posted April 25, 2008 11:35 PM              

i have this with a guy (exact conjunction, 0.02 deg apart) and i have NEVER been so.. um, attracted to anyone in my life. at first i didn't even think he was all that attractive but as i've gotten to know him it's like WOAH and i don't know how to tame it!! i wonder if that has anything to do with it being in capricorn. i'm the eros person. does this mean i'm more attracted? i can't really tell. i know he's attracted to me, but i wonder if he might feel the same intensity of desire that i do.

posted April 26, 2008 01:13 AM              

thanks for that other link too. the thing that's bugging me is i have NO IDEA what his feelings are for me even though we flirt a lot. i cannot tell if it's anything to him or just playful fun. his moon is in cancer too, so that does not help. he says nothing! yet knows how i feel about him. i'm HOPING that his cap venus is responsible enough that he would let me know if there was no chance, so i'm hoping he's just taking his time trying to find out if he feels anything, or something.

posted April 28, 2008 12:44 PM              

"Eros linked by aspect to Venus, especially by conjunction, will also do nothing to check or contain the passionate nature. On the contrary, an augmenting of the desires can occur. Whatever Venus already finds beautiful, lucious, and appealing, with Eros to hand, she will want it even more. The two archetypes thrive together and the results can be extremely magnetic.

The irresistible aspect of the relationship can also indicate a willingness to disregard general social constraints by engaging in an illicit or adulterous affair. Eros wants to take things to the edge and Venus believes that if a little is good a lot is better. Between the two, real life situations can turn into complex melodramas fit for a daytime soap opera. The taboo nature can come into its own here, especially if Pluto is also involved.

The basic sensuality of Venus heightens the erotic desires of Eros and sexual intimacy is one way to live it out. Depending on other aspects to Venus and Eros in the respective charts, this will follow its natural course with ease or adversity. Often it is a combination of the two."

posted April 28, 2008 01:57 PM              

AND.. not only that but pluto is transiting! well, this is occuring at 3 cap, so it's basically beginning its transit! oh boy! i should add that my venus is 29 sag and his eros is 5 cap, so it is a cluster.. yikes!

oh and can i ask why you think it would be harder to resist putting into practice being in capricorn? just curious!

posted April 29, 2008 03:30 PM              

Guy 1:
His Eros squares my Venus and opposes my Pluto (his Eros also trines my Mars, NN, Neptune, ASC and conjuncts my IC, while my Eros trines his Mars)

Guy2:
His Eros exactly conjuncts my Venus and squares my Pluto (my Eros exactly sextiles his Pluto).

I can say, that both guys energize me and that I definitely feel some sparks.

posted April 30, 2008 08:34 PM              

My guy and l have

my eros conjunct his venus exact
my eros trine his psyche
his eros trine my AC
my psyche conjunct his AC
his eros trine my jupiter
my psyche square his sun/mars
his eros in my 5th house

All l can say is that l never felt so much love for anyone before. It's magical!