posted July 22, 2013 09:52 AM              

~ Even doe i have a dear bf who loves me, i just cant do it anymore.

~Like i wanna help my bf out too, but im broke as well.

All bc of these stupid transits:
Sun conjunct Neptune
Saturn in the 2nd house
Pluto in the 4th house
Uranus in the 7th house
T Saturn squaring my Moon & my Venus soon.

I just feel unhappy and limited. -.-

posted July 22, 2013 05:00 PM              

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Sorry you're going through a tough time, Hannie.

Just hang in there, it will get better ~

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Thx doux !

I mean i wanna help my Venus baby out but he's poor as well and lives on his own, since his parents dont give a shyt bout him..

posted August 06, 2013 03:21 AM            

You and everyone around you are born with a kind of mystical DNA of influences. These influences are unique to each individual. The problem is, that most people do not know this. Astrology and Transits are tools used to help you identify what your mystical influences are about. Astrology and Transits are in essence statistical data that gives you a report on the possible problems and fortunes you may or may not have in life. Astrology and Transits do not dictate or suggest that you will have issues as an absolute fact. So re-frame from thinking that the Transits have caused your problems. Because, they have not.

Transits are actually, your best tool for helping you learn how to navigate through ruff waters. It forewarns you of possible problems and gains. You have to learn now to get yourself into position to get the gains and to give yourself some forethought on how to stay away from potential problems. As you seem to still live with your parents, you are not yet in a position to take full advantage of your actions. You are heading in the right direction, though.

Try and understand your transits better, by getting your own 2014 Transits.
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting#!in-the-closet-astro-tools/c1s43

posted August 17, 2013 08:20 PM            

I've been going on a Neptune transit through my 9th Sun in 2010, when I had my first and unsuccessfull crush, also the most breathtaking... Then Neptune through 9th Saturn, now in Pisces. Blew the hole system, date a guy and he was obsessive and out of control, it got over after 3 months, and I had another 6 months to get over.

Now it's Neptune going back and forth through Mercury and Venus, and sextile Moon. I'm dating a guy I met at college and it's been almost 8 months. He's very attentive and sexy, we have spent really good times together and I feel fine with him, but I'm not totally at ease with him because I feel there misses a lot of communication between us, and we often misread each others minds! It's so frustrating that I try to understand him, but he's not that easy because he has some trouble talking about what he thinks or feels. I do accept it but still I can't get to know him as good as he'd let me. Even 'intuitively', it's so useless because he denies every possible 'guessing' and he gets really mad! It's horrible when he gets mad. There were times I took it to the bottom line and start crying, because it is hard. Well sorry for the dramatic scenario I just wrote, guess it made me feel somewhat relief.

Other major transits are Saturn going through 5th and opposite Moon (conjunct his Ascendant), trine Mercury Venus and Saturn, Jupiter recently conjunct Ascendant, Pluto conjunct Descendant (in 7th with my ex, now back in 6th) Uranus in 10th square Ascendant, weakly 'sextiling' Mars.

While writing this moon was transiting in my Capricorn 7th with Pluto. Mars was opposite my Uranus in 7th too. Funny.

I'm asking, please, help me understand my life, this mess. Thank you

posted August 18, 2013 02:18 AM            

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Originally posted by HannieBananie:
~I'm practically blinded by life
~I desperately need money right now and im short on cash
~My parents are breaking up(if they break up it affects everything at home)
~I can't seem to get a damn job bc all the spots are taken, Jupiter transit didnt help me either
~At school, it isnt going too good either and my mom doesnt even give a crap bc she wont do anything about it, but made me drop out of summer school.
~I wanna leave home but there's no way i'm going back to a shelter, i could stay at my friends, but i just have too many clothes i need to bring and i might need like 4 or 5 luggages with me.

~ Even doe i have a dear bf who loves me, i just cant do it anymore.

~Like i wanna help my bf out too, but im broke as well.

All bc of these stupid transits:
Sun conjunct Neptune
Saturn in the 2nd house
Pluto in the 4th house
Uranus in the 7th house
T Saturn squaring my Moon & my Venus soon.

I just feel unhappy and limited. -.-

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I feel for you. You are having a very hard time right now and much is outside your control, like your parents break up. BUT attitude is everything and if you let yourself get depressed that tends to blind to possibilities for improvement. Also, if you put the blame on other things, like transits, it just makes you feel like a victim. I NEVER want to feel like a victim; I'd much rather think that I've got some "say" in how my life turns out for me.

Here are some quotes from a professional astrologer that I really respect:

One thing is for sure…..regardless of what your astrology is, all you are ever going to get is what you deserve and what you have worked for. There is no planet or measurement to form in your horoscope that will drop favors on you when you haven’t done the work. This is a very important reality to understand. The measurements in astrology that are beneficial are beneficial for those who have done something, for those who deserve it. If you have not put out any effort, have not worked hard on a given path diligently, nothing is going to happen, regardless of astrology.(What you said about the Jupiter transit made me think of this -- many people associate Jupiter with rewards, but it's actually Saturn that rewards hard work.)

Here's another:

Remember, astrology is only a reflection of what you deserve and what you’ve done. These planets don’t make anything happen. Jupiter on your Sun doesn’t mean squat if you have been sitting in the house watching TV every day or if you have been going about your business in a day to day habit, maintaining the status quo without trying to do anything. Opportunity, whether it is business or personal, comes to those who have prepared for it.

So what does all that mean for you right now? You mentioned that your mom made you drop out of summer school. Now how did she do that exactly? Was it that she wouldn't take you to school? Could you have gotten there some other way? Is there a teacher at your school who is willing to intervene? Can you borrow some books and study at home to try and catch up so that you're off to a better start during the next school year?

How can you do better in school next year? Can you make some friends that understand the subject that you struggle with and study with them?

Also, I wouldn't worry about having money to give your bf. It sounds like you've got enough going on in your own life right now. Let that person take charge of their own situation and you focus on taking charge of your own situation.

Do you really NEED to bring all those clothes? And is the situation at home abusive in some way or only unpleasant? If it is truly abusive and intolerable, I don't think you'd be so worried about bringing all your clothes. If the building is on fire, you just leave! If it's only that you don't like it there and want to make a strong statement to your parents because they're splitting, think twice about that. Chances are they are both under a lot of pressure themselves and adding to it would be like trying to put out a fire by throwing gasoline on it!

I'm trying to read between the lines here. I can tell you're unhappy and if you've previously been in a shelter, it sounds like your home life IS seriously bad. But I hope I've given you some ideas on how you can try and work through some of the things that might still be under your control and prioritize the things on your list. What CAN you do? What MIGHT you try? What's only a distant hope?

God give me the power to change the things that I can change, to accept the things I cannot change, and the wisdom to know the difference. That is a prayer of "Saint Francis" but I think it would be a good one for you at this time in your life. Blessings.