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Topic: Part III - Venus in the Signs - Lesson 13 - Venus in Cancer
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Cat Newflake Posts: 0 From: USA Registered: Oct 2009
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posted June 17, 2003 02:35 PM
Hi Everyone As I mentioned on the Venus in Gemini string.....I realise that some sign interpretations may come to you easier than others...so I'm starting a couple of strings (one for each sign) in order to move things along .... So this string is for Venus in Cancer. Here's some Cancer keywords to get you started - please post any other keywords that you can think of...... Emotional Loving Intuitive Imaginative Shrewd Cautious Protective Sympathetic Changeable Moody Over-emotional Touchy Clinging Unable to let go Devoted Nuture And if you need to refresh your memory... here's the link to Greg's lesson re Cancer (that was at the beginning of the course).... http://www.consciousevolution.com/Academy/Free/Week4-4.htm For Venus keywords you can refer back to this string...... http://www.linda-goodman.com/cgi-bin/ubb/forumdisplay.cgi?action=dis playprivate&number=12&topic=000082 Sue IP: Logged |
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posted June 19, 2003 09:04 PM
Oooh! This is a good venus placement! yummy-yum-yum! I will get to this one very soon! My Gem darlin' has this placement... he has moon in Scorpio also... I was thinking the protective thing came from that? However, I seen it was one of the keywords for this placement. Hmmmmm... learning more every day! IP: Logged |
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posted June 20, 2003 09:49 PM
Alright here goes.. Someone with venus in cancer may take a while to trust (cancer) someone. They don't let their feelings (venus/cancer?) be easily known. However, once they see they can depend on you, they open up. They are very protective (cancer). Can be a bit jealous (?). Yet, they are incredibly sweet (venus). You understand that they need you (cancer) and that they have a vulnerable quality, that is hidden. They are the type that will be there in the morning (cancer/venus?). They always want to know how you feel (cancer/venus) about things. They want to make you feel comfortable (cancer) and take care of you. They can be a bit mushy (venus) at times. They want to know that they are the only interest in your life. They are not shy about giving you the "I Love Yous" (venus). But hey! With a face and body like that! ... Who cares?!.. Sorry, I added that last bit I'm sure I'll think of more later on... yet, I want to hear about mars also! IP: Logged |
Cat Newflake Posts: 0 From: USA Registered: Oct 2009
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posted June 21, 2003 07:58 AM
Hi Leigh First one to post Good job. Yes as Cancer's natural ruler is the Moon - feelings/emotions/nuturing/wanting to Mother etc are very Cancerian. Sue IP: Logged |
Cat Newflake Posts: 0 From: USA Registered: Oct 2009
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posted June 21, 2003 08:35 AM
Here's some famous people who have Venus in Cancer........Cilla Black James Cagney Rupert Everett Yul Brynner Meryl Streep Lindsay Wagner Camilla Parker Bowles Nancy Reagan Dan Ackroyd Terence Stamp Barbara Stanwyck IP: Logged |
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posted June 21, 2003 01:37 PM
Hi Leigh! You're so objective. Venus in Cancer is sappy. You're cool with mush? You should do just fine. You have more than one placement in Aquarius? Run baby, run like the wind!!! These chaps are sentimental(Cancer/Venus). With a capital S. Also moody (Cancer). With a capital M. Follow the waxing and waning of the moon and you should get an idea of the kind of mood they'll be in tonight. Just as long as you realise there are no guarantees - don't discount the madness(Cancer) in this Venus placement. If Venus in Cancer is besotted by you, you can bet it's not a passing fancy. At first they'll eye you warily - from a distance - fascinated, shy, cautious ...... then they'll crabwalk a couple of inches nearer and stop for a closer look, back away again a step or two, then suddenly creep right up and dig their pincers in so tight you'd have to break them off to make them let go. Aah yes, that brings me to clingy. With a capital C. If you're mushy yourself, Venus in Cancer is right up your alley. You can both sit snugly by the fireplace, watch Dharma and Greg and bawl your eyes out. (a bit of exaggeration, but you get the picture. ) They appreciate the finer things in life(Venus/Cancer). Their taste (Venus) is usually excellent without compromising on 'sensible'(Cancer). Venus in Cancer is a thoughtful, loving, sympathetic (Cancer) mate (Venus) when you need a shoulder to lean on. They seek security (Cancer) in relationships (Venus)and they give just as much back. Venus in Cancer will stand steadfastly by you against the rest of the world if you should need them to. Loyalty is one of their topmost attributes. They will hold your hand when you need encouragement, dance with you when you're happy, kiss away your tears when you're sad, look after you tenderly when you're ill, feed you when you're hungry, feed you when you're not hungry and love you forever and a day. Isn't that a wonderful thing? They can be moody and insecure (Cancer) in their relationships (Venus) sometimes, but just smother them with hugs and big sloppy kisses till the storm clouds of their occasional pessimism disappear and the sun shines through again. They're worth the moodiness and their occasional crankiness because Venus in Cancer will teach you about unconditional (Cancer) love (Venus). And that's really the only kind there is... SunShyne
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Cat Newflake Posts: 0 From: USA Registered: Oct 2009
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posted June 21, 2003 01:48 PM
Wow Sunshyne You really got Venus in Cancer down to a tee I'm thinking you've had some personal experience here????? Sue IP: Logged |
Oxychick unregistered
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posted June 21, 2003 07:23 PM
Wow SunShyne...you paint a very *nice* picture of Venus in Cancer. I dated one (Leo sun) for a couple of years.
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posted June 21, 2003 10:05 PM
See, I don't have to write a great detailed description... it is done for me! One of these days I will figure out just how to put what I think into words! Good job! IP: Logged |
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posted June 21, 2003 10:41 PM
Hi Sue, No, but I've had a Cancer Sun and Moon pursuing me for the last eight years. Funny thing is, he tells me when I say No I really mean NO. Oxy, how does a Leo Sun and a Cancer Venus play out? Did he need to be in control all the time? Thanks, Leigh SunShyne IP: Logged |
Cat Newflake Posts: 0 From: USA Registered: Oct 2009
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posted June 22, 2003 04:02 AM
Hi Leigh Hi Sunshyne Ahhh that explains it....I thought you'd "done a Cancer of some kind" study Sue IP: Logged |
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posted June 22, 2003 05:07 PM
No SunShyne...in fact, when I once asked him who he thought had the pants on in our relationship, he replied that i "not only had pants, but a snowsuit like the eskimos wear too." He had his Leo Sun/Aries Moon front, but always managed to say soemthing sweet (Cancer venus) in clever, witty ways (mercury well placed in Virgo and Mars in Gemini). He had his own ways of saying those sweet things, which I understood naturally. He seemed to really like the airiness about me. IP: Logged |
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posted June 23, 2003 12:56 PM
Wowie, Oxy, you got a Leo Sun/Aries Moon to say that to you??? I take my hat off to you, ma'am! IP: Logged |
Cat Newflake Posts: 0 From: USA Registered: Oct 2009
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posted June 23, 2003 05:46 PM
Hmmm where are all those Venus in Cancer interpretations???? Still hiding in their shells Sue
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posted June 23, 2003 08:46 PM
SunShyne- Are you kidding? His letters always had me in tears, or close to it. Two years later after las seeing each other he writes me one of his letters...and as soon as I started to read I was bawling like a baby. IP: Logged |
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posted June 24, 2003 09:26 AM
Yep, I know all about those letters. Also, coming from a Gemini that enjoys writing to begin with. I get like 3 letters a week! I'm like good grief! IP: Logged |
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posted June 24, 2003 12:20 PM
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posted June 24, 2003 02:58 PM
I know someone with Venus in Cancer. A very tender and sweet sentiment they have. Most of the gifts this person gives out is personal. They like sweet and rich things to eat. Food gifts are a hit with Venus in Cancer, especially gourmet treats. Try Williams-Sonoma or Dean & Deluca IP: Logged |
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posted June 24, 2003 03:01 PM
Thanks for those tips Aphrodite! You're correct.. he loves sweets! One of those that will be grazing in the refrigerator at 4:00 a.m. dipping in the ice cream Also with the gift thing as well. Everyone claims that Geminis are so flighty... not this one . He has a certain sweetness to him when it comes to being romantic. Sort of a shyness I think. IP: Logged |
Cat Newflake Posts: 0 From: USA Registered: Oct 2009
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posted June 24, 2003 05:46 PM
VENUS IN CANCER Affections are devoted, nurturing, makes strong attachments and bonds. Values the home nest, emotions and feelings, gut-level intuition, caring, reciprocity, safety, security, a stable financial base, traditions, family. They attract others with understanding, empathy and caring, providing a safe space for others, offering comfort foods, flowers, gardens, homestead environments, sentimentality, celebrating special occasions. Aesthetic ideals: traditional, comfortable, natural, gardens, houses, edibles, flowers, kitchens and dining rooms, comforters and blankets, cookbooks, restaurants, romances, silver. IP: Logged |
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posted June 25, 2003 01:16 AM
Great work you guys! Be back in the morning with mine ------------------ Love & Light, Melissa IP: Logged |
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posted June 25, 2003 04:52 AM
1scorp, we have something in common, did ya notice? Both have a friend/lover who is a Gem with Venus in Cancer. Hey, but my love doesn't like sweets. He never got it when he was young and he is glad about that (can see his point there). He is very, very thin (not for long as he quit smoking, hehe) and eating is not something like some of you say it should be for a Venus Cancerian (plus Ascendant and Mercury). Nice isn't it, Mercy throwing dirt in the food He also isn't over emotional or moody. He is the sweetest thing I have ever encountered! He does nurture and likes to be very close to you.... YAM ! Maybe I'll be back today with some more about Venus in Cancer. IP: Logged |
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posted June 25, 2003 10:09 AM
I didn't realize that Mercy! My Gem loves to just eat period He's not overweight.. Well, he works out quite a bit so... oh yeah, nice body He has a scorpio moon too... so, I think that may push him into more of an aggressive type of moodiness? Well, to be honest... most gems just seem moody to me. He doesn't cry or anything like that... God forbid someone see him like that! You know how it can be ... tough exterior thing. He's really... well... sweet. IP: Logged |
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posted June 25, 2003 10:52 AM
Scorp! Gems, Gems, Gems. I know but I don't find them so much moody but changable. Like a leaf on a tree and then worse. I have (and I have told this too many times now, it might bore you ) a lot of Gem influence and I am a Cancer with Mars in Cancer too so I am changable ánd moody and it ain't fun. Sometimes it is so bad that I don't trust myself anymore. "Did I say thát?" Well that was then and this is now! Now I think differently! I am talking about last hour... But off the subject that was. Yep....ScorpSWEEEEEEET, that's the key word to me really! For them Cancer Venus's! IP: Logged |
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posted July 01, 2003 07:32 PM
Hello, it's a bit late, but i just thought i'd share. My Venus is in Cancer, and I can agree with a lot of what everyone's written. It takes me a long time to be very secure in love, as that is what i want the most out of a relationship. I've settled for some duds in the past just to get that security, but i haven't been satisfied by that. I require someone who is patient, who will not be afraid by my sudden blisteringly dark moods, and pull my feelings out of me a little occasionally. Just as a side note: To anyone in a relationship with a cancer venus, encourage them to discuss their feelings for you in a very gentle and encouraging manner. I'm currenlty in love and completely unable to express this to my mate as i am shy shy shy (the crab shell is so easy to hide in!!) Anyhow, this is such a great lesson so far, thanks !!!IP: Logged | |