posted June 30, 2009 12:21 PM            

You're saying the angle person feels the asteroid-to-angle conjunction in synastry, yes?

But on another thread, someone said that my Valentine and Groom conjunct a man's AC would contribute to one-sided attraction--I would see him as a "perfect groom" (I don't, but I AM wildly sexually attracted to him), whereas he wouldn't really see/feel me.

I've asked a lot of questions about this on different threads, but I'm still utterly lost.

posted June 30, 2009 12:37 PM            

I think of it as minor version of Venus.

posted June 30, 2009 01:23 PM            

For example:
A's EROS conjunct B's ASC=does A look at B and get an erotic charge, or does B look at A and get an erotic charge?

Or in an asteroid conjunct:
A's EROS conjunct B's UNION=does A feel an erotic charge toward B, or B feel the erotic charge toward A?

Or in a Vertex conjunction:
A's EROS conjunct B's VERTEX--who feels what?

posted June 30, 2009 01:38 PM            

I don't really look into asteroid synastry...especially not the minor asteroids

when I look at asteroids in synastry, it's usually the dwarf planet, Ceres in regards to nurturing,caring,food/domestic stuff,mother,parent/child connections. I thought it was highly underrated.

I also look at Juno because its the major asteroid of committed relationships,marriage,and things like overall commitment...as well as things like jealousy,infidelity,divorce

I don't view Juno like the Magi Astrologers do.

I don't really look at Vesta nor Pallas.

posted June 30, 2009 01:50 PM            

Also, I've noticed that when it's asteroid/asteroid aspect, usually both would feel it. So if A's Eros conjunct B's Union, then A would have Eros feelings towards B, while B would have Union feelings towards A.
It's like if A's Adonis conjunct B's Aphrodite, then A would feel like Adonis and B would feel like Aphrodite when they are together.

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A's EROS conjunct B's ASC=does A look at B and get an erotic charge, or does B look at A and get an erotic charge?

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Or in an asteroid conjunct:
A's EROS conjunct B's UNION=does A feel an erotic charge toward B, or B feel the erotic charge toward A?

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Or in a Vertex conjunction:
A's EROS conjunct B's VERTEX--who feels what?

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posted June 30, 2009 02:14 PM            

How would planet connections then play out with angles or other planets?

Examples:

A's VENUS conjunct B's ASC--who feels what here?

A's VENUS conjunct B's PLUTO

Raymond--substituting "JUNO" for "EROS", then:

posted June 30, 2009 02:19 PM            

I would think the Venus person would be attracted to the Pluto's intensity,transformational qualitities would have a profound effect on the Venus person leading the Venus person to be attracted to the Pluto person.

I think when it comes inner planet aspecting outerplanet, the outerplanet tends to modify the inner planet far more than the inner planet modifying the outerplanet because of the outerplanet's generational influence.

I think the Juno person would desire a committed relationship,feel committed to the Ascendant person.

posted June 30, 2009 02:22 PM            

Raymond, do you place Juno on the same level as planets when it comes to romantic attachment? Or do you see it as less central?

posted June 30, 2009 03:30 PM            

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A's VENUS conjunct B's ASC--who feels what here?

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A's VENUS conjunct B's PLUTO

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I think that if, for example, it's my Venus being aspected by someone else, then despite whatever planet/angle it is from someone else, I'd still feel Venusian towards this person. Coz it is my Venus that is aroused.

posted June 30, 2009 03:52 PM            

- Pluto person not very used to the Pluto energy himself/herself, that he/she might be unaware and so doesn't notice it or show it much like the Venus person;

- Pluto person might be aware of his/her obsession (Plutonian side), but hide it or doesn't show it much coz he/she is uncomfortable with it (Pluto energies can be harder to deal with, compared to the Venus energy);

- it's simply in the Pluto person's nature that he/she isn't very Plutonian, so that he/she isn't very affected by it.

posted June 30, 2009 04:07 PM            

In synastry, my Venus squares his Pluto exactly (0), but his Venus is loosely conjunct my Pluto (8 degrees)...his Pluto is tightly conjunct my MC (0), my Pluto is loosely conjunct his AC (5)...

He is aware that he is obsessive and comes on strong in general and has mentioned it and apologized for it. Sometimes I feel really overwhelmed/shy in the face of his energy, when I am not normally a shy person. When we were first spending time together I was in a fragile place and not ready for someone like him...I sent him away, and later realized how attracted to him I was and started getting obsessed. Now we are hanging out as friends again, with some flirting.

My Valentine conjuncts his ASC, his Aphrodite conjuncts my DSC, my Adonis-Aphrodite conjunct his Union-Valentine.

I was interested in my "guess the synastry" thread that everyone picked out right away that he and I were the one couple who have never been lovers.

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she feels like a goddess when with him

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posted June 30, 2009 05:18 PM            

"Raymond, do you place Juno on the same level as planets when it comes to romantic attachment? Or do you see it as less central?"

I see it as less central, but not like very minor. I think that it is of moderate importance with it being a major asteroid.

I think major asteroids, Vesta and Pallas are fit more with platonic relationships. Vesta could fit with being devoted to or in be in service with the planet person. It could be some sacred sex connection or kamasutra.

Pallas seems more like a minor Mercury, but also fit more with the political,activist side of things. It could be good for having an intellectual rapport,the meeting of minds in a relationship.

posted June 30, 2009 09:47 PM            

his valentine conj her aphrodite

posted June 30, 2009 09:53 PM            

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Valentine:
unconditional true love, according to IQ.
I`m a bit more sceptical of this interpretation, but he believes very firmly in it. So I sit and wait until enlightment hits me.

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I would have a milder interpretation of Valentine in non-"soul mate" synastries (see IQ's thread on Soul Mates to check)--that Valentine adores what it comes into contact with.

So his Valentine on her Aphrodite=he adores her, she thinks he's beautiful (or, likes to look at him.)

posted June 30, 2009 09:53 PM            

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Valentine:
unconditional true love, according to IQ.
I`m a bit more sceptical of this interpretation, but he believes very firmly in it. So I sit and wait until enlightment hits me.

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I would have a milder interpretation of Valentine in non-"soul mate" synastries (see IQ's thread on Soul Mates to check)--that Valentine adores what it comes into contact with.

So his Valentine on her Aphrodite=he adores her, she thinks he's beautiful (or, likes to look at him.)

posted June 30, 2009 10:49 PM            

regarding eros in 1st/conj asc - maybe asteroids just emphasize what's there already? someone's stated this already though, just reiterating
editing: more attracted [eros] isn't exactly it, it's more like more initially attracted and then asc person basically knows they have their choice and can be influenced by eros person in a sexual manner, eros's sexual attraction igniting asc person's sexual interest, if that makes sense?

posted July 01, 2009 05:43 AM            

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So his Valentine on her Aphrodite=he adores her, she thinks he's beautiful (or, likes to look at him.)

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My immediate thought/feeling was that "his love makes her feel beautiful".

posted July 01, 2009 10:52 AM            

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his aphrodite is conj my venus

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my union conj his venus

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