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Topic: ASTROLOGY: Synastry Simplified
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Lunae Knowflake Posts: 224 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 13, 2013 07:48 AM
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 13, 2013 03:22 PM
I saw your bump. Do that, as I need to see which threads people are writing on, so I can look. I will look at your Comp------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 13, 2013 03:24 PM
Lunae dear Could you put the Comp up with no asteroids. It is too crowded for me to get a basic feel. Thank you, Sweetie. I will keep checking back. The asteroids come later, but muddle the picture, on the first look ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 13, 2013 03:34 PM
The synastry I can look at with asteroids, as I am better at the synastry. Lets see what is there.------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 13, 2013 03:35 PM
Lunae is his time right? For the mo, I will not look at things that have to do with time, until I hear from you.------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 13, 2013 03:37 PM
One person brings Saturn to the others. NN. This may be a really hard feeling like having a stern parent riding you.The other person's Saturn conjuncts Lilith. I see the Saturn really cooling the primal passions of the other. ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 13, 2013 03:41 PM
Lunae My take on this synastry is that within a short period of time, you will be fighting. It may start with picky little things until it feels annoying to be with him. Then, I think you will feel very stifled by him. The stifling feeling may come later. First, I think there will be picky fights. I think you will feel that eh does not "get" you. In a rather short time, I think it will end. That is one man's honest opinion. ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 13, 2013 03:42 PM
Sometimes, the synastry is bad and the Comp is good. Let me see a Comp without all the asteroids and I will see what i can see ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 13, 2013 03:57 PM
His Moon squares your Saturn. Your Moon does not touch much of anything with him. In a short time, you will feel as if you are not connected imho------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 13, 2013 03:59 PM
Astro Keen I will look at yours.------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 13, 2013 04:03 PM
Astro Keen This could be a good connection. Moons are tops, tops, tops, for me! You will understand each other and that is the basis for everything. He makes you feel wonderful like you are walking on air.You will bring him beauty and love and I bet he kind of worships you. You have a hard time accepting love. You think you are not worthy of it. This is in your own chart and he may trigger it, at times, but you are someone who struggles with this, so if he triggers it, it will not be as bad as if you never had it. IOW, if he gets parental on you, you will not take it as hard as someone who does not have this Saturn conj Venus, if that makes sense. It looks like a nice relationship to me! ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 13, 2013 04:57 PM
Thank you so much Ami Anne. Yes, I do have huge issues with self-esteem and wonder what it is that he sees in me. Also keep expecting that he will soon get bored or look elsewhere. How self-defeating is that!! It has helped a great deal to get positive advice from this forum. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 13, 2013 05:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by Astro keen: Thank you so much Ami Anne. Yes, I do have huge issues with self-esteem and wonder what it is that he sees in me. Also keep expecting that he will soon get bored or look elsewhere. How self-defeating is that!! It has helped a great deal to get positive advice from this forum.
Well, one thing good you have in the synastry is that when HIS Saturn hits you, yours already does. This may sound bad, but it is not, really, as you are "used" to a Saturn kind of feeling, as you have to live with it, so your synastry would work for you and him , unlike someone else to whom Saturn hitting her would be too jarring. Do you know what I mean?------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 13, 2013 05:40 PM
What Saturn hits, it makes painful and a huge struggle to try to get away from the dour, down feeling of Saturn. You have Venus, your planet of love, conj Saturn. Knowing it may help, but one's pain in the chart does not seem to change imoWe have to accept the struggles, I think, and learn to live with them, and not blame ourselves In turn, we have good points. Let me see some strengths I see. Do you have your own natal, with asteroids. We got look at some strengths too ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 13, 2013 05:47 PM
Yes, I now understand what you mean by familairity with Saturn. Good to hear it would pose less of a problem when relating to another .I will post my natal in a few secs. You are so helpful! IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 13, 2013 05:54 PM
My natal with a few useful asteroids - hopefully. IP: Logged |
Lunae Knowflake Posts: 224 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 14, 2013 06:01 AM
Ami Anne, thanks for taling your time for this! I can't quote your posts coz I'm using my phone right now so I'll put everything here. First off, here's the comp chart without the asteroids XD I left the vertex there, though. Continuing on.. Now that I think of it, I kind of feel like he's emotionally detatched somewhere. I enjoy being with him but as you said, maybe it will frustrate me in the long run that he can't be as emotionally intense as I am. But if we're not meant to be in a romantic relationship, are those aspects good for a a long lasting friendship? Saturn conjunct NN- this still perplexes me as to how I'm going to be a parent figure to him XD I'm too childlike to become a parent figure XD This aspect always leaves me thinking, isnt it the other way around? XD Saturn conjunct lilith- well, he's not the kind to get intimate easily. He's emotionally detatched (though I think that he had a burning passion inside) and he's a bit conservative with regards to intimacy. I'm much more open, though I think my Saturn in Aqua puts a restriction to my wild side XD Not only the moon is making hard aspects to Saturn.. my venus also is squaring his uranus and neptune :/ I've heard a lot of times that it's not a good aspect to have in synastry. Is it true that the venus person always takes the hard hit from these squares? About his birth time, it's only the estimated TOB. He couldn't remember thr exact time teehee XD *crosses fingers* I hope the comp is good!
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 14, 2013 08:24 AM
Very Good. I will be back, Sweetie!------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Lunae Knowflake Posts: 224 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 16, 2013 07:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Very Good. I will be back, Sweetie!
I'll be here waiting
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 16, 2013 11:48 AM
Ok Just saw this. Sorry for the delay. I have to go out for a bit, but will look ahen I get back. YES, the Yod in Comp is big. It is a great sign!------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 16, 2013 06:28 PM
Ok Lets see what the Comp says.That is not really a Yod, if I am seeing right. A yod is 2 quincunx and a sextile as the base. I will try to write a paragraph about the relationship ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 16, 2013 06:33 PM
Ok, I feel there will be great attraction and romance. I feel it will be very hard to "do" the relationship in your day to day life. Your careers/society will seem to be against it. You will feel that your purpose, as a couple, does not seem to fit with general society or your careers. Do you have anything that is "socially taboo" like a big age difference, racial difference etc etcIt will be very hard to communicate, although you will try. With all the squares to your ASC, i feel the relationship will feel very burdensome, as if it won't work in every day life,where people live. I would keep it as a romance, but not progress to marriage( or living together) ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 16, 2013 06:41 PM
I will write a paragraph and you tell me what you think.You are extroverted when one meets you. You like to be the life of the party, even. You have a lot of leadership feeling about you and a feeling of authority. You want to have a partner, very badly i.e. the real deal but your force of personality may seem like it gets in the way. maybe, you don't want to "lose control" You may feel like you have a diffuse identity,at the same time that you like to be "very strong". I bet this is an issue
You are super, super outspoken and say what is on your mind. This could be something you like or don't, but it is part of you. I like this, myself. It is one of my fave aspects cuz you know where you stand with a person. One of your life goals is to let loose, be creative and have fun and a sense of adventure.
------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Lunae Knowflake Posts: 224 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 17, 2013 05:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Ok, I feel there will be great attraction and romance. I feel it will be very hard to "do" the relationship in your day to day life. Your careers/society will seem to be against it. You will feel that your purpose, as a couple, does not seem to fit with general society or your careers. Do you have anything that is "socially taboo" like a big age difference, racial difference etc etcIt will be very hard to communicate, although you will try. With all the squares to your ASC, i feel the relationship will feel very burdensome, as if it won't work in every day life,where people live. I would keep it as a romance, but not progress to marriage( or living together)
Thank you, Ami! This made me realize that I must move on XD I didn't mind those squares to the ascendant at first but now that you've mentioned it, it really makes sense why despite the attraction, fate never really seems to.be cooperative. I think this rings true, especially right now that we are both busy with our respective careers. We don't even get to see each other often. There isn't anything socially taboo about us, only that maybe our public lives are on a totally different sphere. However, Ami.. I've got something taboo here that you might want to see, if you don't mind checking it out. Please tell me everything that you think of it, good or bad. I'd be forever grateful to you! http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/005571.html IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39619 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 17, 2013 11:01 AM
OK Lunae. i will look. I am glad you came to a peace about it. That is very cool!------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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