been very firm about. No one can get at the bits if they are sleeping around. It's me and only me - or they can move on. Even if I'm not in a "relationship" I demand monogamy in bed. Men think it's weird. A few have walked away, most have agreed. The ones that chafe under the lockdown eventually move on but I can only be with one person at a time and I expect the same thing. Obviously I practce safe(ish) sex. I admit I get a little lax on the protection thing once i am sure we are exclusive. I'm still a little paranoid, even if they "agree" for the first few months unless we are just glued at the hip and evidently a "couple."

One thing I read more than once, Jupiter's placement and aspects in my chart tends to result in wording that says something like "Jupiter provides almost angelic protection over your life - be careful not to rest too comfortably in this or you will stagnate" -- whatever it is, I AM protected and I've sensed it since I was quite small.

posted May 10, 2015 11:29 PM            

I'm not sure if that's abuse? Perhaps it can be explained by Jupiter in the 11th? But it is the only thing I can think of that even remotely resembles "abusing" people by way of sex. -- but it's NOT. I swear. I don't ask for these things. They offer and I just say, "Thank you so much!"

posted May 11, 2015 06:03 PM            

please check the other threads on Nessus in this forum.

If you dig a little below the surface, you will see he is not really that straightforward.

posted May 11, 2015 08:47 PM              

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Taking the Deja "theory" to Nessus,do you abuse in the house which holds Nessus.
I know someone with a 12th house Nessus who abuses but does not SEE it.
The 12th house hides our motivations to us.It suppresses things so they get turned around in funny ways.
They go indirect,you could say.
For example, a Mars here could be passive aggressive rather than direct with it's anger.
Perhaps,it makes any planet /asteroid here like a planet in it's Fall.
I have Mars in Cancer in the Fall and that is how I feel about mine.
I have to struggle mightily to express my drives in a direct way,all of them.

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Not only do I abuse there(8th house) conjunct Vesta & opposite Eros. I get request for more.! :*

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posted May 12, 2015 08:22 AM            

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Originally posted by CAY_512:
Ami, I'm sorry. It's finals week. I will put up the chart tomorrow. What astroids would you like me to add?

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posted May 12, 2015 08:32 AM            

You need really close orbs with Nessus for them to count. 3 in a conjunction is really pushing it. You need exact up too 2 degrees, fewer for other aspects.

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posted May 12, 2015 08:38 PM            

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Originally posted by RogueReader:
I have Nessus in my 1st house, as well. Mine's in Libra (also my ascendant). I've been wondering what this could mean for months. People do find me a little intimidating, especially if my rising sign isn't "on" at a given moment. I always thought that was just because of my Cap stellium or half of my 1st house also being occupied by Scorpio.

There's also the rare-ish occasion where a person just feels wary around me or assumes I'm the domineering type. Ironically, I often feel mistreated by these peeps as a result.They just have a militant reaction to me and assume the absolute worst. Even though I'm typically easy-going unless my sense of justice is violated. Honest! Again, Libra rising. This with an Aqua Sun and Pisces Venus. I'm a lover <3.

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Im also libra rising im 2 degrees libra and nessus is also in my 1st house but it's 26 degrees libra. I definetely can validate that when someone violates my pride or me in general i become my own enemy

posted May 13, 2015 09:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Karen

You need really close orbs with Nessus for them to count. 3 in a conjunction is really pushing it. You need exact up too 2 degrees, fewer for other aspects.

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