posted October 09, 2012 03:13 AM            

I've noticed that I share these traits as well. I find it intriguing that a lot of us share the same qualities, though there are those who share less or different qualities as well, I assume those are from other signs in their charts

My question to those who have dated us(Virgo Males), why stress over something so hard? You've got to realize it's extremely difficult for some Virgos to display their emotions, we'll tell you how we feel, and that's that. You should believe us. If we love you, don't think that we don't care about you. We mean it when we say that.

If we disappear, it's because we've got a lot on our mind at the time, or we're just not interested in you anymore. Can you think of something that you might have done to cause this? Like insult us, criticize us too harshly, or even make fun of our insecurities? Jokes or not, Virgos are very sensitive beings. You hurt us now, we won't show it until we're alone.

I've noticed that over the years, sad movies/books/whatever else that has some sort of depressing thing in it make me want to cry more and more, I don't know why and I cannot explain it, but I'm starting to have a difficult time holding back a few tears(Men in Black 3 was the worst for me).

posted October 09, 2012 08:17 AM            

Another question is, why do Virgos get such a bad reputation?

posted October 09, 2012 06:29 PM            

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I'm not a bad guy...

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Ahahaha! Aw. Well I dunno, what kinda bad reputation are you thinking of?

posted October 10, 2012 07:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Virgil:
Yeah, I've heard that about the males, along with them being perfectionists, neat and clean, strong physical features, etc.

Another question is, why do Virgos get such a bad reputation?

I don't get it.
I'm not a bad guy...

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Welcome Virgil dear
I have an article I wrote on Virgo. I will put it up for you. You tell me what you think. Be totally honest, as that is how we all learn.

To me, the hardship of Virgo may be that it is thought( by some) to be ruled by the planet Chiron, which is the planet of the wound that does not heal( as goes the original myth)

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posted October 11, 2012 12:37 AM            

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I've read a bunch of posts that say Virgos are cold, emotionless, and self-centered. Only looking out for themselves, etc...

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posted October 17, 2012 01:38 AM            

Here's my chart
Rising Sign: Virgo
Sun: Virgo
Moon: Libra
Mercury: Virgo
Venus: Virgo
Mars: Gemini
Jupiter: Leo
Saturn: Capricorn
Uranus: Capricorn
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio
N. Node: Aquarius

posted October 17, 2012 08:25 AM            

Mine..

Sun: Virgo
Asc: Aqua
Mercury: Virgo (conjunct Sun)
Venus: Libra
Moon: Cancer
Jupiter: Pisces
Pluto: Scorpio

posted October 19, 2012 04:48 PM            

But I am quite the thinker and worrier. I analyze, analyze, analyze. Very Virgo and Aquarius.

I think you have to look at the aspects the chart makes to ones Sun, ASC, Moon. And the placement in the chart. Also, the parallels in the chart can enhance and strengthen aspects. Plus I think the progressed chart is huge. For example, I have 5 planets in Libra in 8th house. This totally affects me deeply I believe.

Sun Virgo
Moon Aquarius
ASC Capricorn
Mercury Virgo
Mars Virgo
Venus Leo
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Cancer
Uranus Libra
Pluto Libra

posted October 20, 2012 03:34 AM            

I was married to a virgo man for over a decade and I am surprised by a lot of what people have said to you. He was actually gregarious and kind and compassionate and would also cry at movies and be the first to help someone in need. Very empathic. I have no clue what his rising sign was. He was particular with details, obsessive even, and worried a lot about some things that were totally in order - like finances. But I knew nothing would slip beneath his radar because he was reliable and meticulous. He had an amazing memory for the things that interested him. Very responsible community member. A strong leader and father.

Now - the reason I left him - the love went (on his end) and we fought a lot over dumb small things. He was still my friend from his end, and he was very angry I wouldn't accept the lack of depth in our emotional connection and he couldn't understand that I was demanding more. On my part I longed for deep connection, and I was angry he wasn't giving it anymore. We were at an impasse. We both had changed over a decade and couldn't be what each other wanted. It was horrible for a few years, but our anger and upset settled down because we both wanted to make it work for the kids. That simple. Maybe very earth signs to say that???!

We now get on very well as co-parents and I still value that he is a responsible person and takes care of small details with the kids so they have what they need. Virgos are very trustworthy with material things, they are good listeners (when they are interested) and are reliable good fathers in my point of view. (Taureans value all of that!)

Aside from the emotional disconnection that happened that I couldn't tolerate, you can see I love and value many things about virgos! I hope this encourages you and you experience the freedom and peace of having a mate who gels well with you and accepts you as you are!!

- Curious Bull

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Originally posted by Virgil:
I've noticed something about us while reading a lot of posts/topics from forums about women/men having troubles with Virgos, and they're all the same problems. Lack of emotions, disappearances, "cold", and a lot of others.

I've noticed that I share these traits as well. I find it intriguing that a lot of us share the same qualities, though there are those who share less or different qualities as well, I assume those are from other signs in their charts

My question to those who have dated us(Virgo Males), why stress over something so hard? You've got to realize it's extremely difficult for some Virgos to display their emotions, we'll tell you how we feel, and that's that. You should believe us. If we love you, don't think that we don't care about you. We mean it when we say that.

If we disappear, it's because we've got a lot on our mind at the time, or we're just not interested in you anymore. Can you think of something that you might have done to cause this? Like insult us, criticize us too harshly, or even make fun of our insecurities? Jokes or not, Virgos are very sensitive beings. You hurt us now, we won't show it until we're alone.

I've noticed that over the years, sad movies/books/whatever else that has some sort of depressing thing in it make me want to cry more and more, I don't know why and I cannot explain it, but I'm starting to have a difficult time holding back a few tears(Men in Black 3 was the worst for me).

Any Virgos feel the same way?

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