posted March 12, 2015 10:09 PM            

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posted March 13, 2015 02:51 PM            

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Originally posted by CuriousV:
Thank you, Astra. Wow, is it really that bad? Do we have any positive aspects going on to balance out the bad ones? Would you say there are more positives or more negatives? Or you see so many harsh aspects that even if hypothetically both people wanted to be in this relationship, it would still be too much work to overcome those and so relationship is kinda doomed from the start?

And finally, you said "you have no idea what the lesson is. I do" - What do you mean by "I do?" You know what my lesson is supposed to be if I decide to pursue a relationship with this man by just looking at our synastry?

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If you both want this relationship, then why not!? I suppose you could have an attitude and think that nothing last in this world so enjoy while you can?

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Originally posted by CuriousV:
And also, Astra, in the line up that you mentioned:

- Saturn conj. vertex/Chiron
- Pluto sq Moon
- Pluto conj. NN
- Saturn opp. Venus
- Venus opp Chiron
- Sun conj. SN

who is the first planet and who is the second? Do you mean HIS Saturn conj MY Vertex and Chiron? His Pluto sq my Moon? And so forth? Just trying to understand so I can better related whose planet is whose when I read on these aspects.

And also, is the last one - Sun conj. South Node or what is SN?

As always, thanks a million!

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

I see how this would be a great relationship, at first, and you may feel like best friends.

It would prolly feel really close and really bonded, quite fast.

I am not sure it would last, though.

If the Moons are closely conjunct, it may.

If not, I would not think it would.

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posted March 17, 2015 02:49 PM            

1) Juno conj. Moon DW – what does that mean? And what is DW?
2) Sun trine Moon – Is it HIS sun and MY moon? Does it mean we are in sync as far as our moods/desires go?
3) Venus opp. Chiron – Again – is it His Venus opp. MY Chiron or vice versa? This was mentioned as a negative aspect…Does it mean that romantically we are incompatible?
4) Pluto square Moon – Does it mean that he is the Pluto and he affects me as the moon person, my moods/desires? If so – is it a negative aspect?

And lastly, but probably most importantly, I am interested in:

***Pluto conj. NN***

I am assuming HE is the Pluto person and I am the Moon & NN person. I’ve read a little bit on this and from what I could gathered, this is the most intense and “will change you forever” kind of relationship that one can ever have. I feel that I am so into him, almost obsessive like thinking/dreaming, etc. and this is driving me crazy, because I think it’s definitely too soon/weird to be feeling like this about someone I’ve known for 2-3 months and not really having established that deep emotional bond (we haven’t spent that much time together and have not seen each other in like 1,5 months now that he has shut me out). I feel that my emotions come and go in waves. Some days I feel at peace with the thought that he is probably not all that interested in me. Then, I get mad at him for being so distant and in my head I say “to hell with you, I don’t need you.” And then there are days, where I just can’t shake him off and I miss him so much…sometime it’s too much and emotions take over me and I cry…All I want is just for us to see each other and I picture a specific moment where it’s me hugging him and just standing there like that, for a while. I can actually physically feel what it would feel like for us to be so close to each other. The feeling is pretty overwhelming. I know I am not crazy, but it feels like only a crazy person would feel something so deeply, something which hasn’t really happened…

The only time I felt such interest/intensity/longing for someone was my first love which was 20 years ago when I was 15. It was such an obsessive, love/hate, leave/can’t be without you type of relationship for over 3 years. I definitely never experienced anything of that sort since (but maybe ALL first loves feel like that because it’s the first, lol). Then another time, about 10 years ago, I was pretty obsessed about a man and that went on and off for about a year, at which point I just gave up because it was very clear that he didn’t want to be in a relationship with me.

And now this guy….it’s pretty unsettling and I can’t understand why I am feeling this way about needing to be with him…Is it really because of the Pluto/Moon square & Pluto/NN conjunction we have?

Would he be also feeling this “pull” and intensity, longing for something with me since he is the Pluto? Or is the Pluto person not being affected by the strong feelings and deep emotions towards the Moon person?

I am just trying to make a sense of why he has been keeping distant, although he did respond to my message a couple of days ago and I am sensing that he doesn’t want for our connection to break off completely, like there is something that he is also feeling, yet, he is not very eager to move things forward with me. Sometimes, I feel like I just know when he is thinking about me, hard to explain. And there was one time when I texted him and he said – how funny, you came to my mind specifically this morning (that was after us not talking for days before). But I am feeling like I am the one being overwhelmed with all these feelings of wanting to be with him, like there is something that I can’t quite put my finger on, but I can’t just discard the fact that we had to meet for a reason. I can’t seem to just say – he is not interested and walk away considering the way he’s been acting with me…HELP!!!