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Topic: "bad" asteroids to watch out for in relationships
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Despina Knowflake Posts: 45 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted June 10, 2012 09:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by BlackSeraph: Consider my case study-experience a cautionary tale.
You certainly seem to have had a hell of a lot of bad luck... The pattern of being betrayed by friends is unreal! I'd be curious to know whether you've pinpointed something in your natal chart that might predispose one to such mistreatment. I do think it would be erroneous to deny yourself a relationship based on a bad experience or two (okay, three). Are your venus/mars/pluto conjunct? That'd point to some serious passion which could make the right woman very very happy. We're not all teasing heart-breakers... Maybe you could play a little hard to get. Not in a game-playing way, per se, but so that the woman has a chance to demonstrate some loyalty before you put your heart on the line (consider the fact that it's so often so very effective an added bonus ;-).
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Oracle Knowflake Posts: 58 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 19, 2012 03:21 PM
Hi IQ:I have a quick question. But first how are you? My question is I have an empty 8th House in Capricorn, however, I have Circe, Merlin, Frigga, Poseidon, Telepathy in Capricorn in 8th I also have Hermes, Walpurga and Reiki, Valentine and Kleopatra in Aquarius in 8th. There are more asteroids in this house, but what do these mean? Absolutely no personal planets reside in this house. Any input you give is greatly appreciated. I use therefore, I am. --Capricorn legacy Rising Gemini Sun Capricorn Moon Aquarius Mercury Capricorn Venus Scorpio Mars Scorpio Jupiter Scorpio Vertex Scorpio IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8902 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 03:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Belage: I just read up on the myth of Sedna, and it's just a HORRIBLE story. Repeated betrayals by father and husband. Yuck!!!
I've met sedna, personally...lol she sets ontop my very abusive, sadistic step fathers name and dark moon lilith! They say with sedna, you are given the compassion of the universe to help you heal...and when given that compassion your asked to share it and help others to heal through that compassion.My taurus Sedna@3.39 opposed my scorpio uranus@4.44, square my leo saturn@2.50 she makes a fixed t-square she also touches my gemini mars@29.33, my cancer nessus@2.24 in 9th I met a guy once who's Ceres/Sun/Sedna was conjunct my Sedna...his Nessus/Mars conjunct my Ceres He was very nurturing and caring regarding what i'd been thru! He actually taught me to forgive myself for all the mistakes i'd made while being reactive because i was in pain...he got mad at me for judging myself. I'd never had someone get mad at me for being cruel to myself...he'd say if you cant forgive yourself...i dont want to talk to you...your too mean to yourself and it hurts me! LOL...i didn't care about myself but i cared about hurting him, so i tried to be nicer to myself for him! It worked, it changed how i treated myself and set me on a kinder path!
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Aeline Knowflake Posts: 1085 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 03:56 PM
I took only conjunctions/oppositions/squares in 2 degrees. Why exactly is Lust a bad asteroid? I have it conjunct exactly my Amor and Angel natally. With my past life/present life Love. His Dejanira opposite my Moon (1) His Lust square my Mercury (CR) EXACT His Lust square my Venus (1) His Lucifer conjunct my Mars (1) His Lust opposite my Neptune EXACT His Dejanira square my Pluto EXACT His Swindle conjunct my SN (1) What? I'll have to see that. His Nessus conjunct my Amor EXACT His Nessus conjunct my Angel EXACT His Nessus conjunct my Aphrodite (1) His Nessus conjunct my Lust EXACT His Nessus conjunct my Tantalus (1) ? My Karma square his Lucifer EXACT My Lie square his Venus (1) My Swindle conunct his ASC (1) o_O My Lucifer on his SN (2) My Nessus square his Lust (3 - wide, but though it's a dw, so i counted) So basically, the themes for us are Swindle and a lot of Nessus/Lust.
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Aeline Knowflake Posts: 1085 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 04:09 PM
I'm also fascinated about those past lives charts - mine and his which shows up the very same aspects yet i can't really believe such a coincidence!OMG! That time it was: HIS Lie square my Venus (now it's mine square his) HIS Lust conjunct my Nessus EXACT (now it's mine conjunct his EXACT) My Saturn on his IC EXACT (the exact same as now) His Nessus opposite my Amor EXACT His Nessus opposite my Lust AGAIN A DW OF THAT! His Dejanira conjunct my Amor EXACT His Dejanira conjunct my ASC EXACT His Nessus conjunct my DSC (1) His Lie opposite my Dejanira EXACT His Swindle square my Mars His Swindle opposite my Angel My Swindle opposite his Moon WEIRD WORLD! WEIRD! IP: Logged |
Aeline Knowflake Posts: 1085 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 04:11 PM
Now i know exactly why Nessus is so prominent in our present life synastry. Hell, it's conjunct NN in our past lives composite (and that's past life NN is 2 degrees apart from his present day NN!IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8902 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 04:24 PM
Do you watch for lilith as a bad one to??IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 994 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 20, 2014 05:23 AM
I'm in a relationship with this person and i have the following asteroids in synastry which worries me.:His Asteroid lie aspecting my planets: His Lie conjunct my MC/Amor(exact), opposite my IC(exact), square my venus(exact), trine my neptune (orb 1) His Asteroid swindle aspecting my planet:
His swindle sextile my moon(exact) My Asteroid lie only makes one aspect to his planets which is:
My lie widely conjuncts his swindle(orb 4) My Asteroid Swindle only makes one aspect to his planets which is:
My Swindle opposite his saturn (exact) I'm quite worried about his Lie as it aspects a lot of my personal planets.Does this mean he'll lie and decieve me in love(venus)?
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mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 8549 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted October 20, 2014 04:48 PM
Hi Aurora_girl... Don't be afraid to go ahead and have love, and like the someone that you are in-relationship with. Make sure the balance of powers stay even... Know each other as well as you can in every way, keep exploring the truth between yourselves as partners (and look honestly at every expectation and wish). The coming together of two people in partnership or relationship is a chance for fertile growing for your soul. What is being impressed into you now, by this person, may become a treasure stocked with important discoveries you make about your own self, and the uncovering your own preferences, likings and values. Each relationship that its own rewards. Can become a Precious jewel in your Life-experience Hope-box."Amor" is an empathic type asteroid (Demetra George & Dennis Bloch, Asteroid Goddesses bk, p.193). Represents 'A state of Loving'... Loving-kindness and Compassion. 'A loving-caring bond and deep affection that may exist' between individuals. You could be 'Swindling' yourself out of a chance to nurture your inner-self when you don't take a chance on Love (platonic, or spiritual). "Lie" (looking from a different perspective) could also mean the One you lie down with in your bed of intimacies... whether of body, mind, emotion-feeling, Soul, or spiritual ideals. Be clear (in yourself) 'why' you lay with this person. What is this about? Just sex? or Will he (she) be a fated-one on your journey... One who will Be there with you and for you, to know you in every possible way and form that there is to be Known. The bridge to your IC could indicate that this relationship could have a profound effect on your own self psychological-depths and deepest formation for your personal feeling of 'home' (what 'home' feels like to you) at your foundations. (You are still 'young' if born 1990, and your psychological bank of experiences seeks deposits to be made into it.) (Traditionally, you're not considered fully initiated into Society until you've experienced your first Saturn-Return ... I know, I know. I personally felt 'very ancient' at age 24, and I recall myself saying out-loud that I was ready to retire and tell my stories to grandchildren. .... Now I feel as though I have maybe lived at least 150 of those kinds of years by now ~ and still, I'm growing!) Aurora_Girl, You have an excellent tool on your side when you understand the astrology... Try not to be so worried...? You'll be able to make course-corrections and adjustments with more flexibility than others perhaps. Yes, Love can be Blind. And Love can cover a multitude of sins... Now, this could be a bad or good thing, depending on the dynamics and your abilities to resolve problems in 'working out' your relationships. Love out of balance can lead to deep wounds. And, 'woundings' are an inescapable part of Life... We're here to live it ALL out, fully. Living can hurt sometimes-- but you eventually can ALWAYS moves forward at some point if you don't give up!... (In cases of deliberate abuse, or undisciplined use of masculine power {in female OR male genders}, bluntly?~~ leave when you can... You can be friendly, and sometimes ultra-careful, but do extricate yourself from this if it is a situation you encounter. Your life is worthy! Choose to change your role. Learn this early in life. Emotional abuse COUNTS as well. Keep the Truth close to your inner-child self, the one who dreams the wedding and chooses to take care of herself by remaining where she is safe.) Sometimes the meeting and bonding between two souls can lead to mutual sublime healing and compassions that dilute a 'sea of wounds'... {{Gaby! That was a WONDERFUL story about SEDNA, and learning to apply self-compassion, 'allowing' your self to be Loved. WOW!}} Trining Neptune..., In its Higher form is a Higher spiritual soul-level perspective, or in its lower form can be lack of clarity on a ground level. (Hopefully not deceit, where people are evolved.) Can symbolize also a feeling of sense of defeat, or the helpless powerless feeling that result from victimizations: whether deliberate deceptions by others (whether via the-other, or self's subconscious collusion that would happen between idealistic dreaming of both... unless consciously kept acknowledged). That's why it's so important to learn what is true to 'both' of you. Okay, my Virgo Moon has WAY over-analyzed! ENOUGH-already! .... Please, have FUN!! ~~ Consider that It COULD result in something sooo very good for each other.... With lots of Love to you.... (music) The Glory of Love (Bette Midler, movie 'Beaches') [4:00] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KkjRYi5Vvb0 IP: Logged |
MermaidDreamz Knowflake Posts: 529 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted August 20, 2016 06:22 PM
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girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 1624 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted August 21, 2016 12:35 PM
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Lie 26955 Swindle 8690 (Thanks, IQ) Lucifer 1930 Lust 4386 Nessus 7066 Dejanira 157 Tantalus 2102[/B]
Wow thanks for sharing these! This thread blew my mind! I was once with a gemini guy who has Lie conjunct sun (exact), and lucifer conjunct mercury (exact). After we broke up I always remembered him as the devil himself. But I always thought this was because of his Scorpio ascendant that makes me think so. now I know! Another guy I dated has Lie exactly conjunct his moon/saturn. Surprisingly I couldn't believe a word he would say! I always thought he mostly lies to himself, and through this deceives others. I have natal Lucifer exactly conjunct my ascendant! I found this on Lucifer though, so fingers crossed I won't lose my light! : "In Latin Lucifer means also Bearer of Light, and see, that becomes the secret is that wherever we have our natal Lucifer is where we can be most severely influenced by evil, but the paradox is that within the symbol itself, is the Bearer of Light, which means it's where you can accelerate "your spiritual growth," to directly know God...through the very symbol itself - that's the paradox of Lucifer and the Bearer of Light." http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/000217.html ------------------ pisces moon taurus midheaven leo ascendant taurus sun cancer mars and venus
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BlessedAreTheWarlike Knowflake Posts: 28 From: United States Registered: Apr 2017
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posted April 24, 2017 05:29 PM
Ixxion(28978) - might want to watch your valuables with this person, they think they are above the law(especially with someone who has Ixxion in the 1st or conjunct ASc) correct me if I'm wrong.
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MoonMystic Knowflake Posts: 832 From: ♤ Ethereal Umbra ♤ Registered: Nov 2016
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posted April 24, 2017 07:48 PM
No idea if these are bad or potentially troublesome but my husband's Tantalus is (2) conj my sun and it's (0) sextile my AC. We have none of the others, although I've not checked in dr or helio.I did just glimpse a few random charts I have to study -- There once was a Capricorn, I knew in my teens-twenties, who chased me but I was not interested -I see his Lucifer is conj my Venus (0). Maybe my Venus gave him the green light? Idk but I never felt anything more than frindship for him. His Lucifer might explain how he behaved obsessed with me. It was uncomfortable tbh. IP: Logged |
BlessedAreTheWarlike Knowflake Posts: 28 From: United States Registered: Apr 2017
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posted April 24, 2017 08:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Do you watch for lilith as a bad one to??
Personally, I use Lilith in synastry. It would also depend on which lilith you watch for, since I've read up on four different ones. I personally see Lilith as the representation of an "unhealthy obsession" and that the native of the asteroid would be the obsessor, and the planet person as the object of the Lilith's obsession. This is mainly for conjunctions though. Anyone else have any thoughts on Lilith in relationships? IP: Logged |
Aqualilith09 Knowflake Posts: 168 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 26, 2017 09:13 PM
My dejinara conjunct my bf's ic IP: Logged |
Mkya00 Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Oct 2017
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posted October 14, 2017 06:26 PM
Any thoughts on:Natal Lucifer conj. Juno (scorpio) Swindle/Lie conj. MC (scorpio) 9th house side Sun/Lilith conj. MC (sag) 10th house side I know the Sun diminishes Lilith's shadow, does the Sun also diminish the affects of Lie/Swindle on the MC? Sun is less than 3 degrees from the Swindle/Lie on the other side of the MC. IP: Logged |
Mkya00 Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Oct 2017
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posted October 23, 2017 01:37 PM
How about Tantalus and Swindle conjunct Juno in Capricorn (Natal), both less than 1 degree in 12th house?This is not mine, happens to be my Twin Flame. I fear this means that marriage/partner is just out of reach. Specifically, her and I will never be together. Or Chaos(r) conjunct Mars less than 1 degree synastry. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 86990 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 25, 2017 02:33 PM
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