posted October 29, 2012 08:28 PM            

in the natal, the man has his own Nessus closely conjunct his Venus.

in the composite chart, Nessus is exactly opposite Dejanira.

posted October 30, 2012 08:40 AM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
What is suggested by a man's Nessus square the woman's Venus, and the woman's Nessus square the man's Moon and Saturn, all at very close degrees?

in the natal, the man has his own Nessus closely conjunct his Venus.

in the composite chart, Nessus is exactly opposite Dejanira.

is this an abusive relationship??

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posted October 30, 2012 09:18 AM            

My daughter's Nessus is tightly conjunct my sun.

What's that mean?

posted October 30, 2012 09:34 AM            

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posted October 30, 2012 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Can I ask another Nessus synastry question, while we're on the topic?

My daughter's Nessus is tightly conjunct my sun.

What's that mean?

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She loves you and want protect you.

My sons Nessus conj my Sun conj AC. He is not an abusive person at all. He is the most kindly person I know. Ive never felt me like an abused mother. I more felt he want protect me from what ever happends in my life...

posted October 30, 2012 08:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
To me, she will be abusive to you, Faith. I, always, call them as I see them. I could be wrong but I will never mince words or be politically correct. That is my commitment to everyone with whom I am in contact ---here or anywhere.

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Hmmm...I guess it takes two to tango, even with this.

She does overpower me sometimes (she has an 8H Scorpio sun.) I've said that since she was a baby- she is a force beyond my control.

posted October 30, 2012 09:21 PM            

I stand by my POV on this. Of course, I could be wrong as I am just a flawed person

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posted October 30, 2012 10:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
To me, she will be abusive to you, Faith. I, always, call them as I see them. I could be wrong but I will never mince words or be politically correct. That is my commitment to everyone with whom I am in contact ---here or anywhere.

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posted October 30, 2012 11:22 PM            

my nessus cancer@2.24 in my 9th house
my dejanira virgo@14 in 12th house

my daughter-
mars libra@5.38 in her 11th house
dejanira scorpio@4.34 in her 12th house(conjunct my uranus 0 degree)
nessus saggy@14.11 in her 2nd house--(trine my jupiter 0 degree 7th house, square my dejanira 12th house- 0 degree)

my son's-
sun pisces@3.15
venus aries@0.35
jupiter aries@2.04 on his IC(conjunct my 6th house lilith 0 degree)
dejanira 3rd house pisces@1.09
nessus cap@0.05 in his 1st house(opposed my 9th house mars 0 degree and my nessus 2 degree)

posted October 30, 2012 11:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Hmmm...I guess it takes two to tango, even with this.

She does overpower me sometimes (she has an 8H Scorpio sun.) I've said that since she was a baby- she is a force beyond my control.

But I love her and will just do my best for both our sakes.

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posted October 31, 2012 05:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Well, Faith
Good and decent people can disagree, such as Popcorn( whom I adore) and myself.
I hear what Popcorn is saying, but I need to go from my own personal experience( and my chart experience) as I can only speak from my own belly button.

I stand by my POV on this. Of course, I could be wrong as I am just a flawed person

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AMI. I also hear what you said but everything have more than one side. I not mean you have wrong but there is a good side of nessus also. The life is not just black and white... my experience are different. My sons childhoods friend, all of those boys also had their nessus in conj to my Sun conj AC. Those boys or his friends had been in my house so often and on many year...

One of my friends has an pitbull...That dog is so kindly and cute. I really love that dog. She will never do something bad to anyone. That dog has been rised up in a good family and are not sick either and the personality of this dog is amazing.

You could get this dog dangerous if you not handle right from start because the genetic.. Thats also exactly the same with astrology and people ...You got the code but its what you done, which are so important.

Why trigg out bad trait when everything have an positive side.

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posted October 31, 2012 09:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I think i remember seeing a site discussing the positive side of Nessus....redemption of sorts, if is anyone is familiar with that site, would share the link, please?

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We, all, have a Nessus. It is hard to touch that part of ourselves. We must when someone triggers it, in synastry.

Usually, there will be a passion like no other. This passion does not turn into soul mate, in my experience of doing the charts.

It is "too hot not to cool down" You are obsessed. You are delirious

You can come face to face with yourself, in a profound way. You can transform. So, Nessus can be like a laser beam on one's abuse.
Is this positive? YES imho

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posted February 09, 2013 04:38 PM            

Nessus in ASC (Cancer) Squaring someone's Moon in House 9 (Scorpio)?

... or anyone that has some good knowledge about it. :3

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posted November 17, 2013 05:43 PM            

His Nessus conjuncts my descendant exact.

Does anyone know how this would this manifest?

posted November 23, 2013 03:39 AM            

Nessus square Venus is mostly obsessiveness.

Nessus square Dejanira, that is most likely to manifest as sexual abuse.

In Parent Child relationships, Nessus from the child will make the child more and more aware of how the parent was abused. This will lead to to two things:
1. If the child is good, like Popcorns's, more protectiveness.
2. If the child is wicked, there will be clever exploitation of the parent, with emotional abuse to get the job done.

Man's Nessus conjunct Lady's Descendant in Synastry is a little risky as the Man will have a tendency to develop a rape fantasy during sex. If the other aspects are positive, then this will not manifest physically, it will start and stop in his head. What a lady does not know inside a man's head will not hurt her. It is the actions that matter when it comes to Nessus.

Always look for retrograde planets in charts with Nessus Afflictions. The most dangerous is a combo of Mars and Saturn or Neptune Retrograde. These men are most likely to become abusive criminals or sociopathic Con Men. Afflicted Pisces Moon in men with Nessus afflictions can be very dangerous too, for the man as well as his partner.

Otherwise, just one bad Nessus aspect is not
a big deal.

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posted October 28, 2014 12:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Dave:
Can anyone comment on Nessus conjunct Nessus in synastry? I'm talking to a woman online who is really into me. She's lovely. But then I saw this. She is not looking for a relationship......

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posted October 28, 2014 12:34 AM            

First is a very literal translation of this asteroid. She was raped by a young man in college. She woke up to him raping her. She took this experience & is now very focus on women's rights, rape culture, etc. she is currently wrapping up higher ed with a goal is to counsel women who have been raped or sexually abused.

However! She sees everything as abuse. Everything. It's as if she is obsessed with abuse, especially rape. I can't have a conversation with her at times, without her turning my words into some kind of weird abusive thing, where I'm having to stop and say "sweetie, no I was not a victim here, I'm not even talking about an abusive situation!"

When I first met her, she told me the whole story of her rape & how sexual abuse runs in her family. I thought this was strange to tell someone upon meeting them but I have that effect on people. A few months later I introduced her to a friend of mine, within 2 hours she was doing the same "abuse story" thing. Like this is something she does to gain a sense of notoriety. It's super weird.