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Despina
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posted June 10, 2012 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Despina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by BlackSeraph:
Consider my case study-experience a cautionary tale.

You certainly seem to have had a hell of a lot of bad luck... The pattern of being betrayed by friends is unreal! I'd be curious to know whether you've pinpointed something in your natal chart that might predispose one to such mistreatment.

I do think it would be erroneous to deny yourself a relationship based on a bad experience or two (okay, three). Are your venus/mars/pluto conjunct? That'd point to some serious passion which could make the right woman very very happy. We're not all teasing heart-breakers...

Maybe you could play a little hard to get. Not in a game-playing way, per se, but so that the woman has a chance to demonstrate some loyalty before you put your heart on the line (consider the fact that it's so often so very effective an added bonus ;-).

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posted September 19, 2012 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Oracle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi IQ:

I have a quick question. But first how are you?

My question is I have an empty 8th House in Capricorn, however, I have Circe, Merlin, Frigga, Poseidon, Telepathy in Capricorn in 8th I also have Hermes, Walpurga and Reiki, Valentine and Kleopatra in Aquarius in 8th. There are more asteroids in this house, but what do these mean? Absolutely no personal planets reside in this house.

Any input you give is greatly appreciated.

I use therefore, I am. --Capricorn legacy

Rising Gemini
Sun Capricorn
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Scorpio
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Scorpio
Vertex Scorpio

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Gabby
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posted September 19, 2012 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:
I just read up on the myth of Sedna, and it's just a HORRIBLE story. Repeated betrayals by father and husband. Yuck!!!



I've met sedna, personally...lol
she sets ontop my very abusive, sadistic step fathers name and dark moon lilith! They say with sedna, you are given the compassion of the universe to help you heal...and when given that compassion your asked to share it and help others to heal through that compassion.

My taurus Sedna@3.39 opposed my scorpio uranus@4.44, square my leo saturn@2.50
she makes a fixed t-square
she also touches my gemini mars@29.33, my cancer nessus@2.24 in 9th

I met a guy once who's Ceres/Sun/Sedna was conjunct my Sedna...his Nessus/Mars conjunct my Ceres
He was very nurturing and caring regarding what i'd been thru! He actually taught me to forgive myself for all the mistakes i'd made while being reactive because i was in pain...he got mad at me for judging myself. I'd never had someone get mad at me for being cruel to myself...he'd say if you cant forgive yourself...i dont want to talk to you...your too mean to yourself and it hurts me!
LOL...i didn't care about myself but i cared about hurting him, so i tried to be nicer to myself for him! It worked, it changed how i treated myself and set me on a kinder path!

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posted September 19, 2012 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I took only conjunctions/oppositions/squares in 2 degrees.
Why exactly is Lust a bad asteroid? I have it conjunct exactly my Amor and Angel natally.
With my past life/present life Love.

His Dejanira opposite my Moon (1)
His Lust square my Mercury (CR) EXACT
His Lust square my Venus (1)
His Lucifer conjunct my Mars (1)
His Lust opposite my Neptune EXACT
His Dejanira square my Pluto EXACT
His Swindle conjunct my SN (1) What? I'll have to see that.
His Nessus conjunct my Amor EXACT
His Nessus conjunct my Angel EXACT
His Nessus conjunct my Aphrodite (1)
His Nessus conjunct my Lust EXACT
His Nessus conjunct my Tantalus (1) ?

My Karma square his Lucifer EXACT
My Lie square his Venus (1)
My Swindle conunct his ASC (1) o_O
My Lucifer on his SN (2)
My Nessus square his Lust (3 - wide, but though it's a dw, so i counted)


So basically, the themes for us are Swindle and a lot of Nessus/Lust.

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Aeline
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posted September 19, 2012 04:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm also fascinated about those past lives charts - mine and his which shows up the very same aspects yet i can't really believe such a coincidence!

OMG!

That time it was:

HIS Lie square my Venus (now it's mine square his)
HIS Lust conjunct my Nessus EXACT (now it's mine conjunct his EXACT)
My Saturn on his IC EXACT (the exact same as now)
His Nessus opposite my Amor EXACT
His Nessus opposite my Lust AGAIN A DW OF THAT!
His Dejanira conjunct my Amor EXACT
His Dejanira conjunct my ASC EXACT
His Nessus conjunct my DSC (1)
His Lie opposite my Dejanira EXACT
His Swindle square my Mars
His Swindle opposite my Angel
My Swindle opposite his Moon

WEIRD WORLD! WEIRD!

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Aeline
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posted September 19, 2012 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now i know exactly why Nessus is so prominent in our present life synastry. Hell, it's conjunct NN in our past lives composite (and that's past life NN is 2 degrees apart from his present day NN!

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Gabby
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posted September 19, 2012 04:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you watch for lilith as a bad one to??

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posted October 20, 2014 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aurora_girl1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm in a relationship with this person and i have the following asteroids in synastry which worries me.:

His Asteroid lie aspecting my planets:

His Lie conjunct my MC/Amor(exact),
opposite my IC(exact),
square my venus(exact),
trine my neptune (orb 1)


His Asteroid swindle aspecting my planet:

His swindle sextile my moon(exact)


My Asteroid lie only makes one aspect to his planets which is:

My lie widely conjuncts his swindle(orb 4)


My Asteroid Swindle only makes one aspect to his planets which is:

My Swindle opposite his saturn (exact)


I'm quite worried about his Lie as it aspects a lot of my personal planets.Does this mean he'll lie and decieve me in love(venus)?

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posted October 20, 2014 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Aurora_girl... Don't be afraid to go ahead and have love, and like the someone that you are in-relationship with. Make sure the balance of powers stay even... Know each other as well as you can in every way, keep exploring the truth between yourselves as partners (and look honestly at every expectation and wish). The coming together of two people in partnership or relationship is a chance for fertile growing for your soul. What is being impressed into you now, by this person, may become a treasure stocked with important discoveries you make about your own self, and the uncovering your own preferences, likings and values. Each relationship that its own rewards. Can become a Precious jewel in your Life-experience Hope-box.

"Amor" is an empathic type asteroid (Demetra George & Dennis Bloch, Asteroid Goddesses bk, p.193). Represents 'A state of Loving'... Loving-kindness and Compassion. 'A loving-caring bond and deep affection that may exist' between individuals.

You could be 'Swindling' yourself out of a chance to nurture your inner-self when you don't take a chance on Love (platonic, or spiritual).

"Lie" (looking from a different perspective) could also mean the One you lie down with in your bed of intimacies... whether of body, mind, emotion-feeling, Soul, or spiritual ideals. Be clear (in yourself) 'why' you lay with this person. What is this about? Just sex? or Will he (she) be a fated-one on your journey... One who will Be there with you and for you, to know you in every possible way and form that there is to be Known.

The bridge to your IC could indicate that this relationship could have a profound effect on your own self psychological-depths and deepest formation for your personal feeling of 'home' (what 'home' feels like to you) at your foundations. (You are still 'young' if born 1990, and your psychological bank of experiences seeks deposits to be made into it.)

(Traditionally, you're not considered fully initiated into Society until you've experienced your first Saturn-Return ... I know, I know. I personally felt 'very ancient' at age 24, and I recall myself saying out-loud that I was ready to retire and tell my stories to grandchildren. .... Now I feel as though I have maybe lived at least 150 of those kinds of years by now ~ and still, I'm growing!)

Aurora_Girl, You have an excellent tool on your side when you understand the astrology... Try not to be so worried...? You'll be able to make course-corrections and adjustments with more flexibility than others perhaps. Yes, Love can be Blind. And Love can cover a multitude of sins... Now, this could be a bad or good thing, depending on the dynamics and your abilities to resolve problems in 'working out' your relationships.

Love out of balance can lead to deep wounds. And, 'woundings' are an inescapable part of Life... We're here to live it ALL out, fully. Living can hurt sometimes-- but you eventually can ALWAYS moves forward at some point if you don't give up!...

(In cases of deliberate abuse, or undisciplined use of masculine power {in female OR male genders}, bluntly?~~ leave when you can... You can be friendly, and sometimes ultra-careful, but do extricate yourself from this if it is a situation you encounter. Your life is worthy! Choose to change your role. Learn this early in life. Emotional abuse COUNTS as well. Keep the Truth close to your inner-child self, the one who dreams the wedding and chooses to take care of herself by remaining where she is safe.)

Sometimes the meeting and bonding between two souls can lead to mutual sublime healing and compassions that dilute a 'sea of wounds'... {{Gaby! That was a WONDERFUL story about SEDNA, and learning to apply self-compassion, 'allowing' your self to be Loved. WOW!}}

Trining Neptune..., In its Higher form is a Higher spiritual soul-level perspective, or in its lower form can be lack of clarity on a ground level. (Hopefully not deceit, where people are evolved.) Can symbolize also a feeling of sense of defeat, or the helpless powerless feeling that result from victimizations: whether deliberate deceptions by others (whether via the-other, or self's subconscious collusion that would happen between idealistic dreaming of both... unless consciously kept acknowledged). That's why it's so important to learn what is true to 'both' of you.

Okay, my Virgo Moon has WAY over-analyzed! ENOUGH-already! .... Please, have FUN!! ~~ Consider that It COULD result in something sooo very good for each other....

With lots of Love to you....

(music) The Glory of Love (Bette Midler, movie 'Beaches') [4:00] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KkjRYi5Vvb0

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posted August 20, 2016 06:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MermaidDreamz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted August 21, 2016 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Lie 26955

Swindle 8690 (Thanks, IQ)

Lucifer 1930

Lust 4386

Nessus 7066

Dejanira 157

Tantalus 2102[/B]


Wow thanks for sharing these!
This thread blew my mind!

I was once with a gemini guy who has Lie conjunct sun (exact), and lucifer conjunct mercury (exact). After we broke up I always remembered him as the devil himself. But I always thought this was because of his Scorpio ascendant that makes me think so. now I know!

Another guy I dated has Lie exactly conjunct his moon/saturn. Surprisingly I couldn't believe a word he would say! I always thought he mostly lies to himself, and through this deceives others.

I have natal Lucifer exactly conjunct my ascendant!
I found this on Lucifer though, so fingers crossed I won't lose my light! :

"In Latin Lucifer means also Bearer of Light, and see, that becomes the secret is that wherever we have our natal Lucifer is where we can be most severely influenced by evil, but the paradox is that within the symbol itself, is the Bearer of Light, which means it's where you can accelerate "your spiritual growth," to directly know God...through the very symbol itself - that's the paradox of Lucifer and the Bearer of Light." http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/000217.html


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pisces moon
taurus midheaven
leo ascendant
taurus sun
cancer mars and venus

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BlessedAreTheWarlike
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posted April 24, 2017 05:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlessedAreTheWarlike     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ixxion(28978) - might want to watch your valuables with this person, they think they are above the law(especially with someone who has Ixxion in the 1st or conjunct ASc)
correct me if I'm wrong.

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posted April 24, 2017 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No idea if these are bad or potentially troublesome but my husband's Tantalus is (2) conj my sun and it's (0) sextile my AC.
We have none of the others, although I've not checked in dr or helio.

I did just glimpse a few random charts I have to study --
There once was a Capricorn, I knew in my teens-twenties, who chased me but I was not interested -I see his Lucifer is conj my Venus (0). Maybe my Venus gave him the green light? Idk but I never felt anything more than frindship for him. His Lucifer might explain how he behaved obsessed with me. It was uncomfortable tbh.

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posted April 24, 2017 08:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlessedAreTheWarlike     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Do you watch for lilith as a bad one to??

Personally, I use Lilith in synastry. It would also depend on which lilith you watch for, since I've read up on four different ones.
I personally see Lilith as the representation of an "unhealthy obsession" and that the native of the asteroid would be the obsessor, and the planet person as the object of the Lilith's obsession. This is mainly for conjunctions though.
Anyone else have any thoughts on Lilith in relationships?

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posted April 26, 2017 09:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aqualilith09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My dejinara conjunct my bf's ic

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posted October 14, 2017 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mkya00     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any thoughts on:

Natal
Lucifer conj. Juno (scorpio)

Swindle/Lie conj. MC (scorpio) 9th house side

Sun/Lilith conj. MC (sag) 10th house side

I know the Sun diminishes Lilith's shadow, does the Sun also diminish the affects of Lie/Swindle on the MC?

Sun is less than 3 degrees from the Swindle/Lie on the other side of the MC.

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Mkya00
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posted October 23, 2017 01:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mkya00     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How about Tantalus and Swindle conjunct Juno in Capricorn (Natal), both less than 1 degree in 12th house?

This is not mine, happens to be my Twin Flame. I fear this means that marriage/partner is just out of reach. Specifically, her and I will never be together.

Or Chaos(r) conjunct Mars less than 1 degree synastry.

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posted October 25, 2017 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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