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Topic: Based on my chart ....
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ScorpionAz
Newflake Posts: 17
From: Mesa, AZ
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 21, 2013 04:42 PM
  
I'm new to the astrology stuff. I just did a chart yesterday. I was curious about my chart and what it says about relationships, marriage, family? 
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ScorpionAz
Newflake Posts: 17
From: Mesa, AZ
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 21, 2013 04:59 PM
Also .. this is my on and off again boyfriend's chart. I know our sun signs aren't compatible (Aquarius and Scorpio) and everything I've read about us together is accurate ... but I'm wondering what the other components of our charts indicate? Are we doomed? We can't seem to stay away from each other, for some reason. I didn't know his time of birth. Thanks for any input.HIS:
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Doux Rêve
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posted August 21, 2013 06:41 PM
Based on your chart, it seems that you are a very caring, nurturing person who's also quite emotional but doesn't like showing it.
You can have some odd mood swings or moments where you "detach" and cool off emotionally, which can be surprising for people close to you.
Close relationships mean a lot to you and you need a partner in life in order to truly feel safe and cared for.
Friends may be quite few and social interactions sometimes dissatisfying, but you can usually count on some trusted friends.Your work may mean a lot to you and you may have good relations with your co-workers.
You may pay attention to your health, though that's not a necessity, because it may appear that you're quite lucky in that respect.
Job opportunities may be quite numerous. It's possible that you have (or had) some self-esteem issues and problems asserting yourself, which could lead to some frustration / resentment or irritability.
If you don't openly acknowledge your aggressiveness, you may attract people (especially men) who in turn don't treat you well.
You may have encountered some angry, or even abusive people in your life, that have forced you to stand up for yourself and develop a healthy ego. You may be attracted to the idea of sharing your life deeply with another person, being intimate and emotionally close to them, but at the same time a part of you is scared or being vulnerable and may shy away from true intimacy - maybe you attract unavailable men that prevent you from fully opening up, or you're the one running away and coming back. The answer lies in yourself and your subconscious fears and beliefs!
If you open yourself to the idea of giving love without being afraid of being rejected, you'll grow stronger. Hope this helps. Oh and the man's chart shows that he has a deep effect on you and may have the upper hand.. IP: Logged |
ScorpionAz
Newflake Posts: 17
From: Mesa, AZ
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 21, 2013 11:48 PM
WOW! Just wow! That's amazingly accurate.
It actually brought tears to my eyes. Talk about emotional! LOLThanks so much for the input. Oh and what you said about his chart ... right on point .. and it makes me crazy (him having the upper hand/control). His emotional distance and sometimes outright coldness, just makes ME feel out of control. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 22, 2013 08:58 AM
Aw, I'm glad you could relate!
And you're welcome.Okay here's the thing.. If you're with someone who makes you feel powerless or bad.. you should reconsider your relationship.
Life is too short to stay in an unhappy relationship, regardless of your feelings.
I know it's hard when you're really into someone but you have to think of yourself first.
Are you happy?
If not, then try to work things out with your SO by expressing your feelings so that you can come to a compromise.
If that doesn't work, something is obviously wrong and you should consider leaving that person behind for your own good. Takre care ~ IP: Logged |
ScorpionAz
Newflake Posts: 17
From: Mesa, AZ
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 22, 2013 02:01 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Aw, I'm glad you could relate!
And you're welcome.Okay here's the thing.. If you're with someone who makes you feel powerless or bad.. you should reconsider your relationship.
Life is too short to stay in an unhappy relationship, regardless of your feelings.
I know it's hard when you're really into someone but you have to think of yourself first.
Are you happy?
If not, then try to work things out with your SO by expressing your feelings so that you can come to a compromise.
If that doesn't work, something is obviously wrong and you should consider leaving that person behind for your own good. Takre care ~
Thanks! I just feel like he's holding the cards in the relationship -- things on his terms. I know we both have controlling parts of our personalities. I have reconsidered and over analyzed the relationship to death. I just can't seem to let go of him -- permanently. I have tried to express my feelings. But as you know, Aquarians aren't so good with "feelings". I think my emotions scare the crap out of him. Whenever I've tried to get closer to him, he retreats. The more he retreats, the harder I try, which I know just makes it worse. It's a constant "hot and cold" roller coaster ride. I know that I probably have a higher than average desire to "get close" to my man and I really TRY not to smother him but it seems like no matter how much I back off, it's never enough "space" for him. Like I said, everything on his terms. He'll make the effort to get close for a little while then retreats again. It's like he desires love and intimacy deep down but I think the thought of actually following through with it terrifies him. What I've seen in the few rare glimpses he's given me is a vulnerable and scared man. He always acts tough and has that alpha type persona .. but I've seen tears in his eyes during our worst fights. I just don't know anymore. Sometimes Love aint enough .... IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 22, 2013 05:46 PM
I know what you mean, ScorpionAz.
I think a lot of people experience a relationship like that..Whatever you choose to do, I hope you'll find peace within.  Stay strong and true to yourself!! Best wishes! ~ IP: Logged |
ScorpionAz
Newflake Posts: 17
From: Mesa, AZ
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 22, 2013 09:56 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I know what you mean, ScorpionAz.
I think a lot of people experience a relationship like that..Whatever you choose to do, I hope you'll find peace within. Stay strong and true to yourself!! Best wishes! ~
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