posted May 23, 2014 12:18 AM            

I just have questions about this cancer guy. I've asked starting from my POM, synastry aspects, & relationships commonalities. I thought the guy of my dreams would be a fire sign for sure…but he's cancer sun, pisces moon, cancer asc or leo asc. I know his birth time but not the exact minute. He just told me simply 7am and the city.

The only fire was
neptune-sag
north node- leo
venus-leo & possibly the ascendent but I think it's most likely cancer
mc-aries
his venus (leo) & moon (pisces) falls in my 7th house (my 7th house in cancer, my venus in 7th house natal, my venus is in leo)

some of the free synastry reports pointed out how he'd have influences from certain aspects that could contribute subtle emotional manipulation on his part. I'm not a stranger to that, especially when it comes to the pisces in moon grasp.

One thing I also found out, we both realized the connection within a couple (the depth of it), but we were afraid to approach each other because of the intensity. This isn't the push me pull me thing either. HIs warmth is what attracted me the most. The way he came off was charming & he appeared so poised to me.

I also thought I'd attract fire since I have a leo stellium, but I think he's more emotional than anything (sensitive, but covers it really well or at least thinks he does)

I could almost barely talk when he'd come around. When he approached me I observed his every move If anyone wants to see the synastry chart that would help. I feel like I can tell him anything, but he moves SOOOOOOO sloooooooooooow. He's so indecisive. Talk about patience, but damn. I think the whole , "I love my independence" did bit was dumb! He shows every sign of a nurturer. He's in one word amazing, but this whole becoming friends first is kind of leaving me frustrated & impatient.

Any experience with Cancer/Virgo, doesn't matter the other sign placements, I'd just LOVE to read some! Any insight would do