posted April 30, 2017 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by dreamscomeslow:
the three longest female friendships ive ever had have all been aquarius sun. i learned through the aid and kindness of others on this forum that my descendant falls on the cusp of capricorn and aquarius so that may be why. i've also got a venus in air.

two of these girls i am still friends with today. in fact to this day they remain my two closest. they are the humanitarian right, so while controversial and sometimes catty, they're trying to help. they want to better people and society and lack diplomacy but the point is they are not ill intentioned or uncaring. they probably care more than a lot of people. these are "strong personality" type people. one of the friends im talking about does not fit the negative stereotype often enough to be labeled. she is soft spoken, graceful, dreamy, and inspired. I'll look at her chart later and post her moon if I get a chance... i think we have trines and such with neptune, pluto, etc. she might be on the cusp of cap/aqua actually.

The second one fits the sterotype a bit more but she is still quite young and learning. knowing her chart has helped me navigate my part of the friendship very much. i find her to be incredily loyal... the most loyal friend i have... and she is also insensitive and doesn't really take a hint but she is almost water void. i am equal parts water and earth natally with equal parts void fire and air (about 2 or 4 percent) and the exact same for her except the other way around. her rising gemini compliments my venus. my moon conjucts her venus. her moon and my mercury are trine. she is moon in leo. i find her insights to be very valuable and vice versa. she is a caring aqua woman so they do exist.

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posted May 05, 2017 10:52 PM            

Are we speaking of the Sun Aquarius or Ascending one? Is this just in general?
I find the rising one more aggressive with a tendency towards mean spirited, which could be other aspects within them. Aquas are aggressive generally. I'm one and have been told I'm assertive. Who knows, maybe I come off as pushy.lol

Aloof is an adjective used with this sign.

posted May 06, 2017 02:37 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
Hi Tanyaj.

Are we speaking of the Sun Aquarius or Ascending one? Is this just in general?
I find the rising one more aggressive with a tendency towards mean spirited, which could be other aspects within them. Aquas are aggressive generally. I'm one and have been told I'm assertive. Who knows, maybe I come off as pushy.lol

Aloof is an adjective used with this sign.

It has been said by a couple online astrologers, Aquas are pretty well different. They tend to differ a lot from one another, aside from bring vieeed ss weitd. The Uranian nature.

I hope the Aquas you meet in the future are kinder to you!

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posted January 28, 2021 06:39 AM            

The only time I think I may have been regarded as a bully is when I see people either trying to impose themselves on others, impose themselves on me, or behaving in a way which endangers others (this includes emotionally, physically, psychologically). I find bullying abhorrent and have never backed down in the face of it.

No one in my real life has ever accused me of bullying. Headstrong, stubborn, dogmatic at times and wilful? Yes. Bully? Never. I befriended 'the underdogs' all throughout high school and intercepted many incidents of bullying because I couldn't bear to watch it. One of those 'underdogs' became my best friend and one became my first boyfriend. I regard myself as an underdog, but I'm less affected by what other people do to me, so I was able to protect myself better. And I am a Chinese water dog

I can be fearless if I think someone else is being treated unfairly or cruelly. This is amplified by my Libra stellium. The quest for universal love and utopia is not without conflict

I have a very vulnerable centre though that few people ever see. My heart melts or breaks every day, but experience has taught me to be very careful who you show your soft underbelly to.