posted April 29, 2014 04:29 PM            

Synastry is the combining of two natal charts to see the bare bones of any relationship. The synastry chart has the man’s natal on the outside and the woman’s natal chart on the inside. I will list some easy things you can look for to find some powerful information.

1.The Moons–The moon is the deepest heart of any person. A man will show his moon to few people: a child, a lover and God. The man’s moon must touch the woman’s in a harmonious way for there to be a soul to soul relationship. For the absolute beginner, the blue lines are the harmonious aspects. The harmonious aspects are the trines and sextiles. With harmonious aspects, there is an easy, comfortable, safe feeling and relaxed flow between the two planets. One needs this to feel as if the person is one’s best friend. Moon conjunct Moon would be very powerful.The conjunction is one planet on top of another. With some planets, the conjunct is harmonious. With others, it is not. With the moon, the conjunction is harmonious!

2. Attraction aspects–There has to be some attraction or no one would enter into a romantic relationship. With attraction, we have several things at which to look, as there are several TYPES of attraction.I will try to address a few of them.

A. Venus trine, sextile or conjunct Venus–this is not a sexual attraction. This is an aesthethic attraction such as my liking opera and your liking rap. It could be likened to my liking hot spicy food and your liking bland. It is a liking of the person’s “way”, if you understand what I mean.It is an appreciating the beauty of that person. To put it simply, it is whether or not that person APPEALS to you. Trines and sextiles are blue lines, as I said. If you have blue lines touching your mutual Venus’, you will appeal to each other. Venus conjunct Venus is a harmonious aspect. If you have red lines, you will not have an easy appeal to each other. Red lines are squares and oppositions. If you have red lines, one may like the opera and the other may like rap blasting. One may like museums and the other may like baseball. Squares and oppositions to the Venus’ do not mark the end of the relationship or the beginning. They simply show that what is pleasing to each person is different.

Venus can also be one’s values.If the Venus’ are in harmonious, there will be a similarity in values. Each person may value family. As such, they would put family, first, as a couple. If the Venus’ are squared, one may like night life at the clubs and the other may like staying home with a movie. In a relationship, this may cause problems as the value systems may collide. Again, Venus in aspect to Venus is not a sexual aspect, per se.

B. Venus trine, sextile or conjunct Pluto . When Pluto touches anything, he puts a nuclear power on it. Venus is a gentle planet with refined sensibilities. Pluto takes her as Rhett Butler with Scarlett O’Hara in the famous scene when he carries her up the stairs to the bedroom. The Pluto in the relationship will be the primal tiger. The Venus will be the recipient. Conversely, Venus square Pluto may be passion of the War of the Roses sort. It may be wonderful at the beginning but may be too contentious to last, long term.

C. Moon trine, sextile or conjunct Pluto When the planet of the deepest heart, the moon, touches the planet of primal nuclear power, we have one of the most intense relationships of the Zodiac. This is the “it aspect” in synastry. It has great tenderness, great understanding and the passion of the ocean’s tides.

D. Mars trine, sextile or conjunct Venus When the planet of drive(Mars) touches the planet of beauty(Venus), we have attraction . This attraction may not last.It is simply attraction. Soul mate love and longevity of the relationship are not a factor in pure attraction which is Mars/Venus. They are something else, altogether.

E. Uranus attraction. Uranus is electricity which includes electrical shock. You know the lightning bolt that hits you when you fall in love? Think Uranus. However, Uranus, itself, has no sustaining power. Uranus in trines and sextiles would be electricity that you could incorporate into the relationship rather than electricity that would be too intense such that it would set your hair on fire and send you running. The conjunction for Uranus is not harmonious. It is usually too intense. The hard aspects with Uranus are usually too electrical, in that they are too uprooting and unstable for relationship longevity. However, you will have fun while they last. We are talking “walking on a high wire” fun.

3. Stability Aspects–Saturn provides stability but it has a flip side. Just enough and rightly placed Saturn makes for stability. Too much and wrongly placed Saturn make for misery. Let me try to explain, briefly. Saturn is glue. glue works wonders in the right places and at the right times. In the wrong places and at the wrong times, you could find your head glued to your pants. Now, THAT would not be good, would it? Lets talk specifics. Saturn in harmonious aspect with Saturn feels like a comfortable glue. The people will feel stable, as if they can stay together, no matter what. However, when we get Saturn in hard aspect to itself, we may have the worst parts of each person vying for top dog. We may have a teacher/teacher relationship with no pupil. Saturn in hard aspect to Venus may make love cold. Saturn cools what it touches. Saturn in hard aspect to Mars may shut down the drive of the other. Saturn in hard aspect to mercury may criticize the mind of the other. Saturn in hard aspect to the moon may criticize the gentle heart of the other.

4 . House Overlays This is an easy way to see what sphere of life you bring to him and vice-versa. One can do House Overlays in a number of ways. You can take any of your planets and see WHICH of his houses it goes into. You bring your planet TO him. You touch him in the domain/sphere of that house. Let me give a few examples. If your Sun overlays to his first house, you will bring him confidence, as his first house is himself. If your Sun overlays to his 7th house, he may think of you as a serious marriage partner. If your Sun overlays his 8th house, you may open up deep passion and/or open up deep emotions in him. If your Sun overlays his 9th house, you may bring intellectual qualities to him and you may relate strongly, in the area of the intellect. In this case, you would not be triggering a romantic interest in you, but an intellectual one. This is based on this one aspect, alone. The chart is made up of thousands of such aspects. The Master Astrologer can put them altogether. This mastery in blending is what separates the levels in Astrology from student to Master, and all the levels in between.

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posted April 29, 2014 04:44 PM            

The NN in synastry is another. It has had over 3000 views.

I am humbled and honored by this. I hope you like this one which is very popular too.

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posted April 29, 2014 10:00 PM            

A good friend of mine and I have venus conjunct venus (and mars conjunct mars), but everything else is different. I never have to wonder if he has picked the right food or activity to do.

Pluto venus and mars venus synastry is fun

I like Saturn aspects too. I've learned to respect the hard ones as well. But it still makes me nervous when I see I'm the Saturn person. Lol.

posted April 30, 2014 07:10 AM            

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Originally posted by sag_stellium:
Thanks, Ami! I've experienced many of the aspects you've mentioned and yes, it happens quite like that!

A good friend of mine and I have venus conjunct venus (and mars conjunct mars), but everything else is different. I never have to wonder if he has picked the right food or activity to do.

Pluto venus and mars venus synastry is fun

I like Saturn aspects too. I've learned to respect the hard ones as well. But it still makes me nervous when I see I'm the Saturn person. Lol.

What about Pluto square/opposite moon? What type of energy/vibe does that carry?

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Hi Sag. Thanks for weighing in

One of my fave aspects is Moon/Pluto. The conjunction and trine makes for the most passionate love there is. It is great tenderness with great passion. I will put up one of my articles.

The opposition may make a sexy fighting aspect where there is that kind of "violent" sexuality, not in terms of actual violence but that kind of passion.

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posted April 30, 2014 07:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

Hi Sag. Thanks for weighing in

One of my fave aspects is Moon/Pluto. The conjunction and trine makes for the most passionate love there is. It is great tenderness with great passion. I will put up one of my articles.

The opposition may make a sexy fighting aspect where there is that kind of "violent" sexuality, not in terms of actual violence but that kind of passion.

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Nice article, as usual, Ami.

My x husband and I have Moon square Pluto, DW.

We rarely fought. Even in breaking up we just sort of sat down and said "I think this has run it's course". "Yup. I think you are right".

When people write "doesn't make for a lasting relationship", I never quite understand what that means. Like, it won't last a week, month, year, 10 years? Or it won't last "forever and ever"?

posted April 30, 2014 08:19 AM            

The square is it's own thing. I don't think a square can ever be broken in terms of getting it to open up but I think you can work around it, so Moon/Pluto in square would be a lot of locked up feeling that people could not access imo

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posted April 30, 2014 07:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Hi Lucie and thank you for your kind words

The square is it's own thing. I don't think a square can ever be broken in terms of getting it to open up but I think you can work around it, so Moon/Pluto in square would be a lot of locked up feeling that people could not access imo

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Actually, now that YOU write it (lol) I remember I have it in my natal and my mother has it too. It's probably and an energy I just am used to.

Thanks for your articles! They always help me see something new.

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posted May 01, 2014 03:24 PM              

Could you say what a Moon overlay might mean. His Moon in my 7th and my Moon in his 4th house.

Any key things about the Angles would be very helpful, such as the other's planets touching the ASC or DSC.

While all of this info is out some where on the net, it is how you put it which makes it meaningful and memorable.

posted May 02, 2014 12:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Hi Ami Anne,

Could you say what a Moon overlay might mean. His Moon in my 7th and my Moon in his 4th house.

Any key things about the Angles would be very helpful, such as the other's planets touching the ASC or DSC.

While all of this info is out some where on the net, it is how you put it which makes it meaningful and memorable.

Thank you.

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I hear you about trying to make a wealth of info practical.

Angles are very personal, like your underwear, not to be silly, but to show how personal they are.

When someone touches them, they touch you in a deep place.

His Moon in your 7th shows he thinks of you as a partner.

Yours in his 4th makes you feel homey to him.

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posted May 02, 2014 04:40 PM              

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I hear you about trying to make a wealth of info practical.

Angles are very personal, like your underwear, not to be silly, but to show how personal they are.

When someone touches them, they touch you in a deep place.

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Thanks Ami. "Angles are very personal, like your underwear" will certainly stick in my mind .

His MOON in my 7th also sits on my DSC - would that mean that I need his emotional responses deeply and acutely?

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posted May 02, 2014 06:55 PM            

How do you treat semi squares and semi sextile for those you mentioned? Like saturn semi sextile saturn or saturn semi square moon?

Also, what degree do you consider too wide to be relevant in synastry?

Finally, what would you think of bringing chiron into 5th double w? I've been trying to get a clear answer.

posted May 07, 2014 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

1.The Moons–The moon is the deepest heart of any person. A man will show his moon to few people: a child, a lover and God.

Conversely, Venus square Pluto may be passion of the War of the Roses sort. It may be wonderful at the beginning but may be too contentious to last, long term.

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Ami,

I LOVE that line about the moon!! That explains when moons are conjunct you feel like they are in your head, and that emotional connection and your are up together and down together.

Also, do you think a man's moon, conjunct a woman's asc is a strong indicator of attraction? I rarely see that mentioned in books....so much focus on the Desc.

I happened upon an astrologer's video YouTube, and he had the oppostie to say about venus pluto. A lot of people blame pluto, but pluto is generational planet as well. I've always though Venus was attracted to the allure of pluto. This astrologer says as far as planets after jupiter, the personal planets have the issue to deal with....what do you think about this theory?

I will find the video link again and post it.....let me search...

posted May 07, 2014 11:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Cuteleo85:
Thank you for this article! Super interesting; especially since I've been trying to study composite and synastry charts lately.

How do you treat semi squares and semi sextile for those you mentioned? Like saturn semi sextile saturn or saturn semi square moon?

Also, what degree do you consider too wide to be relevant in synastry?

Finally, what would you think of bringing chiron into 5th double w? I've been trying to get a clear answer.

Thank you again!

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Thank YOU for your kind words.

Well, I don't really use the semi aspects just because I am so involved with the others and the semis are less powerful. However, everything does matter in the charts.

Chiron overlays--DW may be factors.One would have to see how much soul is in the chart because soul and depth can overcome things like this imo

Soul would be things like Moons and the Child asteroid.

In synastry, you want to weight the closer orbs more such as up to 5 degrees. The wider orbs are more ambient imo

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posted June 09, 2014 09:01 PM            

Venus in sag 1 degree square natal saturn virgo 1 degree this t squares partners venus in Gemini 1 degree (his sun is also 6 degrees Gemini- a loose t square)

posted June 09, 2014 09:27 PM            

Put up the chart and ask the questions and we can see what it says! xx

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posted November 01, 2014 10:29 AM              

Funnily enough, both of our Suns fall into each other's 10 house.

All that good stuff aside, there's a lot of Uranus, Saturn and Mars. They seem to be playing out ALOT at the moment.

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i have move trine moon with someone that I am going through an exceptionally hard time with right now. I've referred to him as my best friend in the pst, but when your best friend hurts you... What can you really do? I know what this aspect feels like though.

Funnily enough, both of our Suns fall into each other's 10 house.

All that good stuff aside, there's a lot of Uranus, Saturn and Mars. They seem to be playing out ALOT at the moment.

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Is it romantic or a friend?

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posted January 24, 2015 04:46 PM              

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Is it romantic or a friend?

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