posted March 22, 2014 11:59 PM            

I don't know if being a guy makes a difference or not, but I don't have anything against my mom, and I get along really well with her, better than her and my dad do actually. She's a Leo with a Gemini Moon. I am detached from her in that I don't tell her everything about me. But she shares a lot with me. And the Aquarian in me actually LIKES that she treats me as a friend. I don't like to be considered much less than equal in almost any relationship, and this one is included.

That said, there is affection between both of us, and when she needs to, she can definitely play the role of the mother.

I have nothing against earth mothers. In fact, I like them as long as there's more to them than just that side, and there often is. I'd consider my mom an "earth mom," but she has a good job as well and a lot of friends and different interests that give her a lot more complexity than just being a caring mom who cooks.

My relationships with female friends aren't uneasy but definitely lukewarm. And I know that I'm the one responsible. I've actually started opening up a little to some of them.

My disposition is not at all child unfriendly. I don't go completely nuts over a child, but I can definitely bond with and/or have fun with them. The older they are, the better they tend to get along with me. Most don't really like it when you get in their faces or treat them as children, or at least I didn't when I was a kid, so I don't do it to kids, and they really seem to like that I treat them that way.

Going back to the OP, my mom's mood can sometimes be inconsistent, but she's never been anywhere close to absent. She's always been there, and always been strong when she's needed to be. My childhood was different, but it was more because of circumstances than because of either of my parents.

In loving relationships, they can desperately attach themselves to a romantic partner and then all at once, pull away. The heart is not predictable with Moon-Uranus. It has lovable quirks, and often appreciates and accepts the faults and unusual attributes of others.

This, however, is true. If I love you, you are the most important thing in the universe to me, and then, all of a sudden, you aren't. I wish it weren't true, but it is. And I can't really control that about myself.
On the bright side, I am very accepting of quirks and imperfections and actually tend to be drawn to quirks. Anything that makes one unique is something that tends to attract me. And I love all of the things that make me unique.

My emotional nature isn't difficult to understand as much as it is difficult to accept. If you can keep Uranus interested, the Moon will die for you. If you can't, it won't be quite as compassionate.

I've read that those with this aspect are often very good friends with their mothers, and as a result may hear things "too adult" for them, which will cause them to grow up faster than they should. That is my case. My parents have let me know almost everything since I was very young. I've personally always loved knowing all of this because it's made me a more mature person.

posted May 03, 2014 07:56 PM            

It seems to me my biggest issues with my mother were more about her saturn on my sun...she was big on self-discipline and i was an improvisationalist lol.

While saturn co-rules aquarius, it doesn't co-rule uranus...

I think i upset my mother with my uranian ways more than she upset me. On the whole we had a good relationship and we could always talk ideas even in my rebellious youth-days, because she was always ahead of her time and openminded about most things.

posted May 03, 2014 08:07 PM            

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Originally posted by KingofCups:
I have Moon Conjunct Uranus in Aquarius in the 5th House. I moved a lot when I was little, going through 5 homes in the first 7 years of my life. But I haven't moved since. And I've actually grown quite attached to the home I live in now. My parents are thinking about moving at some point in the next few years again, but I actually don't want to because I think of my home as home. Moving so much early in my life has made me relatively flexible in relation to where I live, but it's also made me hate the process of moving and having to start over. So, as far as liking to move and Moon-Uranus goes, I don't know how true that is.

I don't know if being a guy makes a difference or not, but I don't have anything against my mom, and I get along really well with her, better than her and my dad do actually. She's a Leo with a Gemini Moon. I am detached from her in that I don't tell her everything about me. But she shares a lot with me. And the Aquarian in me actually LIKES that she treats me as a friend. I don't like to be considered much less than equal in almost any relationship, and this one is included.

That said, there is affection between both of us, and when she needs to, she can definitely play the role of the mother.

I have nothing against earth mothers. In fact, I like them as long as there's more to them than just that side, and there often is. I'd consider my mom an "earth mom," but she has a good job as well and a lot of friends and different interests that give her a lot more complexity than just being a caring mom who cooks.

My relationships with female friends aren't uneasy but definitely lukewarm. And I know that I'm the one responsible. I've actually started opening up a little to some of them.

My disposition is not at all child unfriendly. I don't go completely nuts over a child, but I can definitely bond with and/or have fun with them. The older they are, the better they tend to get along with me. Most don't really like it when you get in their faces or treat them as children, or at least I didn't when I was a kid, so I don't do it to kids, and they really seem to like that I treat them that way.

Going back to the OP, my mom's mood can sometimes be inconsistent, but she's never been anywhere close to absent. She's always been there, and always been strong when she's needed to be. My childhood was different, but it was more because of circumstances than because of either of my parents.

[b]In loving relationships, they can desperately attach themselves to a romantic partner and then all at once, pull away. The heart is not predictable with Moon-Uranus. It has lovable quirks, and often appreciates and accepts the faults and unusual attributes of others.

This, however, is true. If I love you, you are the most important thing in the universe to me, and then, all of a sudden, you aren't. I wish it weren't true, but it is. And I can't really control that about myself.
On the bright side, I am very accepting of quirks and imperfections and actually tend to be drawn to quirks. Anything that makes one unique is something that tends to attract me. And I love all of the things that make me unique.

My emotional nature isn't difficult to understand as much as it is difficult to accept. If you can keep Uranus interested, the Moon will die for you. If you can't, it won't be quite as compassionate.

I've read that those with this aspect are often very good friends with their mothers, and as a result may hear things "too adult" for them, which will cause them to grow up faster than they should. That is my case. My parents have let me know almost everything since I was very young. I've personally always loved knowing all of this because it's made me a more mature person.

I really feel like it depends on the type of aspect and the other aspects made to Uranus and the Moon. For example, my Conjunction is part of a Stellium, so Jupiter and Venus especially have a huge impact on this. Perhaps I was lucky with this aspect because of the Jupiter. [/B]

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You also have the Vertex right there.

posted May 03, 2014 08:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Catalina:
I have moon trine uranus ...uranus is in h5 ... My mother was an orphan and worked extra hard to be a good mom. As a mother myself i was close and devoted to my child but i couldn't do the housewife thing. My daughter is also moon trine uranus. She is an excellent housekeeper and devoted mother.

It seems to me my biggest issues with my mother were more about her saturn on my sun...she was big on self-discipline and i was an improvisationalist lol.

While saturn co-rules aquarius, it doesn't co-rule uranus...

I think i upset my mother with my uranian ways more than she upset me. On the whole we had a good relationship and we could always talk ideas even in my rebellious youth-days, because she was always ahead of her time and openminded about most things.

I get along with women, don't care for earth mothers much, and would say the strongest effect i notice is i never give my power away in relationships, no matter how close i am still me.

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I've got the Square, and boy oh boy...

posted May 03, 2014 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
You also have the Vertex right there.

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posted May 03, 2014 10:25 PM            

Here are a couple of things I've collected. the first has a good post about halfway down.

About yours:

Gosh, it's really close, only nine minutes away.

The only other person I remember with that right off hand is YTA's son.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/212995.html

His Mother has been Very Integral to his life.

I think it is Conjunct Ami's Moon as well.

posted May 04, 2014 07:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/225647.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/vertexsignshousesaspects.html

Here are a couple of things I've collected. the first has a good post about halfway down.

About yours:

Gosh, it's really close, only nine minutes away.

The only other person I remember with that right off hand is YTA's son.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/212995.html

His Mother has been Very Integral to his life.

I think it is Conjunct Ami's Moon as well.

You have so very many things there that it boggles the mind.

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Thank you for the links. The first two helped me with understanding my Vertex aspects.
That third link though...wow. That was all I could say after reading the OP. Just wow. I completely forgot that it had anything to do with Astrology. I got to the end, and I was just amazed by Mitchell and by how amazingly he's handling his disease and grateful for the way my life is right now...
YTA's post at the top of the second page was even more touching. I literally almost cried after reading that post.
"To explain, has anyone seen two cobras mating? Especially King Cobras. Cobras are lethal, even to each other. Cobras go into an intricate dance when mating and exhibit most loving behavior. That's my wife and I. We would crush anyone else without thought, but we've solemnly vowed to defend each other and work as a team."
He has earned my respect a 100 times over just in that one thread. That was truly one of the most inspirational things I have ever read. Thank you so much for posting it. And I really hope that he and his family are doing wonderfully.

Coming back to my Vx and Moon being really close (and having a hard time doing it), my mom has had a pretty good impact in my life. Both my parents have been pretty great. It isn't as drastic as Mitchell's case though (thank God). The interpretations on the first two links were relatively accurate.

And yes, I have a TON of things there. Here's an image that includes everything major that I've seen in that Stellium: [IMG]http://i888.photobucket.com/albums/ac87/Morningsun52113/f ee65860-32a4-43eb-98ce-7c374fa37a8c_zpsc4d7446b.gif[/IMG]

That part of my chart is really interesting for me. It's really complex, but I think it explains my thought processes in a very complete way. The Stellium connects to everything in my chart too, except the Sun.

posted May 09, 2014 09:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Catalina:
I hear you, Ellyn, that was a factor in most of my life, as a child and as an adult, though home was always a haven, it changed fairly frequently. I found, asas I got older, though, that thendifferent homes helped me identify dates of memories...first house was till I was two, second till age 5, etc.My mother was Irish and just wanted to plant roots but my dad, and in one case a fire! Made that impossible. After his death she only moved once in 30 years.

When my daughter was young I dug in For 12 1/2
years just for continuity! Then we moved halfway
around the world and the longest I've stayed in place
was 7 yrs since then

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Seven Blessed Years...

I've lost count of the Flowers I have left behind.

Well, I guess I am doing the world a Service...

posted June 05, 2014 08:11 AM            

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posted June 06, 2014 12:25 PM              

>:D<

My Moon is 18 cap 42'49''
Neptune is 18 cap 42'56''
Uranus is 17 cap 17'40'38''
methinks these are pretty tight :D

So my weird love/out of love behaviour has an astro reason :D

posted June 06, 2014 01:06 PM            

Moon, Neptune, Uranus, that close would be very hard.

I bet you get lost in dream worlds due to the Neptune but the Uranus may be even harder because I bet it makes it hard for you to commit and also, you may feel a sense that you can't slow down but are always racing.

In what House are these?

Your mother may have been absent or erratic, as well, with the Uranus/Moon conj.

Do these things fit

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posted June 06, 2014 01:20 PM              

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Star, Thank you. I need LOTS of hugs :D

Moon, Neptune, Uranus, that close would be very hard.

I bet you get lost in dream worlds due to the Neptune but the Uranus may be even harder because I bet it makes it hard for you to commit and also, you may feel a sense that you can't slow down but are always racing.

In what House are these?

Your mother may have been absent or erratic, as well, with the Uranus/Moon conj.

Do these things fit :bheart:

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Than I can give lots more >:D< >:D< >:D<
Yes, they are hard..they are in my first house :D I have a packed 1st house,-saturn is there too, but does not conjunct them, or the asc, only- semi-sextiles moon,nept and uranus. that;s why I use so many "I";s - but I am aware of that tendency and try to stop it.

My mom was absent in my earlier years, as in she worked a lot for me, she is a single mom, bcz father died. She has a moon in capricorn the same as I do.- and my grandma is a gemini sun, as me.
I cannot say she is erratic, but I missed her as in telling me storries or tuck me into bed. Female neighbours took care while I was little. Moon in cappy is really the sign with the least affection in childhood. ( I only had mother. The rest of the relatives were and still are, on the other side of the country)

It's crazy restless esp with the mind. My 00'04 gem sun ADS a lot to that. and mercury opp pluto too...and many more...my mind never shuts up..that;s why I try to relax through music. But than I get bored. I day-dream a lot. "luckyly" - capy ascendant puts me to work, otherwise- erratic would be my personality's motto
In relationships is true...I love so much a person, but I AM AFRAID to be come with strings attached. The things u said, resonate :)

posted September 29, 2014 05:07 PM            

*My mom was absent in my earlier years, as she had to work a lot.

I had to learn to take care of myself since I was 6.

I saw my mother like a friend(Uranus) and a great teacher(Sag).

posted October 01, 2014 02:18 AM            

I was a military brat, and moved around so I love moving all around the world, and I can't stay in one place for more than 2 years.