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ariesdragon
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posted March 18, 2012 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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he dumped me

aww I'm sorry to hear that ami xhugsx
nessus is quite potent. It's not your fault.

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posted March 18, 2012 11:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
aww I'm sorry to hear that ami xhugsx
nessus is quite potent. It's not your fault.

I am kewl Sweetie. Thank Goodness he did. He was too much TNT for little ole me

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posted March 18, 2012 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I am kewl Sweetie. Thank Goodness he did. He was too much TNT for little ole me


one of those strapping lads like Gaston

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posted March 18, 2012 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
one of those strapping lads like Gaston


YEP Gaston

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posted January 13, 2015 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mztiny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know this an old thread but trying to keep topics in the same place.

Nonetheless, Just to clarify.

In synastry, a connection to nessus causes obsession but ONLY by the personal planet, right?

My venus conjuncted an ex's nessus by 2degree. I was obsessed. I finally let him go. I wonder if he was ever obsessed with me?

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posted January 13, 2015 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it is both ways, M.

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posted January 13, 2015 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mztiny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Ami,

BTW- I read about your situation of nessus and your sun. I am sorry...I have felt your pain and it sucks sucks sucks. Even though he didn't dump me...it was extremely hard to let him go...he is still in my skin though. Since you have been through it...what are some of the things you did to heal yourself?

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posted January 31, 2015 01:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His nessus is intercepted and conjuncts exact my sun. His mercury is also intercepted and conjuncts my sun by 2 deg.

He doesnt talk much, I think there is a connection.

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posted January 31, 2015 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusincap89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What happens if nessus conjuncts mars in synastry please?

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posted February 11, 2015 12:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump for iQ.

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posted February 11, 2015 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mztiny:
Thank you Ami,

BTW- I read about your situation of nessus and your sun. I am sorry...I have felt your pain and it sucks sucks sucks. Even though he didn't dump me...it was extremely hard to let him go...he is still in my skin though. Since you have been through it...what are some of the things you did to heal yourself?


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posted February 11, 2015 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
His nessus is intercepted and conjuncts exact my sun. His mercury is also intercepted and conjuncts my sun by 2 deg.

He doesnt talk much, I think there is a connection.


Are you super attracted to him?

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posted February 11, 2015 01:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
What happens if nessus conjuncts mars in synastry please?


I have not seen it in charts and so could only guess that the Nessus person would be very critical/abusive of the goals of the Mars person.


You tell me if you have it lol

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posted February 11, 2015 06:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

I have not seen it in charts and so could only guess that the Nessus person would be very critical/abusive of the goals of the Mars person.


You tell me if you have it lol



It's actually been the opposite in my experience.

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posted February 14, 2015 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think nessus conjunct mars in synastry can lead to rivelry, competitivess, jealousy but if addressed can turn into admiration and competitiveness that leads to growth instead of insecurity and petty jealousy...it takes maturity to do something with that energy that raises you instead of falling victim of it, leading to empowerment as opposed to disempowerment.

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posted August 08, 2015 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 8ofHearts     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How close an orb do you use for Nessus conjunction? I have Nessus at 26'57 Gemini and due where my planets fall & my MC at 29 Gem, I have attracted lots of folks with Rising and personal planets in late Gemini.

I would have to say in my view, I am not the shady one in the situation. That all of these folks (particularly with the ASC) did damaging things towards ME while acting as my friends. The ASC ones were always trying to get something from me - they always wanted what I had & were trying to maneuver to get it. I have a longtime female friends with Venus/Saturn & her own Nessus on/near my Nessus who's a good friend now but when we were young, she was ALWAYS trying to hook up with my boyfriends behind my back. Yikes!

Definitely a weird element of competition between the females connections. I know a Male with Venus & Saturn with a slightly larger orb (born a few days earlier than previous friend) & we've always had weird interactions. Friends tried to set us up - there was an attraction (more on his end) but it always went haywire which I always attributed it to other things before Nessus. Due to the amount of weirdness, I think we both consider each other a "no fly zone" for different reasons. We don't speak anymore. Hmmm....

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posted August 08, 2015 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
2 degrees is wide. 3 is fudging but I do go this far but exact to 1 degree is really what counts imo

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posted August 09, 2015 04:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VelvetPriestess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ceri - hello

What sort of aspects make Nessus engaged and obsessed, conjunctions/trine to sun and venus or to other planet/asteroids...

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I have a situation where His Nessus trines my Venus, and my Nessus opposes his Venus. I wondered if this would be obsessive in nature.

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posted August 09, 2015 06:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VelvetPriestess:
I have a situation where His Nessus trines my Venus, and my Nessus opposes his Venus. I wondered if this would be obsessive in nature.

Hard aspects, in my experience are the real hooks with NESSUS. The dual aspect, in your case, could lend itself to something, but it depends upon orb. NESSUS moves so slowly; I prefer to keep it very tight: about 1°30 at most, unless it's heavily configured. Then I can expand to 2° comfortably enough.

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posted August 09, 2015 08:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VelvetPriestess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Aubyanne, in fact it's the his Nessus trine my Venus and Pluto that is at 1' - the other one, the opposition is too wide at 3'

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