posted August 21, 2006 10:34 AM              

Observations - both very drawn to each other in beginning of relationship, feeling of 'I know you...', very comfortable wth each other despite having just met, i.e. no fear of complimenting each other or even telling each other 'you're being an ass about this...!' and still not holding a grudge - however tendency for him to pull out into times of silence and non-communication which is often not understood by her.
She often feels like he teaches her about worldly issues, she teaches him about emotional issues.

Any feedback/comments?

Thanx

posted November 23, 2006 10:18 AM              

Why would they fight a lot anyway?

posted April 09, 2007 08:23 PM            

Progressed composite Saturn opposing Chiron. That doesnt sound too friendly.

posted May 20, 2007 03:28 AM            

My Saturn decile (36°) her Sun exact
My Saturn at 163° her chart ruler Moon
My Saturn quincunx her Mercury exact
My Saturn sextile her Mars exact
My Saturn Semi-sextile her Jupiter
My Saturn quincunx her Saturn
My Saturn sextile her Neptune within 4°
My Saturn square her pluto within 5°
My Saturn sextile her Chiron within 6°
My Saturn quincunx her asc exact
My Saturn semi-square her MC
My Saturn trine her S. Node within 5°

Her Saturn quincunx my Sun exact
Her Saturn conjunct my Moon
Her Saturn at 165° my Venus
Her Saturn semi-sextile my Mars within 2°
Her Saturn trine my Jupiter exact
Her Saturn quincunx my saturn
Her Saturn Trine my Neptune exact
Her Saturn sextile my Pluto within 5°
Her Saturn semi-square my asc
Her Saturn quincunx my MC
Her Saturn at 163° my South node

South Node aspects

My S. Node conjunct her Venus within 8°
My S. Node conjunct her POF

Her S. Nodes conjunct Asc within 8°

Transposed houses

My Saturn and Sun in her 8th House
Her Sun and Mercury in my 8th House
There are no planets falling on each others Nadir
There are no planets in 12th transposed houses.

When we first met I felt very comfortable. I have always felt uncomfortable with opposite sex. There is strange sort of emotional attachment with her which I never experienced before. I can feel my Moon conjunct her Saturn aspect very much.

There are a lot of Saturn-personal planet contacts between us which are mainly minor aspects. South node conjunctions are very wide. Only other important karmic contact I can see is my Saturn in her 8th house and our Suns in each others 8th houses.

posted May 20, 2007 07:23 AM            

I hope this will be helpful.

Saturn and Neptune Connections in Karmic Love Relationships - Through Night's Fire Astrology

"So, you've met before...and not only that, but you have been lovers at least once in the past, if not many times over. Your relationship with one another stretches back in time and has shaped and molded you
into the person you are today.

When your eyes met for the first time, you knew he or she was 'it'... that this person before you is your lover. But wait, the lightning can and does strike even without seeing each other! In the Age of Aquarius, karmic lovers are meeting on the web without even the benefit of a picture at first! Yet, the lightning strike is so
powerful, so consuming, so intense, you fall and you fall hard. At first you are floating on air, skyhigh in your romantic bliss...it is a wonderful feeling, is it not? Everything is simply perfect. New
vistas of the divine open before you and you suddenly know that you have never known love before you met this person.

Then reality strikes. One or both of you are married. You live thousands of miles apart. There are children, or perhaps an illness involved. No matter what the complications, and there are bound to be
plenty, you know that somehow you and your newfound (yet old) lover must be. You feel it in your very soul. It is a deep and painful longing, a longing no one else in the world can understand unless they,
too, have met a karmic lover with a Saturn-Neptune connection.

Does it read like a tragedy waiting to happen? Romeo and Juliet? Tristan and Isolde? Guinevere and Lancelot? Chances are, all of these couples, if we could erect a synastry chart for them, would have
a Saturn and Neptune connection...and if not, then they would in the next life in which they meet. Even more likely, the Saturn-Neptune connection would also touch the Sun, Moon, Venus, or Mars in both of
the partner's individual charts.

If you are working a synastry chart and you find this connection, look
for the deeper ties to the personal planets. By noting and examining
the ties to the personal planets, you can can obtain some idea of how
the current relationship is manifesting for each individual and how
they can approach the healing that needs to take place in the current life. The lovers meet again to clear negative karma and to rekindle their love, however briefly the actual relationship lasts. I should mention here that even if the relationship ends quickly, the two lovers will often continue to long for each other no matter who they are with or how far apart they are.

Next, look at the house placements of Saturn and Neptune...this will give some clue as to which area of life brought tragedy in the past, for this aspect is a marker of tragedy...why were these two souls ripped apart so abruptly? In many cases, one of the partners died a
dramatic, sudden death, especially if the 8th house is directly involved. Often their very love for each other was their undoing, and the step towards destruction.

So how does this manifest for the two people currently entangled in such a relationship? So much depends on other factors in their charts and their current circumstances. If they are married to someone else, should they divorce? If they live far apart, should they relocate?
These are tough decisions and it could take years of dedication to one another to make happen.

Often, one partner is terrified of the other after the initial honeymoon (Neptune) phase. When reality (Saturn) hits this partner, his or her emotions may become unbearable and he/she must close down
emotionally out of self-protection. The partner cannot see immediate results emerging out of the connection, and he or she may even sever the ties (at least try to!). Which partner lost whom in the last life together? The person willing to break the connection is often the partner who was left behind, who lost his or her only love. This person may have been punished, forced to marry another, or may have
taken an oath to never, ever, ever love again. A deep, entrenched wound is hindering the growth of this soul. While this soul is hiding and running away from his or her karmic lover, there can be no healing...and the scorned lover is hurt, desolate, and may even give up on
living if he or she is not very spiritual. How can something so wonderful, so beautiful and divine come to such an abrupt halt? Why doesn't he (or she) call? Why the disappearing act?

Karmic astrology can help karmic lovers understand the push-pull effect of their
karmic relationships. It may not end the pain, it may not sweep away the hollow
emptiness left when one karmic lover suddenly deserts the other, but it can help
transform the bitterness left bobbing in the wake of abandonment into something
much more bittersweet...spiritual understanding and acceptance.

Primary Saturn-Neptune contacts to look for:

The opposition is the most prominent. Of course a person could have this contact with many people of about the same age, that is why it is necessary to note the houses and the inner planet contacts. Saturn or Neptune is usually in a 'karmic' house: 1st, 4th, 8th, 10th, 12th (these are the houses I personally use; other astrologers may consider other houses as karmic). Occasionally it may be found that the Sun, Moon, Venus, or Mars is in the karmic house in a close configuration with the Saturn/Neptune connection. Use an orb under 3 degrees for the peripheral karmic house contact if neither Saturn or Neptune is in one of the above houses. The contact to the inner planets can be major or 'minor' hard contacts, including the conjunction, square, semisquare, and
sesiquadrate. The sextile and semisextile also occurs upon occasion.

posted December 22, 2007 04:49 PM              

I think all relationships are "karmic" since they require actions (i.e., "karma") from both people in the relationship in order to work. I don't use parallels and contra-parallels in synastry, so i would not could parallels and contra-parallels in looking at a relationship between two people.

Trying to help,