posted January 02, 2021 11:48 PM            

My south node conjunct his mars
My sun conjunct his south node
My sun conjunct his chiron
My sun conjunct his descendant
My moon conjunct his descendant
My ascendant conjunct his ascendant
My mc conjunct his mc
My venus conjunct his antivertex
My venus conjunct his pof
My saturn conjunct his sun
My mars square his vertex
My vertex square his venus
and so on...These are the "strongest" ones, i think.

But the funny fact is:
My chiron opposite his sun
My pof square his chiron

posted January 15, 2021 07:36 PM            

The reason I ask is that it depends on how tight these aspects are and also how they're all interacting with each other.

However, if those south node aspects are really tight, it does seem like there is some past life karma being worked out here. There's something to do with (your) ego and (his) aggression in a past life. How that played out depends on the signs and houses. For instance, if a Cancer sun conjuncts someone's SN in Cancer, the sun person may have been the SN person's mother in a past life. Or if one person's Mars in their 10th house conjuncts someone's SN in their 6th house, the Mars person may have been a domineering boss in the workplace, or vice versa.

I would also look to the rulers of the south nodes and what they're up to in order to get a fuller picture.

posted January 15, 2021 09:38 PM            

Thank you for your interest. Here are the links. I really hope they work hahaha

Synastry Chart: http://imgur.com/tJvXZv3

Composite Chart: http://imgur.com/P6VkUM7

posted January 16, 2021 12:12 AM            

What's jumping out at me is the grand trines. In the synastry, this is a water trine with Venus, the Sun, and Pluto. No wonder you have this intense deep sexual connection! That sounds really lovely - I imagine there is lots of intimacy and emotional connection in your sex life and the way you identify with one another. I can't tell who is outer and who is inner. It also looks like there is a T-square between the outer person's moon, the inner person's Mercury, and your Neptunes conjunct in Capricorn. So there may be some delusional idealism through one person's communication there. This is where you would get stuck, with one person's fiery emotions rooted in self/ego (Aries moon - I'm an Aries moon too and I find it is a strong but double-edged sword!) and the other person's communication style which may be too emotional sometimes (Cancer Mercury), especially being that it's in a weak angle to the other person's Aqua Mercury. Definitely communication is something to stay aware of, with one being more emotional and the other more intellectual. I see the outer person's Chiron is also being triggered here.

With the composite there is another grand trine, this time in Earth. Jupiter in Virgo in the 4th; Neptune/Uranus in Cap in the 9th; and a cluster of Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Taurus in the 1st. So this might ground you in a really helpful way, together you may become more grounded as the relationship develops. You'll learn to climb out of the watery depths and walk on land once in awhile with the rest of us mortals lol. It looks like high ideals and expansion through higher learning, perhaps studying together or at home, leading to people perceiving you as a couple as being very stable, sensual, yet intellectual and strong. These planets and their dynamic definitely add a strong intellectual component on top of the watery grand trine of the synastry.

The grand trine in the synastry is going to be where you bounce off of one another while the trine in the composite is where you go together, if that makes sense... Where you mutually indulge one another and maybe get carried away but it's fun.